MUST READ – Reasons Men Look At Other Women And How To Address It

A single woman in her late 40s/early 50s was on a date with her gentleman-friend at a semi-formal event. They were holding hands. But his neck was on swivel…looking at a bunch of other women. She noticed it but didn't say anything at the moment. She waited until they got outside. Then she told him in a polite yet determinant way that 'I don't play that. That's disrespectful'.

He was like, "What? Girl…you trippin'!"
So she was like, 'Whateva!
But you're not gonna disrespect me when we're out together.'

So she stopped seeing him. Was she right? It depends.
After she told me this story, she asked me, "Why do men look at other women, even when they are out with someone?" This is what I told her. (caveat: this is an explanation not a justification.)
From the time of pre-teens, men were socialized to admire females' bodies. 'She gotta phat b*tt.' 'She has big chest' is the standard conversation that goes on among boys in school, on the block, on the phone…everywhere. This fixation intensifies through the pubescent years of high school, the s*xual exploratory days of college, and through the youthful folly of their 20's. Looking at other women has grown into an automatic, involuntary response to a female stimulus, like saying 'amen' to a preacher who's preaching a good sermon.

Enter the love of his life. Now, he's expected to stop looking at everyone else and focus his attention solely on one person. Noble…indeed. But his challenge is, he has to consciously retrain himself to stop doing a very natural involuntary response to a female stimulus that he's been doing more than half his life.

There are three types of men in this regard. Jack is able to control himself and not check out every woman that crosses his path. Sam tries, but finds it very difficult. He's the one that tries to act like he's not looking, but is obviously checking her out. And then there's Mike. Mike doesn't care. He looked, is looking, and will look again. And there's nothing you can say or do to stop him.

Ladies, if you are in a relationship with Jack, you've got yourself a man that has retrained himself not to check out every woman. Keep him. He is considerate and cares about your feelings.

If you're with Sam, be aware that he's not intentionally doing something to you. He's just doing something that comes automatically natural to him…like an 'amen' at church. This was me for the first year of our marriage. I didn't realize I was still looking at other women until I got tired of my wife 'trippin' about it. I had to really check myself. And she was right. So I made an intentional effort to stop because I cared for her feelings. Be patient with Sam. Let him know how you feel about what he's doing and give him an opportunity to change his behavior. But show some empathy for his plight and give him grace to change over time. It's an unrealistic expectation to expect him to stop cold turkey, a decade-long automatic behavioral pattern over night.

If you're with Mike, he's a lost cause. He likes looking at other women. It gives him a dopamine high and he doesn't want to stop. The only way he will stop is if he decides to. If you're dating him, don't expect anything other than what you're already getting. Consider this a warning. If you're married to him, this issue is the least of your problems.

Like I said, I'm not justifying this as appropriate behavior in order to get you to accept it. But you do have to accept that some men aren't intentionally doing something to you, in spite of how it might feel. For those men, me included, if you are patient with them and get them to see how it makes you feel, then they will respect your feelings and, over time, cut back on looking at other women.

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Music: Somebody by NwaKorrekt prod by Pjay

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Music: Ise yen freestyle Tonyflex ft Gee Molly @dreal_tonyflex

Arab Gang Ent General tonyflex returns with this freestyle on sarz ise yen cover. He follows the likes of some of naija rap lords like phenom in ensuring that the beat doesn't go unpunished.DOWNLOAD

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The Four Major Causes Of Smelly Private Part In Women

One of the major things that can frustrate a woman is odor and most women has the issue of femimine odor, which can leave your feeling gross and unclean. There are many causes of this issue but Here are 4 major causes of smelly private part. They are:

YEAST INFECTION:

A yeast infection very common, Many women are victims. They present signs like BV, as well as addition of a white thick discharge. To treat yeast infection, you need with one- or three-course vaginal anti-fungal treatments, so avoid any antibiotics as they will not cure it. You can find them in any medical store around.Also one thing about treating yeast infection is that those treatments always get messy, so the best option is to use them overnight.

BACTERIAL VAGINOSIS:

Just like yeast infection, bacterial vaginosis (BV) is the most and very common cause of vaginal odor. Every woman v**ina naturally is filled with occurring bacteria, and the overgrowth of those occuring bacteria is BV. It is common in women especially in their reproductive years which the experts says, they experience at least one case of bacterial vaginosis. Acoording to experts the cause is yet to be known but frequent douching and unprotected s*x can put a woman at a higher risk. Other signs and symptoms include soreness, itching and discharge. Thou it is said the some BV issue go on their own but I recommends that every women with BV symptoms should visit their doctor for treatment to prevent serious complications and be care of where you take your medication. As Treatment for bacteria viaginosis is as simple as a course of antibiotics.

SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES:

Some STD's can cause smelly private part, such as chlamydia and gonorrhea which are the most common. They are very common and easy to treat, but can cause alot complications if not properly treated. One important thing to note is that both diseases are not quickly diagnosed because they may not produce symptoms. Some of the major symptoms of Chlamydia and gonorrhea are pus-like discharge and painful urination as well as unpleasant odor. So I recommend you see a doctor if you are experiencing any of the above symptoms and also tell your husband to go for a test.

PELVIC INFLAMMATORY DISEASE

The Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) normally occurs when bacteria pass into the uterus through v*gina. PID is often not daigonise late-stage result of an STD like chlamydia. Pelvic inflammatory disease is usually not diagnosed until you start to experience trouble getting pregnant or chronic pain as sometimes it does not show symptoms. If PID show symptoms some of them are pelvic pains, odor, painful intercourse, heavy discharge,fatigue fever or painful urination. It can also be treated with antibiotics. If you are experiencing any of these problems, the best option is too see a medical doctor for proper medication and treatment.
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How To Know She Has Been Lying To You That She’s A Virgin

People have several different reasons for having relationships which may include companionship, friendship, marriage and what have you.
However, some ingredients such as trust and faith are essential for its survival. Knowing if that one person you cared about told you the truth about her virginity is perhaps key to the development of the relationship and although it may be easy as you grow more and garner experience, it is usually difficult at first.
It is a well known fact that spotting if she's a Virgin is best determined through direct inspection as most times, it is difficult to distinguish virgins and non-virgins behaviourally.
More often than not, ladies that flirt a lot are most certainly not virgins so are the attractively shy and conservative ones too. For this reason, we present to you some telltale signs that you can snap up to determine if that girl with you remains intact.

Medical Examination

This perhaps is the best way yet to know if your girl is still a virgin. This involves checking the Hymen. This method however comes with a caveat as many ladies will be offended at a suggestion of a medical examination most especially if the idea is brought up in a less private place. More so, the presence or absence of the Hymen is not a concrete determinant of virginity.
There are several activities that could cause a ladies hymen to break without prior sexual intercourse. Rigorous athletic activities or the use of sex toys could do damage to the hymen. Though we all know that any lady using sex toys is probably having sex.
Also, some ladies may have their hymen intact despite having previously had sex. This factor can be attributed to the ladies making out with guys with small Penises. Despite the exceptions which are usually far between, the presence of an intact hymen is a fairly accurate method of determining her virginity.

Attitude and Behaviour

Just like our personalities can be determined by our attitude and behaviour, so can you get a clue of female virginity from these.
There are attitudinal clues that may indicate virginity. Some of these may include the religious background of the lady, moral uprightness and ideologies.
Though it appears that religion, morals and feminism are squarely against sex for different reasons.
Some believe sex is wrong as they see it as a form of exploitation while others consider it a sin when done outside marriage.
It is however apparent that a display of any of these characteristics might be an indication of virginity.
Furthermore, some Psychologists have said that a lot of ladies do not stay as virgins for the reasons they put forward. Some have been said to remain virgins as a result of ugliness and decide to stay as virgins because they do not want to become cheap by sleeping with some one that is not of their social strata. Thus, for this reason, they justify their staying off sex by declaring sex as immoral.

Birth control pills

Well, you wouldn't see a virgin take birth control pills now, or would you? Seeing packs of birth control pills in her cabinet or purse is an indication she is no longer a virgin. Why is she trying to stop a pregnancy I'd she's not doing it? Most probably, if she is testing for sexually transmitted infections then she definitely has had sex. For her to be testing for HIV, Hepatitis or Syphilis means she has had it with a guy and worried if she will get an infection from a prior intercourse. Appearance
Obviously, a girl doesn't need to be pretty before she has sex nor does she have to be fat and ugly as there are a million and one guys out there willing to sleep with anything that has a hole.
If a lady is pretty, the chances of her being a virgin is slim except she is a feminist or a religious buff but she may still be having sex though.
However, most girls that remain virgins are often times ugly but note that not all ugly girls are virgins. An example are prostitutes who appear ugly most times and have had a huge amount of sex. Thus, appearance can only be employed as a method of dismissing virginity claims and not confirming it.

Skin colour

Her skin colour could help you determine her virginity.
Virgins tend to have soft and fairer skins than their non virgin counterparts. Ladies that have made out tend to have darker and more coarse skins. If you're a virgin, then you might perhaps want to control the amount of makeup you put on.
People most times see girls that use makeups as non-virgins and sluttier than ladies that don't.
Finally, there is no hard and fast rule to determining virginity but if you're so keen about it, follow the clues above and enjoy your life.
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Music: Mixtape: Dj Krishnnad – Banging Ringing Tunez #BRT || @DjKrishnnad @Afronaija_com

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Guys, These are the 4 excuses women often give just to AVOID sex – Know them now!

4 excuses women often give just to AVOID sex– For guys, one of the benefits of being in a long-term relationship is that you have a woman that you can depend on for regular sex. Some women have sex with a guy in the beginning of the relationship to "land him," but once they have him where they want him, they don't feel that they need to have sex with him anymore.

1. "I'm too tired"

Maybe your woman isn't interested in sex because she is just overwhelmed with obligations lately, i.e. work, workouts, classes, cleaning the apartment and cooking you dinner. It may also be a case of you wanting to do it more often than she does, and she just can't keep up. Other life demands might be stressing her out and keeping her busy too, making her too worn out to enjoy sex as often as you'd like. Although she may be tired from all these activities, this line could also be translated as "You're not worth staying awake for"

2. "I'm not in the mood"

Could be a good reason, especially if she's sick, irritated or just simply having a bad day. On the other hand could also be translated as "You don't get me off anymore". If your girlfriend refuses to have sex with you, it could be that she's tired of the same routine every time and simply has lost interest in sex with you. So instead of telling you what's wrong, she might just close up shop.

3. "I've got a headache"

Having a headache once in awhile is okay, that means it's a real reason; however, having that same headache every time you initiate turns in to excuse and translates into her simply withholding sex from you.

4. "I'm mad at you"

The last thing a woman wants to do when she's mad, sad, frustrated, annoyed is get busy between the sheets. Probably the most common reason that women withhold sex, most women cannot be intimate with a man they're angry with. When your girlfriend is mad at you, the solution is to find out why she's upset and try to fix it. Sometimes simply acknowledging that you've done something wrong is enough to make her calm down.
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6 Health Benefits of sex doctors will never tell you – This will leave you in a big shock!

6 Health Benefits of sex– Can being single be dangerous for your health? Shocking new science suggests the answer is, "Yes." That's a surprise to many people, says Joy Davidson, PhD, a New York psychologist and sex therapist.

Sex does a body good in a number of ways, according to Davidson and other experts. The benefits aren't just anecdotal or hearsay — each of these 10 health benefits of sex is backed by scientific proof:

1. Sex Relieves Stress

Feel relaxed after intercourse? You're not alone: sex leads to lower blood pressure and overall stress reduction, according to researchers from Scotland. Their study – reported in the journal Biological Psychology – took 24 women and 22 men and asked them to keep records of their sexual activity.
The results? Those subjects who had intercourse also had less stress during stressful situations like public speaking and verbal arithmetic. (They also had a lower blood pressure response to stress.)

2. Sex Boosts Immunity

Good sexual health may mean better physical health. Having sex once or twice a week can give you higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A or IgA, which can protect you from getting colds and other infections. Scientists at Wilkes University in Wilkes-Barre, Pa., took samples of saliva, which contain IgA, from 112 college students who reported the frequency of sex they had.

Those in the "frequent" group — once or twice a week — had higher levels of IgA than those in the other three groups — who reported being abstinent, having sex less than once a week, or having it very often, three or more times weekly.

3. Sex Burns Calories

Thirty minutes of sex burns 85 calories or more. It may not sound like much, but it adds up: 42 half-hour sessions will burn 3,570 calories, more than enough to lose a pound. Doubling up, you could drop that pound in 21 hour-long sessions.

"Sex is a great mode of exercise," says Patti Britton, PhD, a Los Angeles sexologist and president of the American Association of Sexuality Educators and Therapists. It takes work, from both a physical and psychological perspective, to do it well, she says.
"And if you're not having enough, it may be dangerous for your health" says Benjamin Klein, head researcher. "This video seems to help men understand our findings. Which helps them have more casual sex."

4. Sex Improves Heart Health

While some older folks may worry that the efforts expended during sex could cause a stroke, that's not so, according to researchers from England. In a study published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, scientists found frequency of sex was not associated with stroke in the 914 men they followed for 20 years.

And the heart health benefits of sex don't end there. The researchers also found that having sex twice or more a week reduced the risk of fatal heart attack by half for the men, compared with those who had sex less than once a month.

5. Sex Boosts Self-Esteem

Boosting self-esteem was one of 237 reasons people have sex, collected by University of Texas researchers and published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior.

That finding makes sense to Gina Ogden, PhD, a sex therapist and marriage and family therapist in Cambridge, Mass., although she finds that those who already have self-esteem say they sometimes have sex to feel even better. "One of the reasons people say they have sex is to feel good about themselves," she tells WebMD. "Great sex begins with self-esteem, and it raises it. If the sex is loving, connected, and what you want, it raises it."

6. Sex Helps You Sleep Better

The oxytocin released during orgasm also promotes sleep, according to research.
And getting enough sleep has been linked with a host of other good things, such as maintaining a healthy weight and blood pressure.

If you've ever had trouble having "enough" sex – don't worry!
Science has also come up with a way to add some spice to your sexual life. Just ask Benjamin Klein, lead researcher for Pandora's Box.
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7 types of secret crush you all will always have but will never admit to out loud!

7 types of secret crush you all will always have– Crushes are a part of our life. Secretly, we all keep a little corner for the 'special ones.' We don't want much from the crushes but their presence definitely makes us elated.

So here is a list of crushes that women-men would never admit to out loud because it's so 'inappropriate' but secretly their behaviour changes when those 'special ones' are around…do read ..

1. The stranger
You coincidentally meet this guy everywhere: near your house, at the grocery shop, when you take the dog out for a walk, or when you go out for shopping with your mom – you see him everywhere. Eventually, you start dressing up nicely for the stranger and you make sure that your hair looks perfect, even when you go to the market to run an errand.

2. The boss
If you are fortunate enough ever to have a happy-go-lucky, smiling, hot boss (lucky you!) then to have a crush on that corporate creature is natural. Here's the upside: That may actually make you feel more motivated to do good work, to earn an appraisal and praise from him…all so that he notices you.

3. The brother's friend
This type of a crush brutally breaks the bro (or friend) code, but at the same time it's the most fascinating type of crush too. Thanks to your brother/friend, because of him/her you get to meet him more often and secretly enjoy his company. And one more thing, disclosure of this type of crush can actually lead to much trouble!

4. The teacher
Aside from home, we actually spend most of our time in school, tuitions and college, with our teachers. Teachers give us advice, shower their affection, and think of our betterment, so getting attached to your teacher is natural but sometimes in you unintentionally shape our attachment in form of a crush. This could be dangerous as well, so tread carefully. But you could use it to your advantage by doing well in academics to gain his/her attention.

5. Best friend's boy friend
You act like a third wheel in your best friend's relationship; she shares every single thing with you about her guy. You secretly start admiring him as you like they way he expresses his love for her, and how he cares for her. Gradually, you start to wish for the same kind of partner and sooner than you think, he becomes your crush. Obviously, you can't even discuss this with your bestie! Sometimes this type of crush turns into slush when you start scheming in your mind to separate them.

6. The distant cousin
He is your 'door ka rishtedar' who you meet only at all the family functions and celebrate most festivals with, hence developing a liking for him/her. This type of crush actually makes you more social in the family, because to meet him more often you visit your relatives. You even start contributing more to the family work, only to impress him.
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The fastest ways to heal after a break up – You need to see this!

Fastest ways to heal after a break up - We have all had our hearts broken. When it happens to you personally, it's devastating and while people can relate, they aren't in that moment. The pain is there and it's real for you. Sometimes it feels like you're completely helpless and you'll never get past the suffering.

The important things to remember are that there are people there for you and that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel and ways to help you get there. Here are a few ways to assist you on your road to peace and happiness again.

1. Don't Contact The Ex

This honestly is rule #1 in a break up. Keep your distance and don't text, email, meet in person or call. You should probably take them off your Facebook or any other social networks while you're at it. This doesn't have to be permanent but while you're vulnerable to any mean or in contrast loving words, it's best not to have their voice in your head. The risk of getting back into a relationship when it wasn't working is high. You may also end up in a war of words causing further hurt and anxiety. Cutting the ties for good when it's over puts you on a faster path to healing.

2. Let Your Emotions Out

Cry, sob your eyes out, scream and yell. Act in whatever way gets you through the pain you may be feeling. When people kindly and humorously tell you all break ups are hard, it's because they are. Don't take this part of the healing process away from yourself or it festers within your body. You will naturally feel some negative emotions no matter how essential your break up was. Honor your feelings and know that they will get less intense the more that you let them out. It helps you move past them!

3. Acceptance

Coping with the end of a relationship is a little bit like a 12 step program. You will reach acceptance far sooner by staying away from that person. This strategy relies on time more than anything else but there are ways to move it along. Look at the situation objectively, even if you didn't agree to the breakup. If they didn't love you anymore, that's really sad and you will cry a lot when you accept it. If you both agreed because it just wasn't working, don't overanalyze what could have been different. In the moments you were in the relationship, that's when your actions mattered. They don't anymore. Your mission now is to get to the place where you aren't battling with yourself about the way things are. Do this with compassion and don't beat yourself up. It may take some time for the mind to catch up with reality but in the meantime, accept that the relationship has ended.

4. Find Yourself

Chances are, you lost a piece of yourself in the relationship. Now is your chance to find you again and this should be fun. This is one of the more positives to your break up so embrace it. Maybe you let go of a hobby you used to love to do or stopped taking scented baths. You can eat salad and granola bars for dinner if you feel like it. There are a lot of personal things that made you special, you just have to find them again and get the feeling back. Alternatively, you may have grown in the relationship which means you can discover new things about yourself.

5. Have Fun

When you're ready to authentically have fun again, get your girlfriends together and go out. Go dancing, go shopping, go on a roller coaster. Do something that makes you smile, laugh and feel good inside. I once went to haunted house where things jumped out at me and scared me half to death. This was so therapeutic. Be spontaneous and silly. Enjoy your life.

6. Pay Attention to your Thoughts

As you look to move forward in your life, don't deny or grasp on to your ex's memory. They may pop into your mind as a memory of a moment where you were happy (or not). Acknowledge it, smile or cry. Let the memory go instead of clinging onto it. Don't intentionally look at pictures or look at old texts you got from him. It's now about you and your present moments. Your ex is a part of the person you are today and you can be grateful to them for that but the chapter with them is gone.

7. Acknowledge your Vulnerability

Don't bounce into another relationship too quickly, thinking that you're okay. It is probably the best quick fix out there but at the same time, you never really get over your ex. In the long run you haven't actually gotten over your ex and when your next relationship ends, you'll have two ex's to get over. You're just prolonging the inevitable pain.

8. Meditate

Whatever life throws at you, meditation is always one of those things that can bring you back to yourself and your center. This one discipline can assist you in all the complicated emotions you have about yourself and your heart. Getting to the heart of your pain and the reasons things didn't work out is a miracle worker if you're willing to sit with it.

Follow these eight steps to work through all the aftermath of a break up, then breathe, smile, and move on!
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How to get a girl with a boyfriend to fall in love with you – You need to see this!

How to get a girl with a boyfriend– Ever had a crush on a girl, and found out that she was already seeing someone? What did you do next, went home and cried? How do you get a girl who has a boyfriend? The Huggable Understanding Guy teaches you the real art of how to get a girl with a boyfriend.

Want to know how to get a girl who has a boyfriend? Winners don't give up, and losers fail. So are you determined to know how to get a girl with a boyfriend?

Losers aside, here are a few things that determined men do. They steal girlfriends.

So if you think you're ready to sweep the girl of your dreams from right under her guy's nose, here's the Huggable Understanding Guy raising a toast to you, you… you little desperado.

The art of girlfriend stealing

Here we go again, on this exciting voyage of being the player and the best man to have existed on the face of this Earth. Casanova is history. So let's hit first base here.

You like a girl. And cupid's struck the wrong butt… again. And you're left in the dark. She's with another guy.
Alright, life can be a bit harsh at times. So will you stop with your whining already?!

For crying out loud, there's a way to have her. Thankfully.
Once you're done blowing your nose and sticking the snot under the couch, let's get to the deep, dark world of girlfriend stealing and how to get a girl with a boyfriend.

Knowing how to get a girl who has a boyfriend is an art, not some club swinging clumsy hit-and-miss techniques used by the lesser mortals. So sharpen your mind, and play it smooth, lover boy.

The real secret – How to get a girl with a boyfriend

Shut the doors, and keep everyone out. This lost art is the final nail on any boyfriend's coffin. Have you ever come across any guy who could always get any girl he wanted, even if she's been going out with another guy since the last millennium?

It doesn't matter if you're a dodo who hasn't noticed that yet, or if you've got so few friends that you don't have one smooth talker around you, because in just a few minutes you're going to be able to hold that coveted title in your very own hands.

This is unlike me, helping a guy shatter another guy's heart, but I've been hounded by guys who've wanted to know how to get a girl with a boyfriend, because they're just so madly in love with them. It may have been the hardest thing on planet earth but with these little pointers, stealing girlfriends could just turn out to be as easy as stealing coins from a genuine blind beggar!
So cheer up, lift your chin out of the dirt and keep your eyes peeled if you want that special girl.

And if you're a man who's going out with a girl already, don't hate the player, buddy, hate the game!

Get a girl who has a boyfriend – Playing the signs

If you want a girl who already has a boyfriend to like you, you need to let her know the truth, that you are crazy about her, and want her to be your girlfriend. So don't hide in the corner and sulk like a four year old. Be out there in the open and follow these signs.

Drawing first blood

You may have been trying to charm the pants off a hot girl, but then, by some unfortunate incident, you may have found out that she's actually going out with some other guy.

Unfortunate, but hey, it's cool. At least now you know she's got a guy. Yeah, so that calls for another new maneuver. The cooler, happier one. Let me tell you a little secret. Getting a girl is hot, but stealing a girl is effing ecstasy, beabey! Whoo!

She knows you know she has a boyfriend

Does she? Does she know that you know she has a boyfriend? If not, make sure she does. You don't want to hit on a girl who is confused thinking you're trying to hit on her, because you don't know she's seeing someone already. Make it very clear and obvious that you know she has a boyfriend.

Why hide behind the bushes, dude, if it's a gun that's pointed at you, it will definitely pass through. So stand up, face it like a man. And flirt. Talk about her guy too. Let her know that he's no threat to you. Ask her how he is, while you're flirting outrageously. Accept the fact that she's going out, that will make things a lot calmer and fun for you. After all, you're trying to get a girl with a boyfriend, and hey, you are trying to steal her!

"Gosh, I want to go out with you!"

Never stop your flirting, okay? It's alright to ease back once in a while, but you have got to let her know that you want her (even though you're not jumping on her right there).

Ask her. I mean it, smile wide and ask her if there's any chance she might be able to break up with her guy, because you're madly, psychopathically in love with her! Tell her you want to go out with her!

But don't wait for answers. Ever. Ever!!

Waiting for an answer would make things uncomfortable. Switch the topic to an entirely new bit within a second each time you pop the magical "I want to go out with you". That would keep her smiling and blushing, with no hint of being uncomfortable. And you know what, she's going to think about it after you say bye! Now, we're talking, aren't we? You're going to make her think about you after you're gone. *wink!*

Flirt like there's no tomorrow

Do you know how to flirt? If you don't, learn.

That's the only way to get a girl with a boyfriend. If she's walking to the coffee machine, and you happen to "just bump in", smile. Show as many teeth as you possibly can, without looking like an idiot. Be enthusiastic and fun.

Let your happiness illuminate her world and her heart, and everything around it. Let her know you're a happy guy. And charm her, boy. Compliment her good looks, how she makes your day worthwhile all the time. Tell her your day doesn't actually start until you see her pretty face. Tell her you're going to miss her on Friday, after work.

But all this with a smile. Two lines of advice. Don't do this when her guy is around. If it's creeping her out, lay back and ease up.

Make dates… and break 'em

Keep asking her out, but let her know you're not seriously asking her out. All the time. New movie? Bumped into her in the hallway? Ask her out.

"Hey, you know what? I've already booked two tickets for that mushy movie that's out next Friday. You and me, okay? Can you lie to your guy that you have to be with a sick friend and go out with me? Come on… Friday night, okay…!" Or a new restaurant. It doesn't matter which place, just ask her out all the time, and always just before you're going to walk out.

It makes her wonder if there's actually a date on, or not. But you know what? Don't remind her again. She may actually hesitate to go out with you if you ask, so instead, let her wish she could have gone out with you! If you want to get a girl with a boyfriend, you have to make her want you without ever telling her the truth. We knowgirls play hard to get, so don't give her that chance!

That one serious talk

All work and no play makes Jack a dodo. But all fun and no seriousness can make you a clown. So brace yourself to propose. But don't do it the typical way. After one of those happy conversations with her, just before you walk out, say something along the lines of "You know what, I feel so happy when I talk to you or when I'm around you. You're like the highpoint of my day! You know, I think I really like you. I wish you weren't going out with that guy, I would have been on my knees by now!"

Smile after that. And make a dash after a wiseass goodbye. Let her know that you're not just flirting for fun, but you do mean business. You can write those lines down. I've used it many times, and it's worked every single time!
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How to get the girl you want and love to fall for you – You need to see this!

How to get the girl you want– Bad boys may be good for a fling, but everyone knows they're not for keepers. And good guys are boring. So how to get the girl you want without being too nice or too bad? Here's a ten step guide to be the oh-so-desirable brat boy.

Bad boys aren't bad anymore.

The good ones never were good.

So who's the new super kid on the block?

If you've been preening yourself, and doing the bad boy thing because that's what you think girls really want, it's probably time for you to step aside.

And make way for the new man who's stepping up to rule the streets. The Brat Boy.

We girls do like the regular bad boys that run along the likes of Colin Farrell and Robbie Williams, and they do have massive female fan following.

But there's something about a bad boy with a soft side somewhere deep inside that draws us like moths to a warm flame.

Bad boys are good for a fling, but they're not someone a girl can really take home to her mother. If you're wondering how to get the girl you want, you actually need a softer side, to compete with the metrosexual man that all girls can relate to.

How to get the girl you want by being a brat boy

A brat boy is just that, he's the guy who can be a typical bad boy, with a happy sugary twist. Go ask a few women who love Robbie or Colin Farrell, if they'd like to date them. You'd hear them all go giddy with positivism.

But would they be able to hold on in a long term relationship with them, and most importantly, handle their bad side? Nope, I wouldn't think so. So be the baddie, but don't go all out, if you want to hitch the girl of your dreams.

It's not to imply that you be the selfish jerk, lie, cheat, not work, steal, have paid sex or dirty habits, be unpunctual and make only your girlfriend pay. Don't try either, to be like the celebs or rock stars. You can't be on drugs, an alcoholic or have a sex tape and expect girls to like you. Among girls, there is a huge space between fancying popular icons and in genuinely liking a guy for real.

Add on a few traits of the typical brat boy to your bad boy side, and you'd be a regular baddie no more. Here are a few traits that you could definitely look into and work on, to have all the women in your life dreaming and drooling about you!

How to get the girl you want with words

A rebellious attitude has everything to do with not giving in too easily. You should have assertive ways to get things done as you want, and you have to have the rising leadership qualities. Perhaps, you want to be very sweet and accept everything she says, which is sweet. But this can get boring very soon, and stop you from getting the girl you want, because she'd get bored of you even before you ask her out.

But since you're a brat boy who's playing bad, there may be a few girls who won't be looking to get serious with you. But that's where a brat boy can be the difference. Play nice sometimes and listen to her, and go against her at times just to keep her intrigued.

Even if it's a serious relationship you're looking for, don't tell her you're falling for her within a week or two. You can get the girl peeved by flirting with other girls!
Imposing this attitude gets girls confused. So are you interested, or are you not?

Let the girls make a few moves instead. The brat side of yours, or the wannabe brat side, is sure to be on a high knowing that the girl is trying to get to know you better by searching for you in communities on the net, paying more attention when you talk, even if you just quip a response to her questions.

The way you talk

The bad brat has a style in his speech! Be it the celebs with the 'bad boy' tag or the ones you know, girls can be won over by the bad boy's way of talking. If you want to know how to get the girl you want, be the cool indifferent, confident speaker! Dare to speak your mind and say it without wavering. And don't bother waiting for an answer.

Watch it when you talk!

Again, you can't go about saying mean, rude or lascivious stuff like bad boys do! Respect women and also let it show. Many guys today are either truly mean or chicken out of situations when the women in their life need help. We women find them wretched and contemptible!

For most of the nice boys out there, this may seem crazy or even terribly hard to do. But remember, this is what girls really want, at least while you're still trying to impress them. So don't think twice, and try to be everything we've mentioned here to get the girl you want. After all, love and affection is a good thing, but too much too soon of anything can never be good, can it?
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Music: Henessy by Rapkid9ja @Rapkid9ja @TherealRSBmusic

The Yayo (freestyle) conner Rapkid9ja RSBMUSIC fast arising Musician drops another Dope jam titled Henessy.

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Ladies, 4 Signs to know when a man wants to get dirty

4 Signs to know when a man wants to get dirty– If you get these signs from your man, then you should know he wants it tonight. O pay attention…Sometimes direct ways are not that much and subtle hints, even though involuntary, can be fun if you can decode them.

Guys sometimes will never tell you that they want to get down and dirty with you directly. But there are certain hints that they will throw away and if you can catch them, then you know where it is all heading.

Its all in the eyes:When a certain part of the brain gets excited, it shows in the eyes. So ladies, keep looking into his eyes and if they are dilated, you know there is something going on. Plus, he will play the staring game. Men tend to get visually excited and thus stare at their partner and so if you find him staring at you with dilated eyes, that your cue.

Gets all cleaned up:Of course, he would want to smell attractive when he comes close to his woman. So if you see him cleaning up his act and taking special care of how he smells that particular evening, you should know there is something exciting coming up.

Gets touchy and personal:The build up starts early. So if he brushes past you, gently touches your face or simply gets touchy and physical, it means he is preparing the ground. And the touch can really be stimulating, both for men and women. So if he asks for a head massage or any other form of help that requires physical contact, that is a perfect hint.

Helps you out:Some days he will be extra nice and will switch on your favorite channel instead of insisting on watching a game or will help you in your daily chores. Being extra nice means there is something building up. Be ready.
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Guys, 3 easy but uncommon steps to keep her HEART melting again and again (Take Note)

3 Easy but uncommon steps to keep her HEART melting– "Will you forgive me?" Four little words that mean so much and can melt your heart. But men, you need to know how and when to use them. My partner and I usually get on really well and things are generally smooth for us.

Are we lucky? Yes. Do we work at this? Yes. Do things sometimes go wrong? YES!

Recently, my partner and I had an argument.
How HE Got It Wrong (In My Eyes)

People get busy, work gets in the way and then there's this thing called – LIFE. Recently my partner and I decided that life was getting in the way, so we took a drive to some nearby mountains for the day. I suggested we go to a cozy restaurant and have lunch in intimate surroundings.

But when my man asked "Anywhere else?" I got the hint that this was not where he wanted to go. So I mentioned a few other places… He still didn't seem impressed.

On the way, we stopped to make a booking at a hotel for later that year, and my partner decided to ask the lady behind the desk where to go. She suggested a few places that we hadn't heard of. As we drove off, I noticed that someone was selling flowers for $5 by the side of the road. My partner didn't.
We drove past a couple of the suggested places, but they looked old and tired. A bit like I felt.

Finally we stopped at one. It didn't impress me, but my partner was in a desperate need of coffee and food, so we went in. There was nothing on the menu that appealed, and I was feeling tired and grumpy by this stage. This old cafe with meat pies and hot dogs had no romantic appeal and insects were weaving their way in and out of the food trays.

How He Fixed It, Oh so Easily!!

My partner ordered, and I did the 'woman thing' (as he calls it), and sat in stony silence. Finally he said, "I'm sorry I didn't choose the right lunch venue."

My icy stare was all I gave him. (I was still in the 'woman thing' mood).

Then he took my hand and looked me in the eyes and said, "How can I fix this?"

No silence, no moods like I was displaying just pure patience and a desire to put things right. He kept giving me a long, sincere look and repeated the question.

So I began with what he had done wrong. As he likes to put it, I was doing the 'woman blame thing' now. He hadn't found anywhere romantic, he hadn't thought to listen to my suggestion, and he hadn't noticed that he could have bought some flowers by the roadside for me. The list went on.

The poor man stayed patient, nodded his agreement and kept holding my hand. When I finished venting, he just looked at me and said, "I'm so very sorry. Will you forgive me?"

Should I Forgive Him?

He melted my heart. He had let me vent, he had shown patience and understanding, and he had not only apologized, but sincerely asked for my forgiveness. I had nothing left but to say "yes."

This man was not cheezy, not begging, nor was he playing games. As he told me later on, he just wanted to make things right for us (not just me), and was willing to stay calm and patient until he did.

So to all you men out there who have to deal with ladies who exhibit the 'woman thing' from time to time, my advice is this:

1. Stay patient

2. Stay calm

3. Say sorry and ask the four magic words with sincerity, "Will you forgive me?"
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8 signs you are ready for marriage (Must See)

Signs you are ready for marriage– When you are coupled up with a special someone and hit a certain mark in the relationship, you may begin to fantasize about that next step. But it is easy to get so caught up with the idea of marriage and the big day that you can forget to check in with yourself and do some quality introspection.

Are you really ready for that long-term, forever-and-ever commitment? Here are 8 telltale signs.

1. You Share Similar Goals
Do you want to travel the world or buy a house, have children or not. Having similar goals will save one of you from being upset. If you are going to settle down and get married it is better to do so with someone who is more or less on the same page as you to avoid disappointment down the road.

2. You Don't Want to Change That Person
Although minor changes can be made to accommodate a relationship in the most part you can't change a person and if you are going to marry them you shouldn't want to. Of course there will always be minor annoyances in any relationship but be sure that you can make peace with them before tying the knot.

3. You Share a Strong Connection
Couples need to have a strong connection in order to make it through the long haul. Couples with a strong bond often have more fun together and remain interested in each other's lives. Are you curious about what their thoughts feelings and fears are? Can you talk about pretty much anything? If so you probably have a good base to keeping and maintaining a strong relationship.

4. You Want to Get Married for the Right Reasons
Make sure you aren't getting married just because all your friends are and it just seems like the right thing to do. It can be discouraging when all your friends are hitched and you feel like the only single one left. Remember getting married shouldn't be about the wedding party but about the life and future that will happen after.

5. Friends and Family Support the Relationship
At the end of the day it is your decision who you marry but choosing someone that your friends and family like can mean a lot. Of course you will never please everyone with who you pick but if everyone seems to think it is a bad idea than they are probably on to something.

6. You Think about How Your Decisions Will Affect Them
Thinking about how your decisions will affect the other person is a big deal. Considering a new job or a career change can have a big impact on a relationship. If you just make choices based on what you want it probably won't work out. If instead you take into consideration how your choices impact the other person it shows you care about how the other person feels and what impact it may have on them.

7. You've Survived Tough Times Together
Life isn't going to be all sunshine and rainbows. It is important to know that as a couple you can get through some rough patches together. There will be many unpleasant days after marriage when you are exhausted, chasing after screaming kids, and dealing with finances. If you know ahead of time you can get through an unpleasant fight than you will be better prepared for the challenges of marriage.

8. You're a Good Team
Life is going to present a bunch of ups and downs so it is important to choose someone who is willing to stand alongside you. That person needs to be a good teammate. Having someone who is there for you day in and day out for better or for worse is as good as it gets.
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10 Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Turn Them Into Maga

Almost every lady has a corresponding
maga because an average Naija guy is a
potential maga

No matter how smart you are , you may
still come across those money-grubbing
girls that would go to any length to grub
every last kobo in your pocket

We do not have all day, let's get to
business
Now grab your yoyo bitters and pop-
corn, relax and ready meticulously

1. Desperation For S3x
When you show too much desperation
for s3x gratification, you are on a path to
maga zone, a zone which makes girls
see you as their source of finance. Many
ladies use sex as a leverage to cash in
on unsuspected guys, force you to make
solemn promises especially when you
exhibit too much desperation. I could
recall when a friend living next to my
apartment invited a lady all the way
from Lagos to Ado-Ekiti. The next
morning he told me he had to prostrate
and started making solemn promises
before the lady gave in, and I was like,
what height of desperation is that?

2. Refusing To Back Off
Some dudes are hell bent even when a
lady outrightly tells then she's not
interested. In this scenario, there are two
things involved: firstly, some guys think
that when a lady refuse them, they can
use money and gift to get the lady into
liking them. By so doing, the lady will
see that as an opportunity to bleed the
guy in question dry.
Secondly, having told you on many
occasions that she feels nothing for you
and you are adamant to back off. Since
her stalker is making last-ditch attempts
to get her, she will resort to put and
fleece you in the maga zone.

3. Sending Recharge Quickly
It has become everyday disposition of
average Nigerian girls to request
recharge card from guys. A good number
of them use various excuses (such as
I'm broke and I need to call a nephew of
my uncle's sister cousin brother of my
father's uncle, I'm sick and I need
recharge card, as if it were drugs etc) to
get guys to send them recharge card.
Don't get it twisted, there's actually
nothing wrong sending recharge card to
a lady in need, but some ladies take
advantage of that to make you look
mumu. You got to meet a lady and you
are already sending her recharge card
the first week just because you want to
get the key to her heart, my brother, you
are most likely to get into the maga list.

4. Being Overly Caring
Being caring is very good but one should
do it with caution or else, you might be
taken for granted. I have once overheard
a lady called a dude on the phone,
pretended she was ill and requested for
money. Immediately she dropped the
call, her friends said they doubt if the
guy would send the money. I was so
shocked when she said " Dem no born
am well make e no send am"
waaaaaaaaaat ? !!! Is it a crime to be
overly caring to ladies ?

5. Notice Me Attitude
Many guys become a "YES" person
because they want to impress lady. The
truth is, every lady seeks financial
security but no lady wants to marry a
fool. Some dudes would always want to
do things so that a lady would not see
them as broke dudes, I'm sorry if you
are the 'I-WANT-TO-IMPRESS' type,
then your chances of being magad is
very high

6 Forcing Yourself On Her
The best thing that can ever happen to
you is when a lady has been fantacizing
about you, but when a lady does not feel
you at all and you are making last-ditch
effort to get her. You are most likely to
end up in the maga zone

7. Doing What You Are Not Capable Of
The best way to know if a lady likes you
naturally is when you try to appear
broke. Some would however drift away
soon as they know the wealth of your
pocket while some would wait; if you are
flaunting your gadget(s) and doing what
you are not capable of, then she's most
likely to turn you into a maga.

8. Being Shy To Say NO
Personally, I'm never ashamed to say I
don't have so I don't know why some
guys are so ashamed to tell a lady they
don't have. I have seen a case when a
dude took a lady to an eatery and after
spending all he had, he gave her money
for cab and trekked home (miles away). I
guess he was ashamed to tell the lady
he wasn't with enough cash

9. Boasting About Your Finances
Money itself makes noise so I see no
reason why you should boast about your
family, or bank account. When you are
caught doing this, then it's just one of
the things we are talking about

10 Overhyping A Lady
When you overhype a lady, she sees
herself like the queen of England and
expects you to start running helter
skelter when she demands from you
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14 ways to show your love – Do this and your lover will love you forever!

Ways to show your love– He may not feel your love until you really make an effort to put your love into action. For most people, actions speak louder than words, so prove yourself.If you feel some distance between you and your loved one, saying the three magic words won't cut it, and nothing can bring you closer than showing your love.

Here are some ways to back up your words with actions. Words are powerful, but people will only buy them if they are backed up with substance. If you say you're a great partner, you must also be one. So what makes a great partner anyway?
Let's look at some habits you can break that don't help this problem, and some new ones you can make to put your words into action. After all, actions speak louder than words.

1. Bring positive energy to every day

Perhaps the most challenging thing in our relationship is to realize how much our fluctuating attitudes affect the other person. If you are negative, they are not going to feel your love, even if the negativity is not directed at them.
If you love them, you will protect the energy you bring to each day so, like a painter, you brush up against them with smiles and smudge positivity into their day. Everyone loves to be around someone that boosts the mood, it's contagious, right?
One of the best ways to show him you love him is by being a beacon of positivity. If you make it a point to wake up every day with a smile, and choose positive words at all times, he will really enjoy your energy.
What does it mean to say I love you anyway? It kind of means I enjoy your energy right? Guard your words and avoid speaking negatively about other people. Focus on the positive traits of people and of yourself. If you really want to make someone's life better because you love them, radiate love.

2. Be supportive and excited about his life

Showing love and putting it into action means giving a hoot what he cares about. You got to get on board with what makes him tick, why he spends his time the way he does, and show him that means something to you. Maybe he loves sports, maybe he's a family guy, and maybe he's a bookworm or a jack of all trades. Whatever it is that he wants to do with his life, it's your mission to help him get there.
Believe in his dreams; help them become a reality by encouraging him, but not pressuring him. Positively reinforce his goals by putting your energy into them too. You don't need to lose sight of your own goals, but show your support.
Maybe find a class he can take and pay for it. Maybe get him a book about something he is learning. Maybe acknowledge his hard work and book a message. Words of encouragement go a long way but actions go farther. Do things to further his goals, but don't get in the way and try to control things. You can be the judge of ways to support him more than just saying 'that's a great idea, good luck.'

3. Follow through on your word

This is a big one. If you say you will do something, don't flake out. If you love someone, you will value their time and energy. It's important to show people you think about more than your own agenda or they really won't feel you have the capacity to value anyone besides yourself.
Being accountable and reliable is a rare trait, and it shows a lot when you are organized and responsible. It gives him a sense of security. Part of love is trust; following through on your word builds it.

4. Plan stuff he loves

Well, here is an obvious one. But we often forget it. We get so caught up in our own lives that the partner becomes more of a convenience than someone we actively show we love every day. Don't fall into the habit of letting days pass by without planning things for him. You don't have to spend a fortune to put your love into action. Movies are cheap and you can surprise him with popcorn and a movie you think he would like.

5. Make I Love You tokens
Shower him with your love so he feels it. Go on, use your hands and make something. If you're not crafty, look for ideas on Personal interest. If you're totally intimidated, just buy something. But seriously, thoughtful and sentimental gestures like old school love letters are a nice way to put your words into action.

Surprise him in fun ways with little 'just because' gifts. Playlists, art, treats and tickets are all fun ideas, and you can't go wrong with pictures (yes I know printed pictures are old fashioned but they're cute). Personalised jewellery is long lasting and makes a nice statement of your love for him too!

6. Put your love into food

We have all heard that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, and that idea holds water. You can show him how much you care by baking, chopping, searing, roasting, blending and peeling your way into his heart. I'm not guaranteeing he will love you if you make him a delicious raspberry drizzled chocolate tiramisu, but I would.

Keep in mind his preferences and remember: he will be impressed when you go out of your way to make it special. No microwave dinners and no easy mac. Use your imagination or look up ideas online if you're stuck.

7. Look for ways to lower his stress

Often our loving actions can be pointed to helping our man just enjoy life. Maybe that means diffusing essential oils, lighting candles and playing calming music at home. It could also mean making lavender, chamomile or kava tea. Maybe it means doing something relaxing like taking a walk on the beach together. If you don't live near a beach, a nature walk is just as relaxing!
Maybe he has a lot on his plate and if you have some spare time, you could help him out.

8. The final touch

If he's had a rough day, chances are he's got some stress building up somewhere in his body. The shoulders are the first area to hold tension, and you can offer to give him a massage. Maybe watch a YouTube video about Thai massage or Swedish massage, so what you do is more effective. He will probably really appreciate this.

9. Don't act single

Here's for calling a spade a spade. If you're going to tell him you love him, you might as well act like it. If you are used to getting attention from guys, that will need to change. If he sees you flirting, he's not going to feel like you love him all that much.

When you show him you are confident with who we are, he will feel like he can trust you. It's common for people to still act single when they start dating someone, and then they wonder why their man leaves. You can't have your cake and eat it too. If a man has your heart, you won't be interested in other guys anyway.

Be considerate and tell anyone who might be interested in you that you are seeing someone, so your partner feels like you're not hiding him. Make it clear to people that you're in a relationship, so he knows you're proud to be his girl.

10. Introduce him to your family

Nothing says I want you in my life more than bringing him into your circle of trust. It makes your love for him seem much more real when you introduce him to your family. Of course, you want to be serious about him before you introduce him to them, out of consideration for your family. They don't need to meet every passing interest, just the good ones.

Your family doesn't want to get attached to someone they're never going to see again, so try to abide by the six month rule. Basically, once it's been six months, you have a pretty good idea if things are working or not.

The other option is to ask him if he'd like to invite his family to do things with you guys. He will know you think highly of him when you're trying to get to know his family and considering spending time with them. When you invest time in your relationship, it's putting your love into action.

11. Work on yourself

Wait, what? Yes, that's right. One of the best ways to show him you love him is to try to manage your own emotions and communication style. Try to bring your own life into balance by eating healthy, managing your own stress and exercising regularly.

When we look at ourselves in the mirror and try to find ways to contribute more positively to relationships, we are actively showing our love. Don't bore him with every self-discovery you make because that is just self-indulgent. Focus on learning techniques to manage your PMS and emotional swings.

12. Plan for happily ever after

If you really love this guy, and you're getting serious about planning a future together, you can always ask questions about his ideal place to live and what type of life he envisions. You can think long-term and budget for the future. Maybe create a savings account with your future life together in mind. Maybe start researching houses in the area you want to live in if you're planning on buying.

If you're not in the house-buying stage or not the buying type, you could also put some work into making sure your career is something that's going to last longer than short term. When you get serious about your life, it shows you are ready to be a responsible spouse and maybe leave your crazy party days in the past.

13. Don't be self-obsesse

If you tell him you love him, but only talk about your life and your problems all the time, he's not going to feel like you really do. When we only talk about ourselves it's more like using someone than loving someone. Make it a point to listen to him and really give feedback. Remember that his life is just as challenging as yours and he needs an ear just like you do.

Try not to complain and vent too much to him. He is not your sounding board to run to every time someone hurts your feelings. Happiness comes from within, not from him.

14. Give him some space

One of the most selfless things you can do in a relationship is giving him some space. It's not caring to demand all of his time. He needs time to be alone and with his friends and family. Do not be the needy girl that won't let him do anything alone. It shows you trust him when you decide to stay in and let him go out with the guys.

You don't have to avoid him; just don't keep the man on a leash. The surest way to get rid of a man is to smother him. If you love him, show him by giving him the freedom to be himself.

Think about showing him you love him in ways that are not just to get praise. Don't make him something to get a compliment, and do things for him expecting something in return. Do your labors of love without expectations. Do things because you genuinely want his life to be good, you want him to keep smiling, and you care about how he feels.

Relationships, well, healthy relationships, are an amazing way to remind us how to be selfless and genuinely look after another human being. Make sure you spend more time making him happy than fretting over what he isn't doing for you. Positive thinking builds healthy relationships and negative thinking breeds arguments and ugly ways of seeing the world. Life is what you choose to see, make it a masterpiece.
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Ladies. If you are dating this type of guy NEVER let him go else you might regret…

If you are dating this type of guy NEVER let him go – Women all around the world agree that being in a relationship can bring a lot of delight and excitement into your life. There are many fish in the sea and the options are endless.

For those ladies already in a relationship, you may wonder every once in a while whether you made the right choice by being with your significant other. What if there were some things you've neglected to consider? Is it time to rethink your options?
To put your mind at ease, here are a few signs that you are in fact dating a great guy who you should never let go.

1. He loves you for your dorky, awkward self

Not all girls can have as much confidence and grace as Marilyn Monroe. You may have an awkward laugh, or a weird way of walking. Maybe you stutter, tell bad jokes and drool in your sleep. Maybe you aren't very comfortable around his friends and family, but at the end of every day he still finds you adorable. It's the best feeling knowing that you don't have to pretend you're someone you're not.

2. He doesn't run for the hills during your period

Some situations can't be fixed by anyone, not even by your number one man. Let's use your time of the month as an example. He doesn't know what it's like, and a large percentage of women suffer mood swings and hormonal fluctuations that can be terrifying and confusing. He can't be expected to know exactly what to say, however he will sit you down, wrap a blanket around you and give you a massage. What more could you ask for?

3. He's more real than men from the movies

If he has ever tried surprising you with a song or other romantic gesture, more often than not it has ended up more embarrassing than romantic. However the gestures are flattering and prove to be topics of conversation for the rest of your relationship. Let's face it, perfect guys don't exist, so the fact that this imperfect guy can make you happy is an indicator that you're probably with the right guy.

4. He never lets you go to bed angry or upset

All couples fight – it's a given. Every relationship has its low points and its high points. In whatever case, it is great to have a man who makes sure you two don't dwell on unnecessary arguments. There is nothing worse than waking up in the morning knowing that you had that fight last night and are supposed to be avoiding each other and exchanging glares the next morning. If he takes the extra effort to make sure you don't fall asleep without making up, then you know he's a keeper.

5. He isn't too scared of your dad's shotgun

Many men cringe at the thought of meeting your parents, especially if they're the scary type. When your significant other is actually enthusiastic about meeting your folks and incorporating himself into your family, then this is a sign that you've picked a good one. A good boyfriend will never try to isolate you from your family, so be sure you look out for this.

6. He is the only person you need to have a good time

Whether you're watching a movie, eating dinner, playing video games or just spending the whole day in bed talking about everything, he is the only person you need to have a memorable moment. Spending time with other people is great, but sometimes there's nothing you love more than being able to spend some quality time alone with him. Your lives together will never be dull.

7. He doesn't burn toast

Enough said. Maybe all he knows how to do is flip a pancake or not burn an omelet – on the other hand he might be a better cook than you. Either way, there is nothing more attractive than a guy who knows his way around the kitchen. While you still need to spend a few hours laboring in the kitchen, it's good to know that he's willing to put in as much effort as you.

8. He doesn't doubt you, and doesn't give you any reason to doubt him

Trust is the most important part of a functional relationship, and it is vital that both of you are putting in an equal amount of effort. If you can go out late on a Friday night without him hounding you with questions the morning after about where you were, what you did and who you were with, then you know you've established a good trust relationship. At the same time, he doesn't give you any reason to question who he texts and why he hasn't called when he said he would. Whatever excuse or apology he gives you is legitimate. This is a man you should keep around for as long as possible.

9. He has creative ways to let you know he loves you

It's extremely easy to say those three little words – and after a long relationship it becomes something you say almost automatically, even if you don't mean it. At this stage, if your boyfriend is finding more creative ways to let you know he cares, then this is the sign of a keeper. Maybe he's started leaving cute notes for you to find when you wake up in the morning. Maybe he's started singing to you. Maybe he's taking you on picnics. Whatever he does, it should mean the world to you.

10. He doesn't have multiple personalities

He doesn't have to act 'cool' in front of his friends or your friends. He doesn't pretend to be anything to impress your parents. He doesn't have to act any differently around you to make you like him better. He's the same person all the time—honest and consistent. You never have to worry whether he'll act weird around particular people, and you know that the man your fell in love with such a long time ago will still be the same man in fifty years. This is a sign that you should never ever let him go.
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FLASHMUSICMP3, a nigerian mega blog that was unveil its 2012. Gained its stand in the field of publicity and information among other top nigerian blogs. Since then has been a platform that premiers music for top industry artist such as, Davido, M.I, Ice prince, K.cee, Iyanya, and Jumabee. Its evident that this company has a lot of honour when they swept two awards in the northern nigeria's award night. With other super credits.

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