Music: Omo aye by Jrhymes
Tuesday, April 28, 2015
VIDEO: GuchiKid - Emi Temi @iamGuchi
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Saturday, April 25, 2015
Music: Layemi by Lawzy
He is from Ondo state of Nigeria and has done great jobs with the likes of Ibumoney, Eazy B, Sowboh and M.Dot
His is now set to drop another bangz titled "Layemi"
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Music: Believe by Cruzy ft Kelly Brown & Phynx
Cruzy is set to drop another new hit titled "Believe" in this track, he featured Kelly Brown and Phynx… Cruzy is the Baba Osha of Music!!!
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Friday, April 24, 2015
GIST: How I Met My Nigerian Wife Damilola Adegbite
What Attracted You To Your Wife?
"The attraction to my wife when I first met her is, her birthday is on the 18th of May while mine is on the 17th. That is the first thing that caught my attention. I said this must be my sister.
If I'm a day before her, then our thoughts are probably the same and our desires are the same. We did find out that our desires are the same. She is an amazing person. When Dami walks into a room, she steals the attention so it is very hard not to notice her. Obviously I was meeting new people, new faces but she definitely made an impression." My Ghanaian sisters, my Nigerian sisters, my Canadian sisters, my American sisters were all angry. Don't mind me. That is all I'll say. My reaction is that you enjoy life until you find that one person who you decide you will not let go, you want to share the rest of your life with that person. Unfortunately, it has to be one person. It beats being whether the person is Ghanaian or Nigerian or Italian. I was lucky to find myself a hot, beautiful Nigerian woman. Me, I need some fire in my life, so there you go.
Facts Every Girl Must Understand About Guys
2. If A Boy Cant Move On To Another Girl,That Doesn't Mean He Is Stubborn.
3. If A Boy Gets Depressed For 'one Girl', That Doesn't Mean He Is A Loser.
4. If A Boy Always Dreams About Only 'one Girl',That Doesn't Mean He's Just
Got Addicted To Her.
5. If A Boy Is Obsessed For One Girl, That Doesn't Mean He Cant Be With Any
Other Girl.
6. If A Boy Is Crazy For One Girl, That Doesn't Mean He Has Lost His Mind.
What All These Means Is: He Loves That Girl So Much That He Cant Love Any Other Girl In The Same Way. He care for her and always will. There are so many girls for him to date but he has decided to stick to her.
If you've gat a quy like that dont take his love for granted.
Remember, some are so desperate and will beso much happy to just have what you have.
Thursday, April 23, 2015
TIPS: How to Love
How to Love In 30 Lovely Ways:
1. Before loving anyone else, you have to love yourself. This will help show that you can experience love, it shows you are secure, confident, and worth loving in return.
2. Commit to both the other person you love and the relationship.
3. Take mistakes or failures in yourself and the relationship and learn from them.
4. Aim high..
5. Decide what you want from a loving relationship. Be it romance or otherwise, don't ever keep anyone in the dark.. Its a sin!
6. Love people for who they are, not for who you want them to be.
7. Talk through problems that you have; don't sweep them under the Carpet.
Problem shared, is problem half solved. Trust me, its 100% true.
8. Have something to offer. When you start a relationship, be it romantic or not, make sure you bring something to that relationship. Work on giving as much as you take, in all your relationships, and you'll be on your way to success.
9. Meet lots of people. Be friendly when you meet people, and try to see the best in them. Make plans with people you're interested in. Rather than getting their contacts so u can drain them of everything they have. "Do onto others what you what you want others to do to you"
10. Don't force love and don't try to speed it up. Give it time!
11. If you're in love, prove it by putting effort into the relationship and working hard to make it work. Don't just relax. For a relationship to be successful, you need to apply constant maintenance.
12. Learn lessons and apply them to your relationships. Bad things will definitely happen in your relationships. So, when anything goes wrong, learn your lessons and just keep moving forward.
13. Always work to make yourself and those you love better. Help the other person to achieve their dreams and goals because you believe they deserve it. Improve yourself and work for your dreams so that you can be the person you feel they deserve.
14. Wipe out jealousy!
15. Try to see issues from all sides. Don't be partial.. Learn to admit when you're wrong, and learn to forgive when you're wronged
16. Work together to find solutions, solve problems, and comfort each other when times get tough.
Don't ever manipulate someone. Don't force people into becoming what or who they don't want to be.
17. Don't expect people to be perfect. Don't expect perfection in the person you love or in yourself.
18. Don't bring outside problems into your relationships. Don't act out your frustration on the ones you love. Always have self control.
19. Don't bring a third-party into your relationship. Learn to solve problems and misunderstandings yourselves.
20. Don't let things get boring. Always bring in new ideas that will keep the relationship lively and full of fun.
21. Ignore unimportant things.. Focus on the important things.
22. Always bear in mind that no one is better than you and you are not better than anyone else... Everyone is equal.
23. Love Your Friends and Family
24. Respect everyone and earn the respect of others.
25. Love people for who they are and not for what they have.
26. Find the true beauty in others. Don't go by mere looks alone.
27. Focus on the positives and embrace the negatives.
28. Communicate often.
29. Count your blessings. When things get tough, the way to get through these tough times is to focus on the things in your life that are good.
30. Make out time to take care of yourself! Show yourself some love too!
Take yourself out, go shopping, watch a movie, spend on yourself, give yourself a handshake.. Take time to appreciate yourself.. and you will never regret it.
10 Reasons Being Single Again is a Gift Which Should Be Treasured
You recently broke up with your significant other because you felt it was for the best, well, that's okay because dating, though enjoyable needs a lot of time and patience from willing partners.
Here's the good news, being single again is not a bad thing and you should treasure it all the way till you find that special person.
Here's the good news, being single again is not a bad thing and you should treasure it all the way till you find that special person.
If you really doubt it, Kevin Carr from Essence.com lists 10 reasons why you should cherish your single status.
1.
The beauty of possibility: You have the opportunity to begin again more intelligently as being single affords each of us the ability to write -- and then rewrite -- our stories if we so choose. How does your story look? How does it feel? This is your chance to figure that out and use this season of life to position yourself to realize your heart's true desires as a whole.
2.
The alone time: Most people don't like this stage of being single but it's necessary. It is during this period of isolation that you learn the most about yourself, which gives you the ability to grow and expand. After this happens everything in your world follows suit.
3.
More time to learn your wants and needs: Each relationship experience along with each date will help you to get a better gauge on your specific wants and needs if you allow them to. What you thought you needed in a man has a way of evolving over time. Reflect on what worked and what didn't. That will help you to fine-tune what and who you're looking for.
4.
You get to date: Dates are fun! (At least they should be.) The excitement of interacting with someone new in a social setting should intrigue you. Being single allows you the ability to meet new people and have new experiences. Some people want to give up on the world after one "bad" date. Don't let that be you. Embrace the journey and find enjoyment in the experiences.
5.
More Travel: If you can, pick up and go! It's a big world and you should see it, and without any romantic attachments you can. That's a good thing at times. If you don't want to travel alone find a fun girlfriend that you can jet-set with, like now. Broadening your life experiences will help to broaden your wants and needs in a man and ultimately positively affect your dating pool.
6.
The bed is all yours: Love and affection is great but sometimes you just need a good night's sleep. (No more having to sleep through your man's annoying habit of stealing the covers.) And, I won't even bring up snoring. Wait. I just did. If you're single and reading this please do me a favor; before you go to sleep tonight jump in your bed and do a snow angel. Watch how amazing it feels!
7.
More friend fun: Being single also frees you up to be able to spend more time with your friends than you were able to before. Admit it, when you were dating there were time you wished you had more time to go shopping and gossiping with them anyway, right? Yeah, I thought so.
8.
You get to indulge in randomness: You can move to a new place and start fresh. Forego sex for a period. Stop eating meat. Start attending church more. In most cases all these decisions would require at the very least a conversation with your significant other. You get to avoid this now. Your decisions are 100 percent your own again. In a nutshell, you now can do all those things you said you would be doing if you weren't "tied" down. Go do them!
9.
Your feelings are all that matters: There's liberation in that. Revel in it. You aren't obligated to take another person's feelings into account right now. You and only you are the most important person in your life. Enjoy it!
10.
The choice is yours: When it comes to being single I feel there is a certain error in perception that often hinders people. Instead of looking at it with the "I don't have anybody" mindset, try focusing on this: In this position you have absolute freedom to make what you feel is the best possible choice as far as the man you attach yourself to next. Take it one date at a time and one day at a time. Choose wisely and relish the time in between.
Tuesday, April 21, 2015
MUSIC: GuchiKid - Emi Temi @iamGuchi
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Music: Volume by Abraham Santos ft Lussy
Music Video: Ori mi by Ashaolu Twizzy
Music: Mu jojo by Frezhboi @iam_frezhboi
The mid-tempo, groovy tune is mixed by Nelly B.
This joint will definitely take You away and beyond As 'FREZHBOI' took his stand with his Unique Style and delivery you can't Comprehend.DOWNLOAD HERE
MUST READ: People Who Experienced Life After Death Tell Their Stories
1. My world became soft and foggy and everything faded to black. Next thing I remember was opening my eyes and hearing a Doctor say, 'We got him back.' It was really a peaceful feeling more than anything.
2. Overdosed on heroin, the Emergency Room team said my heart stopped. Didn't see anything, just like sleeping with no dreams.
3. It felt to me that my entire life was a silly show I was focused on and forgot that it was simply a distraction from what was REALLY happening. I fell out of the 3rd dimension into…another dimension? I know it sounds crazy but maybe it was just chemicals in my head that created all the visuals. I'm not sure.
4. I was stabbed and shot three times 30 years ago. When I hit the floor (the last bullet hit my spine and left me a paraplegic) I was enveloped in the brightest white light and had a peace like I have never felt before or since. I was not scared, just at peace but then I suddenly breathed in a deep breath and woke up.
5. I overdosed on sleeping medication my freshman year in college. I was legally dead for three minutes(or so I was told). I do remember a little bit of the ambulance ride, but not from my own body. It was seriously the strangest thing I have ever experienced. It could have been a dream, but I saw my own unconscious body, completely flatlined, in the ambulance.
6. Pure, perfect, uninterrupted sleep, no dreams. Man was I pissed off when I was brought back.
7. I overdosed and had no pulse for 3-4 minutes. I remember feeling tired when everything kicked in, then a few spotty memories of chatting with friends, then I was standing in front of a giant wall of light. It stretched up, down, left and right as far as i could see. Kind of like putting your eyes six inches from a fluorescent lightbulb. The next memory I have is waking up in the hospital.
8. My friend had died when he was in his late teens. He told me he was in a dark room where nothing was happening. He was only dead for about a minute but he said it felt like an eternity. At first he thought it might be purgatory, but the longer it went on the more it felt like he had gone to hell.
9. I was unresponsive and on life support, I remember being on an eerie train, something was holding me back, I kept screaming to Jesus that I wanted to live… it wasn't a good place. I believe I was in purgatory. I came out of my coma three days later. I still remember to this day.
10. It feels like fainting, but much worse. Your vision goes completely black and you can no longer see even with your eyes wide open. Your legs and arms go limp, and numb, and feel very heavy and you can no longer move them. Hearing is the last to go, but the people around you sound far away and distant, and soon that fades to nothing. Your last split second of thoughts is one of fear and regret about dying and missing out on everything that will come after you have passed away and will never be alive and living in the world again.
And then poof, your consciousness is snuffed out, and you cease to exist. There is no heaven. No hell. There is nothing. But also, at that moment, there is no pain. No suffering. No more fears. No more cares. No more worries. It is just nothing at all. And you are gone forever. Other animals and plants will use your atoms to make their own bodies and they will live on, but you will never know you are a part of them now. They will have their own lives to lead. Yours is over now. And you will never live again.
15 Things Men Find Annoying In Women
Now, my dear friends, prepare yourselves, because the worst of it is coming! As you read, treat the exposed information as counsel on how to be better, not as demeaning. Ask yourself, would you put up with yourself if you were your own husband, fiancé, or boyfriend?
So, take a deep breath and read about 15 things that make men want to disappear, along with what the woman says to do so:
1. The Trouble Makers
Most readers will agree with this one. A man gets easily annoyed when a woman cannot let go of the things she does not like. Men do not like a woman who tries to solve problems by arguing about it in front of everyone.
To onlooker: "What you looking at? Don't you see that he is got someone already?"
2. The Drama Queens
The dramatic women love to create a storm in a glass of water. Crying helps them seem more convincing.
"That outfit is awful! I'm not going anymore! You can go by yourself, if you like!"
3. The Jealous
Among the worst complaints are against those women who are almost neurotically untrusting.
"Who is that woman in front of us? She's looked in the rear-view mirror twice now!"
4. The Yellers
You have no clue how annoyed a man gets with shouting.
YOU DON'T EVER LISTEN TO ME! YOU WOULD MUCH RATHER TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS!"
5. The Fault Finder
She is the type of woman that finds faults in everything. Nothing is the way she wants it.
"It would have been better had you done it my way."
6. The Bad-Humored
Are generally straight-faced and smile very little.
"What you laughing at?"
7. The Madonnas
These women do not like the fact that men have freedom of choice. They believe that men do not know how to use their agency well or even that they do not possess the maturity to do so. Generally, they act as if they were his mother.
"You are no longer allowed to use that shirt! It is horrific!"
8. The insecure
These women do not think they are worthy of their companions. They always question themselves about their feelings and the man's taste in women.
"You think that she's prettier than me, don't you? I bet if she looked this way, you would totally go after her and leave me behind."
9. The indecisive
Single boys have a lot to say about this attitude. They show interest in a girl and she shows interest back, but she soon acts distant. Boys feel very confused with this type of attitude.
Those men that are no longer single also have their own two cents to put in. Not being able to pick which clothes to wear, which place to go, and other similar decisions leaves men impatient and irritated.
"I don't know, what do you think?"
10. The Subjective
These are the women with the inability to be direct or state what they want. They think that men have a crystal ball attached to their brains. Not only do they hope that the man will guess what they are thinking, they hope that he deciphers the "woman code," which is given through looks, small gestures, a nose scratch or any other similar signs.
"You just don't understand me."
11. The Overly-Attached
Emotionally dependent women are a burden to men. They do not understand that men need to breathe, have some personal time, and demonstrate total dependence on their love. These kinds of women are similar to gum on a shoe.
"You haven't even left yet and I already miss you!" "Without you, I would die!"
12. The Sloppy
The greatest complainers are married men, since single women don't usually make this mistake during dating times. Men like having a good-looking woman by their side!
"People need to stop worrying about the small details."
13. The Digger
Think more about the things that she can obtain by relating with a man, than the type of person he is.
"What year was your car made again?"
14. The Vulgar
Women like to fish for attention at whatever cost, including being revealing in their attire.
"My body is beautiful, so I'll show it."
15. The Liars
They do not like to do things openly and do not feel comfortable exposing the truth. They prefer to omit a fact or two to telling the truth.
"I don't know what you are talking about."
Well, there you have it, women. These complaints do have a foundation, don't you think? So, don't get angry about it. But fight the stereotypes and make a few changes to improve your relationships and yourselves.
5 Kind of Guys Nigerian Girls Will Not Date
The Self Righteous guy:This guy is very judgmental. He probably doesn't drink or smoke, and he doesn't hesitate to tell others to follow suit. From the very first date, he'll preach to a woman, telling her she shouldn't drink wine or
get dessert.
He Argues:This type of guy turns every conversation into an argument. When he takes a woman out, he makes her feel like she's in debate class rather than on a date. And in doing so, he makes her feel defensive and self-conscious.
The Flirt:The Boorish Guy doesn't try to hide the fact that he's checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts with every girl and he even goes as far as to brag about his past conquests. Overall, he lacks respect for women.
The Arrogant Guy:He has a huge ego and he's condescending. He's also rude -- not necessarily to her, but to anyone he perceives as beneath him. And that's just as bad as being rude directly to her.
The needy Guy:He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.
Monday, April 20, 2015
Music: Money o by Iskul @iSkulBaby
PICS: Sensational Vocalist Timi Dakolo Hangsout With Snoop Dogg In Atlanta At The Rapper’s Listening Party
The "Iyawo mi" singer is currently in Atlanta and attended the listening party of popular American rap iconSnoop Dogg'snew album which took place in ATL.
MUSIC: Small Doctor Ft. Pasuma – Gbagaun (Remix) @iam_Smalldoctor
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TIPS: How to Make Your Vagina Smell Good
Here are Top 7 Ways to Make Your Vagina Smell Good!
1. Understand the Causes.
Infections and diseases are the major causes of serious vaginal odor. Examples of such infections and diseases include yeast and bacterial infections, STIs, STDs, or viruses like herpes. Even much more serious problems like some kinds of cancer or internal ruptures can cause vaginal odor. You will need to monitor your body for other signs of illness and if you really feel that your vaginal odor is unnatural, see your doctor.
One thing you should look out for are unusual discharges from your vagina. Brown, green, or chunky white discharges are signs of infection and you need to see your doctor as soon as possible. Bear in mind that some discharge is normal and healthy but it should not smell!
2. Watch your diet. Certain foods tend to affect your body in certain ways, by altering your body's balance of sugar, bacteria, and chemical compounds.
-Start by eating less sugar. A spike in blood sugar can cause yeast infections and buildup, which will cause bad odor.
-Try eating pineapple. Though there is no scientific evidence, many people swear by the idea that pineapple improves both taste and smell for both genders.
-Yogurt is also a great way to help women keep a healthy vagina, as it contains the bacteria which naturally occurs in our body to maintain a healthy vagina.
3. Try shaving or trimming. Having pubic hair can create an environment that harbors bacteria if not cleaned properly. If you want to reduce the likelihood of this being a problem, you can shave your pubic hair or keep it cut short.
4. Good hygiene
If you use soap, antibacterials, use pools frequently, take hot baths, use lotion too close to the vulva, don't change underwear often enough, use scented pads, use underwear made out of stifling material, this can cause problems.
Rinse your vulva with water, avoid soap in your vulva, and wear clean clothes.
5. Another powerful antibiotic is garlic, specifically a clove of garlic. Insert one into the vagina and keep it there for a few hours to remove odor.
6. Avoid hot baths and hot tubs. Surrounding your vagina with overly hot water will kill much of your body's natural bacteria which preserves the delicate balance of your vagina. Avoid sitting in very hot water too frequently or for too long.
Change pads every four to eight hours during the menstrual cycle, as needed.
7. If it's your natural body odor that is offending you, try increasing your fish, fruit, and vegetable intakes while reducing consumption of red meats.
In summary: Never think that your natural smells are bad smells, it's designed to smell like a vagina and that is a good thing, it's not supposed to smell like soap, perfumes or flowers!
Sunday, April 19, 2015
The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage
From time immemorial, a woman's virginity has been seen as one of her most prized possessions and a certain respect was accorded to any woman who remained a virgin till marriage.
But with modernization came a new school which places less value on a woman's virginity. These days, virginity is even seen as a curse. Girls have no qualms losing it to the first man that comes their way.
In the days of old, a maiden was expected to go into marriage as a virgin. If on the first night after the marriage her husband discovered she was not a virgin, her family gets instant condemnation.
But civilization has substantially changed the way people perceive virginity. Today, there's so much pressure on girls to gain s*xual experience before getting married as some men do not want to marry a woman with no s*xual experience.
Most girls who have friends that are already sexually active feel left out when they are discussing their experiences, hence the urge to also experiment for themselves.
Virgins are really very scarce these days as majority loose it even before the age of 20. Some girls even compete among themselves who would be the first to lose her virginity.
But what is the big deal about virginity? Could it be the secret to a happy marriage?
Let's take a look at some of the answers given by some Naij.com readers.
According to Ella Ada Obani, being a virgin does not guarantee a happy marriage but it earns trust. "You might be a virgin, but ur attitude and character is zero," she adds.
Owomoyela Abimbola Hanna said: " Yes it does, because the bible doesn't support s*x before marriage. And whenever we do things according to the will of God, we live a happy and fulfilled life ."
"It pays to be a virgin. If you are a virgin when you pray, God answers you speedily because you have kept yourself pure.
Secondly, it is only a foolish man or a 'man dog' that does not have value for a virgin. Do you know what it cost a lady to preserv e her indecency for just one man? Any husband that happens to be the first to drink from the cistern of his wife should count himself blessed. 2yrs ago, Imo state government was giving out cars to serving female corpers that got married as virgin. Let us teach our children to uphold their virginity. Your virginity is your pride ," Ebony Celestine said.
Anekwe Nkechi believes that some girls are still virgin in 20's but it has nothing to do with happiness in marriage. She explains that some virgins find it difficult to conceive, saying: "so virgin or no virgin doesn't guarantee anything."
Justynoble Ben is of the opinion that being a virgin can guarantee a happy marriage to some extent because your husband will always respect and cherish you and with that he will hardly hurt you. "I f I am given such privilege to be a virgin again, I would love to be ," he adds.
Eno Jonah said: " It doesn't guarantee a successful marriage but you'll be happy about not having a dark past. Your husband will always respect you for that, if given another chance I'll still be a virgin for him again ."
"The answer to this question is Yes & No. Being a virgin guarantees a happy home as your hubby will cherish you like gold not only that, he won't have the mind to cheat on you and you also earn respect trust from him. On the other hand, why I say it doesn't guarantee a happy marriage is when you are married to the wrong person. I am a virgin and am very proud of myself, still love to be a virgin again in my next life," Muslihat Obomeghie said.
Another reader named Jane Odukwe said: " My question is the man coming to marry a virgin, is he a virgin? Typical no, so why is he looking for a virgin? Sounds as if making marriage work is made for women alone. What about the men, can't they put effort to see that their marriage works too ."
It is quite understandable that the pressure to remain a virgin till marriage has become more and more difficult in today's world which celebrates waywardness, immorality, indecency and stupidity more than uprightness and decency.
But there are still a number of virgins out there and you can be one of them. If you desire to, all you need to do is make up your mind and determine to keep your virginity till marriage.
Though it is not very easy, it is possible.
