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Here are few tips to aid you in coping with a nagging wife.
What is She On About?
Women nag about certain discomforts they feel, either it's about the fact that you didn't clear the plates after she spent hours cooking the meal or you missed a really important appointment.
Either way you need to find out what's causing the displeasure and patiently address it. If it's an apology, offer it and if it's to help out more, you both should reach a compromise and create a schedule for it if need be. Gone are the days when women keep up the house all by themselves.
Abusive Words
You do not want to aggravate the situation so best leave the bitter harsh words out. The temptation is always there but it is best to cool off some heat by walking away and addressing the issue much later when she has calm down.
Stand your ground
Most times this can be effective. Don't give her space all the time to flare up at you and you walk out or not say anything. Standing your ground helps stop the nagging sometimes. This can be most effective if she is going on about trivial things that are not to be bothered about. This is however not advised when she's bitter about your relationship, then you would have to talk things through and make her understand whatever it is to help her calm down. Women are delicate, treat them as such.
Ignore her
This can be very annoying to your partner but it does the trick. Ignoring her as if she wasn't even flaring up in the first place or draw up an imaginary hula dancer in your head and letting her know what she looks like when she's upset lightens the situation and ends up in you both having a much needed laugh afterwards.
Distract her
Wanna find a lasting solution to your wife's nagging? Then distract her, when you've done something wrong and she's most likely gonna talk about it. Even before she opens her mouth compliment her dress, the style pattern of the fabric or even her 2 week old hair. This will shut her up, and when she does bring up the issue it will be on a much lighter note. What can i say, women love being complimented. This does not mean you should mess up at every turn. :)
Support Her
Don't wait to hear her say the words, support what she does. This doesn't mean you should hold back on your reservation. Speak up and speak out but still be that shoulder she can lean on at any time. A flirty note while she's at work or a hug before she leaves for the office or even a kiss goes a long way and drives home the message.
Couple Time
Aside from getting time away from your usual routine, this also serves as an avenue for you both to talk about things in your relationship, things you don't get to talk about on a regular basis. It keeps your relationship ever fresh. Reconnect with your partner and look for other interests together as a couple. This is the secret to a nag free marriage.
Been patient with your spouse is very important in a relationship, be it a committed union like marriage or not. Most women have a valid reason for flaring, take time to listen to her before it escalates and she gets tagged a Nagging Spouse.
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But there's so much beauty in nature. That's the thing about physical beauty: It holds our interest for only so long; one thing is always more beautiful than the next.
I once dated a guy who looked like a young Brad Pitt. He was a blond, blue-eyed cherub, and he attracted looks every time we stepped foot in a grocery store.
He might as well have been a barcode. He soon got so used to hearing how cute he was that he got bad at feigning thank-yous.
I later dated a guy who looked different from the cherub, though he was no less good-looking. He had more of a Keanu Reeves thing going on, except that he didn't act like Keanu. Unlike Brad, who acted like the prize he knew he was, Keanu was unpretentious.
It didn't work out with either of the men, but each helped me understand the difference between believing in yourself and believing you're the best.
There are two types of hot men in this world. There are the guys who are aware of their hotness, and there are the ones who aren't. Bear in mind that the latter don't necessarily have low self-esteem.
Guys who belong in this category just aren't consumed by their looks. They don't walk around with their noses and chins in the air.
He genuinely knows the value of a compliment.
The hot guy who knows he's beautiful knows it only because someone once told him. He's seen the double takes he gets when he walks down the street. But the hot guy who doesn't know he's hot isn't looking for validation, so he doesn't notice the stares.
When people do call him beautiful, he shrugs it off.
Every "you're beautiful" is just as valuable a compliment as the one before it. He never lets an abundance of compliments dictate the course of his actions.
He relies on being a good sport, not a good look.
He relied on his personality — not his looks — to get him through life. He may be smart, he may be funny, and he may be both.
Whatever it is, he knows that what's on the inside is what makes him do well in the outside world.
He constantly strives to better his talents. This humanizes him and raises him above the superficial "man candy" out there.
His confidence level doesn't vary from hour to hour.
Self-esteem isn't skin-deep. We can't measure our worth by the number of times we've been hit on. (Well, we can, but we would lead very unsatisfying lives if we did).
We must measure our worth in the amount of good we can offer the world. The "hot and I know it" guys may be confident in their appearance, but their overconfidence distracts from their other qualities.
He isn't the guy who takes ab selfies in the mirror. He doesn't keep shallow company.
He knows these aren't the important things in life, and he also knows that what he does is a direct reflection of what he values.
You can give him makeovers.
He never placed a ton of value on looks, and he never let his wardrobe reflect his worth. His low-maintenance attitude makes him your personal Ken doll. You can dress up your beau, and he won't fight you.
He doesn't dress to impress anyone else; he dresses to impress himself.
He cares more about your happiness than your hotness.
Yes, you fell for each other because there's a mutual physical attraction. But you both know that being beautiful is about more than simply looking it. It's about feeling beautiful, and he'll never cease to make you feel beautiful.
He knows that beauty is fleeting, and though he might have been drawn to you because you're beautiful, he won't leave you when you develop wrinkles and pudge. In the same vein, he won't stay with you just only because you're beautiful.
Physical attraction sparks lust; anything beyond this cultivates love. And love is what matters, because it's the thing that lasts.
He's your little secret.
In a world filled with big heads, humility can't be undermined. A modest man is a real man.
The hot guy who lives in ignorance of his hotness will constantly be asking himself what he did to deserve someone like you. His hotness is your best-kept secret.
He'll catch on only if you keep reminding him of his beauty.
He'll never skimp out on romance.
Hot guys operate under the misguided illusion that their hotness is enough to compensate for everything else they lack.
But your guy doesn't see his beauty as a contribution to the relationship: Just like any average Joe, he knows he has to work at it.
He'll never let his looks get in the way of what he does.
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1. Show her that you have her back, and make her a priority.
Notice that I didn't say "tell" her, boys talk about what they are going to do. Men just do it. Showing her that you have her back with the small stuff in life will build her trust, and she won't have any doubts that you will be there when something big goes down. Pay attention to detail, and be helpful when and where you can be. No matter how busy you are, she should never feel neglected.
TAKE ACTION: If you notice she is running late to work, offer to bring her some lunch. If she is doing chores around the house, get off the Xbox and help her, so things get done faster. Offer to take the kids to school so that she can sleep in.
2. Show an interest in something that doesn't interest you.
No matter how compatible two people are, it's very unlikely that they will share 100% of the same interests. Find something that she likes, and make an effort to learn about why she enjoys it and plan something special around it. Who knows, maybe you will find that this activity excites you as well.
TAKE ACTION: If she loves romance movies, get some suggestions on a good one, cook her favorite meal, and serve it to her. Then, have a movie night with a bottle of wine. If you are not into the movie, act like you are and give her a foot massage.
3. Never tell her she is too emotional.
You may not realize it now, but emotions are a good thing. It means she cares, and that you are not getting it. When you consistently tell her she is too emotional, she will start to believe there is something wrong with her, then she will kill those emotions, and drop you in the process.
Some other guy who recognizes her as a good woman will have to fix your mess because she is now cold as ice. She keeps those emotions locked inside, and/ or she will have to navigate through the wolves of the online dating world, which will probably send her deeper into the ice world. But, that's a topic for another post.
TAKE ACTION: This one is pretty easy, don't do it! She is emotional because she cares, don't make her feel like there is something wrong with her. Be painfully honest with yourself, and realize the problem is with you. And, even if it's not, be a man and make an effort to understand her point of view. Try to be accommodating. It's not about who is right or wrong.
4. Make sure her friends and family think you are superman.
Not everyone will get along with some friends or family, I get that. The question you need to ask yourself is: "How long can I go without messing up," Let me educate you, "forever" is not the right answer. I don't care how perfect you think you are; you're going to mess up, and guess who she is going to talk about it with?
That's right, her friends and family. If your relationship with them is poor, they are going to be the first ones to tell her "I told you so." And, "You need to get rid of him and find a real man" But you are reading this, and it doesn't have to go down like that. Her friends, and family can be your biggest supporters when she is contemplating locking up those emotions, and kicking you to the curb.
TAKE ACTION: Get to know her friends, and family inside, and out. Any guy can remember a woman's birthday, but if you unexpectedly do something nice for a friend or family member's birthday, you will be elevated to superstar status.
If they don't get the hint, don't waste your life.
Performed consistently, these steps can give you the edge over the other guys that are out there learning the hard way. You can be confident that you are improving yourself as a person.
If you are a woman reading this, and you feel your significant other is not up to par, pass these quick tips along to them. If they don't get the hint, don't waste your life; find someone who puts you first, and who is genuinely trying to be a good person.
You might be (insert your age) now, but in the blink of an eye, you will wake up and find that you are (add 10 years to your age), unhappy, and looking at the same guy playing Xbox every day. All while you are doing the chores alone, being a spectator to good relationships around you. Get out and find a good man, because you do not have enough time in your life to make one.
1. You keep a running log of every mistake
You might even throw temper tantrums or pity parties every time your partner doesn't bend to your will in an effort to make them "behave" better. Either way, if they misstep, you're right there to point it out to them.
And doing this makes your partner feel extremely belittled, badgered and miserable. They wish you'd disappear when you behave like that, and the longer it goes on, the less they even want to try to please you (or put up with your self-centered crap).
2. You pack your schedule full, leaving zero time for your partner
Yes, life is busy … and your dreams, desires, and responsibilities are important. However, in marriage, the health of "the relationship" is just as important as your individual wants or concerns. Ignoring your partner or telling them to "get out of your way" so you can "get things done" fuels resentment, driving a deeper wedge between you and your spouse. After all, no one wants a partner who continuously pushes them away.
3. The sound of their voice (or chewing, or breathing) grates your nerves
You cringe when they open their mouth, because you just know they're going to say or do something you find annoying. You pretend you can't hear them, walk away, or do just about anything to avoid them.
But here's the thing, when your spouse (the person who promised to love and accept you the most) acts as if you merely breathing is a disgusting affront to them, you feel tortured and humiliated. Why would anyone want to open their hearts to someone who so clearly despises them? Doing this is just mean. And if it keeps up, your relationship won't last long.
4. You insist they "never change" (when actually, they have)
You're so busy assuming your partner is exactly the same person, you haven't actually talked with them about "them" in forever. All you talk about is you and what you want. They feel diminished and unimportant to you. They constantly wonder whether trying to make the marriage work is even worth it — your selfishness drowns out any effort they make in favor of the "relationship."
5. You begrudge every minute they spend away from you
In your head, marriage means you "own" your spouse. As such your spouse "owes" you their undivided attention, unless they're doing something you approve of or gave them permission to do. Nobody wants someone controlling them this way — that's slavery, not marriage. Your partner having a life of their own is not betraying you. You trying to micro-manage their existence, however, IS a betrayal to them.
So how did you fair? Are you a lousy spouse?
The truth is … we're all lousy spouses … at times. This doesn't mean all is lost. But it does mean it's time you take accountability for the part YOU play in poisoning the marriage you claim you're so oppressed by. Maybe skip running to the lawyer's office, and head to a relationship therapist's office instead. Maybe work on changing yourself before you throw your partner and your marriage away.
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So this morning, I received a mail and a text message that Five Star Music artist Skiibii (who I'd never heard of until today) collapsed in his sitting room and died. And they sent me the photo above. The source said he'd dressed up and was going for his media rounds today when he suddenly fell and was unable to be revived. Because I know the guys at Five Star Music, I contacted them for confirmation. I actually called the music label's artist manager, Soso Soberekon, to confirm the news. Soso, who had already posted a candlelight image on his instagram page said he would call me back with confirmation, that they were just hearing about the incident, that he and Kcee were in Europe. He called me back at exactly 10.02am to confirm that Skiibii had passed on. So I carried the news.
But a few minutes ago (hours after I carried the news), Kcee called me to say Skiibii hadn't died. He said he received the news of his collapse this morning but said he wasn't sure what was going on because he was not in Nigeria. He said his brother told him Skiibii had been found with no pulse and wasn't breathing. They rushed him to the hospital and after hours there, he has been revived. Kcee told me he wanted me to be the first to announce he's back to life because I broke the news of his alleged death.
To be honest, I find this all very strange. Skiibii just released music and has been on the road for a week now promoting it. Someone said to me that all this could be a stunt…for him to trend (which he is – he's the number trending topic in Nigeria) and all media houses in Nigeria have carried his supposed demise.
If this is a stunt, then it's quite sad that they would go to this extent to make him known to Nigerians. I know a lot of Nigerian artists put up stunts, but to play with your life is sick! Extremely sick! But if it's not a stunt and he indeed woke from the dead, then I'm very happy for him
Olamide: Olamide has managed to appeal to all kinds of music audience there is in Nigeria. The street knows Olamide just as much as he's known by the 'tush' people. This isn't a coincidence at all. You can feel the street vibes in all Olamide's song, you can equally get the feel good dance vibes. Other artists have identified this part of him, hence the reason he's one of the most featured artists in Nigerian presently.
Lil Kesh: Lil Kesh made the 'Shoki' dance and beat popular. You can't mention 'shoki' today and leave his name out. Being an integral part of the YBNL set up, one can easily say Olamide has had a lot of input into why he appeals to the street.
Small Doctor: Everybody in Nigeria may not know him, but he's very popular on the streets. His usual lines like 'I dey kill mosquito well well' has found its way onto the lips of people on the streets; even women. Street carnivals could not have enough of him last December.
Phyno: Phyno took the whole country by storm just as Da Grin did by being to Igbo speaking people what Da Grin is to Yoruba speaking people. Phyno successfully broke into the western market with a collaboration with Olamide. That turned out to be the collaboration that calved a niche for him as rapper the hood wants to listen to.
Misteer Kenzo: Although not yet fully known all over Nigeria, but his very popular in the streets after he droped "Kolo" track. He did most of his songs in Orange Music as he also hope to become the new C.E.O of Orange Music Production. He has done many tracks which are yet to be realeased officially by Orange Music.
Watch out for him and incase you don't have one of his songs you may download it below.
Download Kolo by Misteer Kenzo
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Download See You again rmx by Misteer Kenzo (Wiz Khalifa & Chalie Puth)
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Download Money and Fame by Misteer Kenzo ft Mchil and Lyricle
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