6 Marriage-killer Phrases To Avoid

There are many things that can harm a marriage: financial stress, unfaithful partner, uncontrolled addictions. All of these things take a considerable amount of effort and time from both partners. But there is one thing that can change the quality of a marriage almost instantly: What you say to each other on a daily basis. If you'd like to avoid arguments or diffuse the start of one, make a conscious effort of omitting these phrases from your conversations.

1. "You always/never…"

Never start a sentence with this phrase no matter how much you may feel it in the moment. It's a harsh accusation to say to your spouse "you never listen" or "you always work late" because a) it's not true. b) Most of the time this comment is born in the heat of the moment. A better way of speaking your mind would be taking a deep breath and saying, "Sometimes I don't feel heard or understood. Do you mind listening for a couple of minutes? It's really important to me" or, "I'm sure all these extra hours are hard on you. It has been tough on our family, as well. Maybe we can discuss some ways we can have some more family time."

2. "I hear a new gym just opened up. You should seriously think about signing up. You need it."

This is basically a slap to the face and implying your dissatisfaction with your spouse's body. Never say something negative about your sweetheart's body. Never.

3. "If you really loved me, you would do…"

This sounds like a trap. Essentially, it is communicating that your spouse is selfish if he doesn't do XYZ. In reality, I feel the opposite is true. The person who is making this request is being selfish as she is not considering the feelings of her partner. What if it's something your spouse is uncomfortable with? What if it's not in the budget? Not only that, but this sounds manipulative and one-sided. No one wants to be forced to do anything. When it comes to major decisions that will affect both parties, it's best if they are mutually decided upon, and not demanded in the name of "love."

4. "I can't wait to go to work/for you to go to work."

I know. Many of us have been here. You've had a not so perfect weekend/evening/holiday together, and you feel like distance between you is the answer. A little break from each other to cool tempers and clear minds is good, even healthy. But actually telling your significant other that you would like them to be elsewhere or that you don't want to be near her is hurtful and devalues her as your partner and parent of your children. Regardless of the argument(s), just rephrase your need for some space. Something like, "I'm sorry we've had a rough couple of days together. Maybe we can start again tomorrow."

5. "You're such a (insert insulting name)."

This is your spouse. Your confidant. Your sweetheart. Even if you feel the insult is deserved — don't say it. Take the higher road. Don't just react in an argument, try to diffuse it with, "I'm sure you didn't mean that. Let's talk about this when you are yourself." Or, "That was hurtful. When you're ready to talk respectfully, we can discuss this problem together."

6. "Well, so-and-so's spouse does that…"

Ouch. Comparing can cause resentment and feelings of inadequacy. I'm reminded of the phrase, "Choose your love, love your choice." This doesn't mean you just put up with bad habits. But how you approach your partner makes a world of difference in how safe and valued they feel with you. Here's another way of communicating your feelings: "You know what makes me feel loved? When you help me do dishes/help the kids with homework/clean up after yourself."

Marriages are fragile. Let us be more careful and mindful of what, and how, we communicate with our sweethearts. The wrong tone, word choice or angry outburst can do more damage than most of us realize.

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6 Ways To SCARE Your Guy Into Falling In Love With You

It's only a *little* dysfunctional …
Want to know how to make a man fall in love with you using the same kind of fear mongering used by big food, big pharma, and women with insecurity issues? There are lots of ways to manipulate a man go to a baby shower, wash the dishes or send out cute thank you notes—and FEAR is the answer. History has proven that manipulation is the only way to get what you want.

1. Make Him See Red

Make sure you wear the reddest lipstick you can find, so when you give him your look of disapproval, which is as often as possible, it will cause a tug of war with his emotions. Red is the symbol for love, warning and danger. What a perfect balance of sweet and evil. According to Wikipedia, in the middle ages a red flag symbolized no mercy for the enemy. Follow in history's path so he will never forget how much he loves you and who is really in charge, you.

2. Get To Know His Mother

Find the b*ttons that pushed him over the edge when he was 5. If you can learn the exact phrases his mother used when he played in the mud and got his Sunday best dirty, even better. Try out specific phrases until you see tension in his body. Watch for sweating and reddening of his face. When you get him feeling emotional and out of control, you're on your way to having complete control over his every move.

The best way to make him fall in love with you is to first make him feel unlovable. Say his first, middle and last name with emphasis on every syllable especially when he doesn't show you appreciation for the macaroni and cheese you prepared for dinner.

3. Always Tell Him What He's Doing Wrong

If he folds the towels the improper way, scold him not once, not twice, but three times. Mamma always said three times is a charm, and it's true. You didn't question authority and neither should he.

4. Belittle Him In Front Of His Co-Workers

Make fun of his new tie and the fact that he forgets to mow the lawn or take out the garbage unless you remind him. Remind him that he couldn't live without you because he would be a total mess. Make sure to team up with his friends so you can tease him when he's not quite out of earshot.

5. Knock Down Every One Of His Ideas

If he says he likes Indian food, tell him it makes your stomach hurt. If he wants to rent a cabin for the weekend so you can both get away, tell him he hasn't finished his "honey-do list" yet, and you're allergic to mosquitoes. Don't let him have opinions of his own; just make sure he has yours.

6. Never Look Him In The Eye Or See You Sweat

Keep your emotions locked up and never shed a tear in front of him, ever. Stuff your feelings down as far as you can so he will never see the pain you're really feeling.

If you're really following these rules in your relationships, you have work to do (and LOTS of it) because you haven't learned to let go. You haven't let go of your past. You haven't let go of your own fear.

This fear you're clinging lets you continue pushing love away instead of letting it in.

These scare tactics might work when it comes to selling cereal and starting wars, but it never works when you're looking for love.

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REVEALED: 10 safe things to do if you have a cheating husband

All those lies he told you tied into knots. You wanted to believe him, to trust that he was faithful, to forgive him for neglecting you, letting you down, and disappointing you because you felt his intentions were true.

You thought if you gave him some time and space your relationship would improve and feel good again. You even rationalized that if he lied, you might get angry but could forgive and forget.

What a shock it must have been for you to discover that he lied to you and your suspicions were real about his infidelity. It hurt to finally understand that all your emotional turmoil was not because you are insecure, inadequate or paranoid; something didn't feel right and your gut was telling you so. Now you are faced with your own real-life dilemma.

Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

Should you continue working toward improving your marriage or should you just give now, let go, and move on? How do you get back those loving feelings and a sense of security and trust after finding full evidence that your partner cheated on you?

What can he possibly say or do to gain back your sense of trust and loving adoration of him? What would it take for you to believe his words of praise and love for you? What must happen for you to once again feel like a beautiful, sexy and desirable woman, loved and cherished by her man for the rest of your life?

You are probably asking yourself so many questions that your mind is flooded with thoughts. Was our marriage boring, uninteresting and monotonous? What does this other woman have that I don't? Is she more beautiful, worldy, or sophisticated? Is she a better lover? Does she stand up to him more or act vulnerable and innocent? What has she done to win his heart, lust and desire?

If you didn't immediately thrown your husband out of the house or insist that he pack up and leave, then you will probably experience a living nightmare for the next few weeks, months or even years.

Sometimes, the painful war-like connection remains indefinitely with nobody actually filing for divorce. Sometimes, the jealousy and rage seem to peak and fall, always lurking in the background about to explode.

So, what can a reasonable woman do once her beloved spouse has crossed the line of infidelity? She has discovered the truth and both cannot turn back the clock.

Here are the steps that are required without any guarantee of positive results.

Expect him to admit guilt and express sincere sorrow that he betrayed you.

Express your hurt, anger, and rage, preferably only in words and body language.

Insist he lets you know that he DOES fully comprehend the enormity of what he did.

Demand that he make a continual effort in words and deeds to prove he will never cross that line again.

Make him listen to you, over and over again, expressing your intense emotional pain from his betrayal.

Develop some empathy for his emotional insecurity that led him to seek another woman's approval.

Tell him how much you need to be loved and feel safe enough to let go.

Insist that he agrees to do everything possible to restore the emotional wellness of your marriage.

Encourage him to join you in marriage counseling, s*x therapy, or an intensive group experience.

Help him open his heart to you, and share with you his fears and his emotional fragility.

Above all, get him to listen to you, listen to you, listen to you … until you know he hears you.

And whether or not he joins you in counseling, seek help for your own unresolved relationship and s*xual issues.

After all is said and done, after you've talked about everything, and rehashed that you want to try again, in the end you may never be able to fully forgive and forget. You may choose to let it slide and remain connected, always feeling a bit on guard, wondering when he will hurt you again. Or, you may decide it is best for you to split up and give yourself the opportunity to meet someone new.

Breaking up is not always the best solution. You may really get your relationship to work out and come to a new understanding. After following these suggestions, and finding some new ways to stay together, you may actually feel both of you are ready to recreate the love and passion in your marriage, no longer fearing he will cheat.

Sometimes, love does prevail.

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8 Qualities Of A Woman Every Man Wants

Women are a blessing from God. They can bear so much for those they love, but not all women can do that. You are lucky if you have the kind of woman in your life that completes you and rather complements your existence. Here are 9 qualities in the kind of woman worth keeping.

8. She believes in you.
I remember having a friend who was absolutely clueless in college. He wouldn't study and had horrible grades. However, after he found his someone special, he scored an amazing GPA and shocked everyone! That is the kind of woman you need in your life. Her belief in you can boost your morale enough to make you do wonders.

7. She prioritizes you over others.
In the modern era, you cannot just jail a woman. She leaves home, goes out and interacts with other men. She may even have male friend, but she will know your place. She will know that the only man important to her is you and your opinions, decisions and choices will matter to her. No other male will have as much power over her as you do.

6. She can handle everything.
From sending your children to school, to cleaning the house, to handling a nine-to-five job – she is just your SuperWoman! She will take out time to do almost anything and then handle it well. from baking with your children on Sundays to just enjoying a good book on a Saturday, she knows what to do and when to do it!

5. You can make her blush.
No matter how old or strong a woman is, her someone special always has enough power over her to make her blush. From simply repeating your wedding vows to teasing her over something you said to her when you proposed, you can easily make her blush. A shy smile from a woman is something you should cherish, forever!

4. She is principle-centred.
There is no match for a woman who holds her morals and principles highly. She has a set of values and beliefs that matter a lot to her and she will not bend them for anyone. If she doesn't lie or cheat, she will never do it in a million lives. She will be the perfect example for your children to follow and you should respect that.

3. She doesn't suffocate you.
Overly attached girlfriends are a nuisance! I'm a woman myself and I hate such women! Your perfect woman will never mistrust you and will never bother you. She will know that you might not be replying because you are busy or she wouldn't mind when you want to go and hang out with your friends on a Saturday night.

2. She isn't shy of admitting that she needs you.
In this age of feminism, woman have convinced themselves that men are more of a hurdle in their lives. However, she is different. She believes that sometimes, she needs you as her sanity pill. She will be okay with breaking down in front of you and crying infront of you.

1. She doesn't taunt you all the
You had a horrible week at work and almost everything was going wrong, and you accidentally forgot your anniversary. She might get mad at you but she will get over it. A mature woman wouldn't feel the need to constantly taunt you for the mistakes you made in the past. She will treat you like a human being.

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FOR THE LADIES: 5 Things You Should Tell Your Boyfriend Everyday

In strong relationships you understand the silence of your partner, the reasons of their happiness, things that make them feel good. At that stage you don't need to say a lot to them. Just a sweet smile says so many things. But don't you think sometimes you need appreciation, you really want to hear that how much love your partner does. Yes! We want to hear that how much our loved ones love us. Its human nature that they want to know the level of love their partner holds in their heart. So don't be late, sometimes words do that smile cant. Here are few things that you should tell your partner every day.

5. You are precious
Tell your partner that how precious you are, you have made his/her life worth living. You have added color to their life. These things seem simple but believe me you can feel the magic of these words when you are depressed, you feel life is difficult for you, then such words beautifully shows its effects.

4.You are Beautiful
When a man calls his lady beautiful then he talks about his heart. Tell your partner that they have a beautiful heart. A heart that cares for you, that breathes for you. Sometimes physical admiration is not enough to make your partner feel good. As it is observed that you will find so many beautiful faces in the world but not the beautiful heart. If you have found the person with a beautiful heart do value them.

3.Appreciate them on their ideas
When you admire someone on their ideas, it shows that you take interest in their little things, they are important for you. Once I met a couple, they were a happy couple, they used to share little things, and they appreciate the decisions taken by their partner, acknowledge the things that one can't even imagine. This thing really inspired me. I have seen this lesser among the couples if inoculated in couples they would be happier

2.Help them to FOLLOW their dreams
Dreams keeps you awake, they are the only thing that forced you to achieve them. If your partner has some dream that need your support then do support them, love their dreams as your own. This will make them feel that how much you care them. You will be there for them in hard times. This feeling adds so much energy in you and you feel that your dream has got wings. Try it you will feel better.

1.Trust and Respect them
Again, trust and respect the most powerful tools in the world that keep your partner around you. Trust them and let them do whatever they want to do, let them go wherever they want to go. If they are true to you they will never ever betray you. Trust and respect the most precious feeling that you give to others. If you love your partner trust them, respect them. It will strengthen your relationship

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SECRET GIST FOR GUYS: The 12 Secrets You Should Know About Girls

When the time comes for him to start chasing girls, I'd like to think he'd come to me whenever he needs a little motherly wisdom.

But, even if he's too embarrassed to ask me directly, maybe he'll find this list and be able to spare himself the shame of asking Mommy for help with the ladies:

1. Girls are confusing.
Sometimes, girls don't know what they want. We often get these grandiose ideals stuck in our heads. Expectations that are just shy of a Cinderella story will sometimes make you feel like you can never win.

If your taste is anything like your father's, you'll probably find yourself going after a girl who is frustratingly indecisive.

You will need to learn patience because a girl like that won't know what she wants 100 percent of the time, just as you will at times find yourself helplessly confused.

2. We need frequent reminders you care.
Please don't neglect the power of a little reassurance and a few simple words.

Yes, actions stand far more powerful than any string of syllables, but be someone whose words are meaningful and able to be trusted.

Being able to voice your emotions counts as an action, too.

3. She might seem crazy, and maybe she is, but it's probably because she cares.

Sometimes, you have to cut the girl a break. "Clingy," "crazy" and "caring" are interchangeable adjectives used far too often in relationships.

The things she says may seem dramatic, but just like Big Sean says in "Beware,""Girls only say 'hate you' to the guys they love."

Don't be so quick to dismiss her with the "crazy" label. Meeting a girl who doesn't care enough will make you appreciate the one who was always there.

4. Some girls are manipulative — stay away from those ones.
It's almost inevitable you will meet a girl who just wants to use you.

She'll be the snake wrapped around the shiny red apple, egging you to come closer, just so she can bite and slither away laughing.

This is the girl who never liked you in the first place.

This is the girl who realized your worth only after you wised up and forgot her.

This is the girl who doesn't like herself enough to act with any self-respect or grace.

She will paint herself to look better than she is, but when you dig deeper, you'll see she's just hollow.

You may have to get bitten a few times before you can spot these types on your own.

5. Go after the girl who keeps you pulled in.

Don't waste your youth on someone who bores you, or makes you feel less than full. When you want something more than a good time, go for the girl who always keeps you running forward.

The girl who's always a little mysterious, even when it seems you know everything about her. You'll know you found this girl by a feeling; there won't be a concrete sign.

6. Be honest, and she'll never be able to say you were an assh*le.

There will be times when your flings or relationships will reach their limits. They will come to dead ends and you will want to cut them off and move on.

Be honest; be the guy who was straightforward about his intentions and you'll never be the assh*le she tried to make you out to be to her friends.

7. If you wanna be her lover, you gotta get with her friends (thanks, Spice Girls).

Just as the opinions of your friends will matter, so will those of her inner circle. Girls want to show off their relationships.

They want to take pictures and sit on your lap and brag about you to their friends.

You will be a constantly reoccurring subject when she's with her girls. If keeping this girl around is of extreme importance to you, try your best not to cause any animosity between you and the other people with whom she splits her free time.

8. If I don't like her, that's a problem.
You can date whomever you want — I won't be that mom. But, if things between you and a girl progress into something serious and I don't like her, it won't be for some petty, ridiculous reason.

It'll be because I know you and raised you the best I could. It'll be because I see something wrong that you may be blind to.

Parents know more about you than you think; I, myself, have only recently come to terms with this.

9. If you love her, but your friends don't, question your friends first.

I've witnessed too many d*ckhead guys ruin their best friend's relationships out of jealousy to allow this to ever happen to you.

Any friend who takes an immediate opposition to a relationship that makes you happy is only acting out of selfishness. Do not let a situation like this rip you away from someone you really want.

10. Being heartbroken will suck, but it happens to everyone.

Everyone will experience love loss. When you experience it, it will feel like something only you are going through, like you are the most tortured guy on earth.

But, you'll listen to some old-school Drake and drive around repressing your man tears and get too drunk with your buddies and then time will inevitably heal what was broken. You'll be okay.

11. Have your fun while you can.
Don't make the mistake of thinking anyone is allowed to tie you down or hold you back. In high school, you're still a baby.

You will feel grown up, but college will soon change that view.
In college, you will still be so, so young. There will be no need to settle down with one girl if you don't want to.

Take your time and do what you want. No friend or girl has any right to pressure you into anything.

Your 20s will be your time and you should live it up before real life smacks you in the face. I'm giving you permission 20-some years in advance. Just use condoms for God's sake — that's all I ask.

12. When you find the one, make her believe she's the best thing you've ever had.

When you've finally found the girl who makes you happy most of the time, makes you better, makes you think and makes you understand the lyrics in songs on a personal level, make sure you give back all that she gives you.

If she's the best thing you've ever had, do and say everything you can to ensure she believes it.

You'll learn love is what drives mostly everything in life, as corny and clichéd as it sounds, and taking extra care of the things we love is the master key to happiness.

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Music: Bend down by Staroc Griz @staroc_griz

Staroc Griz, popularly known mononymously as Starocz, a member of BoD  'Wanetti hills cartel' has got the dance floor cracking with vibes and rhythm with this New Dance-hall entitled 'BEND DOWN' the unique voice, catchy hook and ragga flavor will keep you dancing all day.
This time, Starocz teams up with famous spiritual konji crooner M-Josh to drop this jamz red hot.
Its a club banger! Download and Enjoy!
Call Daniel on +2348075975974
Facebook: starocDOWNLOAD HERE

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Music: Somebody by Chezla Millz

Producer/Singer Chezla Millz who never fails to come up with catchy tunes drops another
one titled "Somebody". Enjoy!!!DOWNLOAD HERE

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Music: She say by Zico Slow prod by Flowzy @zico_slow @Bahdboy

YRN artiste Adikwu Isaac known as Zicoslow who hails from Benue State comes out with a brand new single titled ''she say'' an infectious club trend produced by "flowzy"DOWNLOAD HERE

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Music: Naija clubmix by Dj Yungbeatz @iam_yungbeatz

One of the fastest growing Dj in lasgidi DJ YUNGBEATZ [@iam_yungbeatz] is back again with the hottest club mix in naija. This mix is guaranteed to make u whine and dance as it brought together the best of naija party jams.

TRACK LIST:

1. Kiss Daniel ft Tiwa Savage & Davido - Woju remix

2. Reminisce ft Davido - Daddy

3. Psquare - Testimony

4. Cynthia Morgan - Dont brake my heart

5. Iyanya - Le kwa ukwu

6. Psquare ft Phyno - O set

7. Solidstar - Negotiate

8. Henry Knight ft Dija Yemi Alade & Joel - Olopa 2.0

9. May D - Get Down

10. Lil Kesh - Gbese

11. Olamide ft Wizkid - Confirm ni

12. Vector - Shiga

13. Slyde ft Timaya - Banana remix

14. Mafikiziolo ft May D - Happiness

15. Chinex - Aka(Clap)

16. Wizkid - Show me the money

17. Mo Eazy ft Runtown - Na We

18. Yemi Alade - Johnny

19. Uhuru Ft Professor Oskido  & Dj_Bucks - Y_Tjukutja

20. Davido Mafikizolo - Tchelete (Good-Life)

21. Wizkid ft Akon - For you

22. Olalakeside ft Kogbagid - Elegushi Spenders

23. Dj Xclusive ft Timaya - Pangolo

24. Wizkid - In my bed

25. Mc Galaxy - Komolop-Cholop

26. Orezi - Shuperu

27. Skuki ft Tiwa Savage - Gbemeleke (Remix)

28. Davido - The Sound

29. Masterkraft ft CDQ, Olamide & Davido - Indomie (Remix)

30. Runtown ft Uhuru - The Banger

31. Olamide - Turn Up

32. Seyi Shay ft Wizkid - Crazy

33. Korede Bello - Godwin

34. Iyanya ft Don Jazzy - Gift

35. Yemi Alade ft Phyno - take over me

36 Bred ft Tekno - Shoki

37. D Prince - Oga Titus

38. Psquare - Shekini

39 May D - Ibadi

40. SARZ ft Burna Boy - SHOKNORRIS

41. Masterkraft ft Phyno - Turn Down For What

42. LAX ft Wizkid - Ginger

43. Hennessy ft 2face nd Wizkid - Dance go

44. ZEEZ ft Olamide - Atewo

45. Jayme - JumbuDOWNLOAD HERE

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MUSIC: Leke Lee - AK47 (Prod. By Sarz) @iamLekelee

Here's another hot song from LEKE LEE an indigenous energetic rapper, he titled this one AK47. The song was produced by SARZ, mixed and mastered by DAVID GLAZE, Leke Lee is currently an unsigned artiste.
For real business check him on Twitter @iamLekeLee or call 08137021186

DOWNLOAD HERE: http://tinyurl.com/pf7opew

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AUDIO + VIDEO: Don Drim - How E Take Happen @DonDrim

Following the success of his Part Collaborations & Singles " IJO KIJO" and "Yelele" produced by K-Solo @obaksolo which were released late last year to rave reviews, Don Drim – real name Olusegun Odukoya – has steadily seen his stocks rising in the Nigerian music landscape, with the likes of Beat FM, Cool FM, Rhythm FM, Star FM, Eko FM and Djs among others playlisting and supporting his Records respectively.
With a renowned discography that has seen Don Drim work with legendary Nigerian artists such as King Sunny Ade, Sir Shina Peters and K-Solo among others, Don Drim is firmly poised as one of the few artists of Pedigree for fans and Critics to keep an eye out for this year. Checkout HOW E TAKE HAPPEN AUDIO and VIDEO on the link below, produced by Don Drim." Follow @DonDrim on Twitter


DOWNLOAD AUDIO HERE: http://tinyurl.com/n8g4jqe

DOWNLOAD VIDEO HERE: http://tinyurl.com/ka5fenn

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MUSIC: Blazing - Physical Temptaton Ft Koray @Sabipeepz @its_blazing

Following up his debut track 'Aramide' rising star BLAZING teamed up with KORAY (super story crooner) to add the indigenous rap swag and the expertise of Xclusive beats to present this Dope new track titled Physical temptation... (I'm sure you know what that means). With awesome lyrics and word play. This one is gonna get you on your feet dancing.

DOWNLOAD HERE: http://tinyurl.com/ml4ewju

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Music: Omo aye by Jrhymes

After being 1 of the artistes whose song 'Shey Jeje' was part of the Top 20 on www.sabipeepz.com Upcoming and very phenomenal artiste Jrhymes (HOWAH!) Whose real name is Olabisi Olatunji Stephen considered to be an afro pop singer, a rapper and now beat maker drops a new club banger titled ''OMO AYE'' for the girls and guys who loves omo aye(s), with the professionalism of tommy shield (illtouch production) they produced a product that will become a major party anthem, check it out enjoy!DOWNLOAD HERE

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VIDEO: GuchiKid - Emi Temi @iamGuchi

Micheal Toyosi Atolagbe, popularly Known As 'GuchiKid' #OsunBoi , by now his name is not new to us. After he dropped the heartbreaking Audio single last week TITLE 'EMi Temi' which has started getting rated,receiving both national,continental and international massive air plays. Showing us that he is so determined,versatile and hardworking here is the visual to the most talked about single 'Emi Temi' released under his own Tsb Music. ENJOY..!!!!!

DOWNLOAD: http://tinyurl.com/q38opea

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Music: Layemi by Lawzy

Lawzy, omoyehmi and some calls him lawzyboi is among the Top most artiste of the year to watch out for, he is dope and voices on any beatz, He base in Lagos Nigeria.
He is from Ondo state of Nigeria and has done great jobs with the likes of Ibumoney, Eazy B, Sowboh and M.Dot
His is now set to drop another bangz titled "Layemi"
Download and enjoy also remember to drop ur commentDOWNLOAD HEREDOWNLOAD HERE

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Music: Believe by Cruzy ft Kelly Brown & Phynx

Olowookere Opeyemi Oluwajuwonlo a.k.a Cruzy is well known for his dope Afro Music Hitz, he joined the music industry in the year 2008…Cruzy, an artiste the every one will like to feature in there dope album, he base in the outskirt of Lagos and studied Micro Biology at Crawford University… He his in his second year currently. He is from Osun state of Nigeria.
Cruzy is set to drop another new hit titled "Believe" in this track, he featured Kelly Brown and Phynx… Cruzy is the Baba Osha of Music!!!
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GIST: How I Met My Nigerian Wife Damilola Adegbite

Ghanaian Actor Chris Attoh narrate how he met his Nigerian wife.

What Attracted You To Your Wife?
"The attraction to my wife when I first met her is, her birthday is on the 18th of May while mine is on the 17th. That is the first thing that caught my attention. I said this must be my sister.
If I'm a day before her, then our thoughts are probably the same and our desires are the same. We did find out that our desires are the same. She is an amazing person. When Dami walks into a room, she steals the attention so it is very hard not to notice her. Obviously I was meeting new people, new faces but she definitely made an impression." My Ghanaian sisters, my Nigerian sisters, my Canadian sisters, my American sisters were all angry. Don't mind me. That is all I'll say. My reaction is that you enjoy life until you find that one person who you decide you will not let go, you want to share the rest of your life with that person. Unfortunately, it has to be one person. It beats being whether the person is Ghanaian or Nigerian or Italian. I was lucky to find myself a hot, beautiful Nigerian woman. Me, I need some fire in my life, so there you go.

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Facts Every Girl Must Understand About Guys

1. If A Boy Cries For A Girl, That Doesn't Mean He Is Stupid.
2. If A Boy Cant Move On To Another Girl,That Doesn't Mean He Is Stubborn.
3. If A Boy Gets Depressed For 'one Girl', That Doesn't Mean He Is A Loser.
4. If A Boy Always Dreams About Only 'one Girl',That Doesn't Mean He's Just
Got Addicted To Her.
5. If A Boy Is Obsessed For One Girl, That Doesn't Mean He Cant Be With Any
Other Girl.
6. If A Boy Is Crazy For One Girl, That Doesn't Mean He Has Lost His Mind.
What All These Means Is: He Loves That Girl So Much That He Cant Love Any Other Girl In The Same Way. He care for her and always will. There are so many girls for him to date but he has decided to stick to her.
If you've gat a quy like that dont take his love for granted.
Remember, some are so desperate and will beso much happy to just have what you have.

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TIPS: How to Love

All human beings want to love and be loved, to kiss and be kissed, to cuddle and be cuddled, to hug and be hugged, to admire and be admired, to have total freedom of expression and freedom to make choices.. But the bitter truth is that "True Love is like angels; many have heard about them, but only few have seen them" If you're in the dark about how to love, this short write-up will give you some food for thought, and teach you how to love yourself, and love other people and get massive returns on the love you invested on people.. Enjoy now.

How to Love In 30 Lovely Ways:
1. Before loving anyone else, you have to love yourself. This will help show that you can experience love, it shows you are secure, confident, and worth loving in return.
2. Commit to both the other person you love and the relationship.
3. Take mistakes or failures in yourself and the relationship and learn from them.
4. Aim high..
5. Decide what you want from a loving relationship. Be it romance or otherwise, don't ever keep anyone in the dark.. Its a sin!
6. Love people for who they are, not for who you want them to be.
7. Talk through problems that you have; don't sweep them under the Carpet.
Problem shared, is problem half solved. Trust me, its 100% true.
8. Have something to offer. When you start a relationship, be it romantic or not, make sure you bring something to that relationship. Work on giving as much as you take, in all your relationships, and you'll be on your way to success.
9. Meet lots of people. Be friendly when you meet people, and try to see the best in them. Make plans with people you're interested in. Rather than getting their contacts so u can drain them of everything they have. "Do onto others what you what you want others to do to you"
10. Don't force love and don't try to speed it up. Give it time!
11. If you're in love, prove it by putting effort into the relationship and working hard to make it work. Don't just relax. For a relationship to be successful, you need to apply constant maintenance.
12. Learn lessons and apply them to your relationships. Bad things will definitely happen in your relationships. So, when anything goes wrong, learn your lessons and just keep moving forward.
13. Always work to make yourself and those you love better. Help the other person to achieve their dreams and goals because you believe they deserve it. Improve yourself and work for your dreams so that you can be the person you feel they deserve.
14. Wipe out jealousy!
15. Try to see issues from all sides. Don't be partial.. Learn to admit when you're wrong, and learn to forgive when you're wronged
16. Work together to find solutions, solve problems, and comfort each other when times get tough.
Don't ever manipulate someone. Don't force people into becoming what or who they don't want to be.
17. Don't expect people to be perfect. Don't expect perfection in the person you love or in yourself.
18. Don't bring outside problems into your relationships. Don't act out your frustration on the ones you love. Always have self control.
19. Don't bring a third-party into your relationship. Learn to solve problems and misunderstandings yourselves.
20. Don't let things get boring. Always bring in new ideas that will keep the relationship lively and full of fun.
21. Ignore unimportant things.. Focus on the important things.
22. Always bear in mind that no one is better than you and you are not better than anyone else... Everyone is equal.
23. Love Your Friends and Family
24. Respect everyone and earn the respect of others.
25. Love people for who they are and not for what they have.
26. Find the true beauty in others. Don't go by mere looks alone.
27. Focus on the positives and embrace the negatives.
28. Communicate often.
29. Count your blessings. When things get tough, the way to get through these tough times is to focus on the things in your life that are good.
30. Make out time to take care of yourself! Show yourself some love too!
Take yourself out, go shopping, watch a movie, spend on yourself, give yourself a handshake.. Take time to appreciate yourself.. and you will never regret it.

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