How to make a man want to love you with all of his life!

If he can release with you, he will love you that much more. I was recently inspired after bumping into noted relationship expert Demetria Lucas this week at the Congressional Black Caucus Convention. Demetria and I had a chance to chat after doing panels in our respected fields.

My panel featured the Janks Morton film, "Hoodwinked," and focused on finding solutions for black male educational achievement. I was happy to see that the place was packed.

But shortly after I spoke with Demetria, a young woman asked me an interesting question: "I didn't have a man in the house growing up, so I'm trying to understand how men work. What's the secret to keeping a man happy?"

1) Listening to him: A good woman is an armchair psychologist and confidant who helps a man to vent and share things that he can't tell his male friends. Most men don't want to hear their homeboy cry or become especially moody. If he can release with you, he will love you that much more. The art of listening is sometimes overwhelmed by the desire to interrupt your partner and do all the talking. This is sure to make him either shut down or fight for airspace; neither of these outcomes work for you.

2) Support him: Whether a man is trying to start a business or ride a rocket to the moon, the great woman by his side is very important. If you are a constant dream killer or ignore your man's passion, you're making the relationship an impediment to achieving his goals, rather than something that helps him to get there. You don't want him to have to choose between you and his dream, because for most ambitious men, you're going to lose (I've made this choice myself on several occasions).

3) Be nice: We all have our ups and downs, but a nasty woman doesn't get very far with a nice guy. Interpret this however you want, but a woman with a smile can go a lot further with men than one who always finds something wrong. It doesn't mean that you can't be critical, but being unnecessarily critical is a surefire path to relationship destruction.

4) Se xual needs: Ignoring a person's needs is a great way to get betrayed. Human beings are more responsive to the things they need than to things they want or should have. So, a man might WANT a long-term relationship and SHOULD be happily faithful. But if a person's needs aren't being met, then you're sure to have problems.

Of course we know that men can get what they want to paying attention to the needs of women, but that's not what we're talking about right now. The point is that if you want something from another party (s ex, marriage, love, etc.), you're always better off figuring out what they need and giving it to them. You must also give them something that THEY value, and not something that YOU BELIEVE they should value. So, you might be the prettiest and most accomplished woman on earth, but that may mean nothing to a man who wants a woman who supports him.

That's my two cents for today, happy hunting.

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7 S£X positions men absolutely hate – EVERY lady need to know this!

"Nothing scares me more than when a woman starts bouncing up really high."

It might be hard to fathom that men could hate any s ex position, but, in fact, some do.

Of course, "hate" is a rather strong choice of word (let's amend that, shall we?), but for many men, just as with many women, there are some se x positions out there that they can just completely do without.

And, from what I've gathered, most of those dreaded positions are in the pages of your closest Cosmo magazine. Are you surprised? (No!)

But in all seriousness, there are very few perfect s ex positions that everyone, all men and all women, truly love. Each body is different from the next in the way they're made and how they respond to pleasure, and once you throw in kinky tendencies and overall preferences, it's hard to say that one position, in particular, is the greatest, most exciting position of all, for everyone. Since that's the case for the good positions, the same logic goes for least favorite ones. Simply: one man's "most awful" is another man's "most awesome."

I talked to a handful of guys about se x positions and which ones they couldn't be even less thrilled about if they tried. Here's what they had to say.

1.Standing Up
"I can do without standing up… or to be precise, standing up, facing each other. Standing up from behind is awesome, but standing up facing one another is too much work for too little payoff. Unless you are like superhumanly strong and the girl weighs 90 pounds it's not fun," says Gordon, 35.

2. Cowgirl With Excessive Bouncing
"I love when a woman is on top and knows how to work it. But, full disclosure, nothing scares me more than when a woman starts bouncing really high and up off my penis. It's in those situations that I fear she'll come back down, miss getting it in the hole, then I'll end up with a broken penis," says Matthew, 29.

3. Her Sitting On My Face
"I love to go down on a girl, but what I don't love is the whole sitting on my face thing. I know most of my friends really love it, and maybe I'm just doing it wrong, but I can never breathe, she's never relaxed, and I'd rather give her oral in any other position," says Henry, 32.

4. Spoon Position
"I hate the spoon position. Maximum friction between the sheets and both of you is the most awkward work-wise (especially if you're roughly the same height.) And what do you do with the arm of the side you're lying on? The arm thing always throws me. Worst part of all, I can picture how it looks in the third-person, and the whole thing is just so comical that I end up losing focus and laughing, which is the one true boner cure," says Stuart, 30.

5. Leaning Back Mid-Reverse Cow Girl
OK, let me explain myself: I love reverse cowgirl. But what I don't love is when a girl is doing reverse cowgirl and she decides to lean back against me (maybe she's tired?), and I'm forced to imagine my penis snapping right off at the base. If she's tired, I respect that, but I'd rather we separate as opposed to she using me as a mattress while I'm still inside her," says Michael, 29.

6.Missionary
"It's just boring for me. While I like to be able to see her face, it doesn't really do anything for me. I can never come in missionary, so I let her enjoy it from that position, then move on to something else that I prefer. I know I'm not the only guy who says doggy always does it for me," says Nic, 27.

7. Anything "Too" Complicated
Collectively, all the guys I talked to agreed that if it's something out of a fancy shmancy Karma Sutra type book, they're pretty sure they're not going to like it. As Michael pointed it, "If it's from the Karma Sutra or something she read in Cosmo, I know I'm going to pull a muscle, throw out my back, and find myself in some yoga position that I'll never be able to untangle from."

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ladies- 5 Everyday habits that cause sagging breast

We all know that with age breasts become a little less perky, yeah, you know right!… Unfortunately, breast tissue ages two to three years faster compared to the rest of the body according to science. While there isn't much you can do about the genetic factors, there are still steps you can take to keep your pair from sagging prematurely. Here are five habits to avoid:

1. Wearing a bra that doesn't fit
This habit is more common that one would think. Most bras are made of flexible materials, and over time with normal wear, they will eventually stretch out. But the bra's primary purpose is to give support. Wearing an ill-fitting bra can contribute to breast sagging as the more your breast bounces around, the more stressed breast skin and collagen become. You need to figure out what your bra size is, so that the cups adequately hold your breasts. About 80% of women are wearing a bra that is not their perfect fit, so make sure you get measured, or try them on at the store for fit, before buying.

2.Smoking
This ladies should avoid because it makes the skin lose its natural elasticity, which causes the breasts to drop. It reduces the amount of collagen in the skin and worsens the blood circulation. This makes the skin become weaker and age faster.

3.Extreme dieting
Having a balanced diet is very important to the health of your breasts, but extreme dieting that makes you lose vast amounts of weight quickly, only to put it back on later, puts a strain on your skin tissue. Repeatedly losing and gaining weight has been shown to make your breasts drop. The skin tissue stretches to accommodate the weight gain, but it can't indefinitely snap back into place when the weight comes back off again. So try to maintain a steady weight or a proper nutrition in a healthy, sustainable way.

4. Forgetting About Sun Protection
Breasts, and cleavage in particular, can get burnt easily and they absorb their share of the sun's UV rays. This can damage the skin, make it wrinkle and age prematurely. Protect yourself from the sun and don't over-expose your skin.

5.Not exercising and adopting bad posture
It's important to exercise and keep your chest muscles strong. However, some back-and-forth repetitive motions (like in running) can make your breasts go saggy, as they breakdown breast collagen. Make sure you support your breasts during a high-impact exercise session and pay attention to your posture throughout the day. Walk straight and make your breasts stand up proudly.

By avoiding these everyday habits, you can do your part in keeping your breasts young-looking for as long as possible.

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Music: Your Best Rapper Is A Lie (TR Cover) by Gedes @IamGedes

GEDES made a version of his to the #YBRIAL beat produced by Sinister beats which is originally a track by the legendary rapper TERRY THA RAPMAN now known as TR.
This Version was Mixed and mastered by Saintuzi Beat.DOWNLOAD HERE

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MUSIC: Daddy Fresh -My Okos [@Daddyfresh9ja] @olowo_p

Daddy Fresh is back with a new jam titled My Okoso and its the bomb, Remember he is an international R&B, Dancehall/Reggae artist. Song writer , producer & composer, and he was the first Nigerian dance hall artiste, a multiple Award winner, including best male Vocalist of all time,and this great music icon is still waxing stronger and stronger in the Nigerian music scene.

DOWNLOAD HERE: http://tinyurl.com/nurktev

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MUSIC: Kokokkid –Iwolomo @Kokokkid @Misclusive

Kokokkid a.k.a (Da Lyrical Scientist) a young, amazing, handsome and milti-talented artiste (@kokokkid) hits the Street with a fresh certified club banger Titled #Iwolomo. A feel of this will no doubt leave u with no choice putting it on auto replay. Not forgetting this dope joint was produced by Vice. Check out now.

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MEN READ: 18 Facts You Didn’t Know About The P*nis (18+).

For all the attention they direct below the belt, most men actually know very little about their penises. Here's the knowledge you need to keep yours healthy, strong, and ready for action-for life.

1. Every p*nis was a clitoris. Every p*nis in the womb starts as a clitoris before hormones 's*x' the brain of the to-be male. The man-hood retains the mark of its female heritage: its dark underskin and the thin ridge or seam, known as the raphe, which runs from scrotum to anus, are remnants of the fusion of the vaginal lips.

2. Penises used to have spines. Though they were lost before Neanderthals and modern humans diverged. Scientists are still not quite certain of their purpose, but they speculate that it apparently quickened the pace of an erection and is more common in promiscuous species (such as cats).

3. Fetuses can have erections! Male fetuses can have erection during the third trimester, according to ultrasound scans.

4. No brain is necessary for ejaculation: the order to release comes from the spinal cord, not the brain.

5. King of ancient tribes ate p*nises: In ancient tribes, the king would often eat the p*nis of his predecessor to apparently absorb his holy power. This practice was allegedly banned by the ancient Hebrews.

6. Testifying on testicles: In pre-biblical times, men would swear on their own p*nises. The word "testify" is derived from a Roman legal practice of swearing on one's testicles. The word "man-hood" comes from the Latin word for "tail".

7. "Shaved" guardians in Muslim empires: In great Muslim empires, there would be a guardian assigned to each harem's bed. The guardians had to be "shaved," which meant having his testicles and p*nis removed.

8. King Fatefehi of Tonga: between the years of 1770 and 1784, he apparently deflowered 37,800 women.

9. Diphallus is a rare condition that affects one in 5-6 million males. It's when a man is born with two p*nises. Unfortunately, it's rare that both are fully functional, and it often comes in tandem with other deformities that also require surgery.

10. P*nises can actually break: Every year, hundreds of men break their erect p*nis, researchers say. Most do so during "violent intercourse." But there are also cases where men snap their member – indeed, specialists note that such incidents are accompanied by an audible crack – by falling out of bed with an erection. The cure for a broken man-hood? Six weeks of bed rest with a man-hood splint.

11. Smoking can shorten your man-hood by as much as a centimeter. Erections are all about good bloodflow, and lighting up calcifies blood vessels, stifling erectile circulation.

12. The foreskin has an abundance of Langerhans cells, which are immune cells that are infiltrated by HIV. This may explain why circumcised men in Africa have a 60% lower rate of HIV infection from heterosexual intercourse.

13. A healthy male averages 11 erections per day-nine of them while asleep. After ejaculating, it can take him anywhere from two minutes to two weeks to achieve another erection.

14. From shower to grower: On average, a limp man-hood will increase in volume 300% when it is erect. It will also contain more than eight to ten times its normal amount of blood.
15. Jonah Falcon, a 42-years-old man with a 9-inch man-hood (22.86 cm; 13.5 inches, or over 34 cm when hard). He's the man with the world's largest p*nis.

16. Animals with the biggest and smallest p*nises: the Blue Whale is the animal with the biggest recorded p*nis to date, at 8 feet (over 2 m) long. The adult male elephant has the biggest recorded p*nis for land animals, at 6 feet (1.8288 m, and S-shaped when erect). And coming in with the smallest man-hood is the shrew, at .2 inches (0.5 cm).

17. Koro, a culture-specific syndrome, where a man (or a woman) is overcome with a debilitating fear that his p*nis (or her nipples) is shrinking and will eventually disappear. Interestingly, this fear is borne out of no real proof or evidence. It is also known as "man-hood panic" and has been said to provoke mass hysteria.

18. Semen can cure depression: Apparently, semen contains chemicals that elevate mood, increase affection, induce sleep, and contain at least three antidepressants. It also contains cortisol, which is known to increase affection; as well as estrone, which elevates mood; oxytocin, which also elevates mood; thyrotropin-releasing hormone, which is another antidepressant; melatonin, which is a sleep aid; and serotonin, which is a well-known antidepressant neurotransmitter.

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9 Prayers To God That Will Make Your Marriage Blossom

Marriage can be a wonderful thing, especially when a husband and wife take their vows seriously and truly learn to love honor and cherish one another. But even in the best of marriages, there will be times when couples won't always agree.

To get any marriage to flourish, invite God to be a part of it. God will do all he can to help your marriage. All that is required of you is to ask him for it. These nine things you can plead to God for in prayer that can help your marriage.

1. God's guidance
Not only does God see the bigger picture, but he knows your heart and the heart of your companion. He knows what both of you need and what you desire. He knows your weaknesses and your strengths. He knows your thoughts and your motivations.
God has all the knowledge you need to help your marriage. If you ask for his guidance, he can help you know the steps to take to help strengthen your relationship with your spouse. Ask for God's guidance and listen to his spirit before making your decisions.

2. An increase of strength
You do not have to rely on your own strength to withstand the difficulties that may come in a marriage. God strengthens and helps you accomplish whatever task is required. He can give you the courage to have a difficult conversation, the strength to care for an ill spouse, and the ability to overcome heartache. God can give you the strength to rise above whatever conflicts or trials make their way into your marriage.

3. An understanding heart
Many conflicts arise in marriage because of a lack of understanding. It is difficult to put ourselves in the place of another because we are not them. We do not think like they do and we have not had the experiences that have shaped their perceptions. Because of this, it is important that when we are asking God for help, we ask him to give us an understanding heart. We need the ability to understand our spouse so we are more able to relate to them.

4. Wisdom
Wisdom is not just having knowledge; it's being able to make good judgments. Because we are human, we are constantly making judgments. Sometimes, those judgments are unfair because they are based on our perceptions rather than actual reality.

In marriage, it is important that we gather all the facts before we make any judgment calls. This requires real communication with your spouse where you're not afraid to be honest and open with one another. Open communication will give you knowledge and as you pray for wisdom, you will be able to use that knowledge to make good and fair judgments calls.

5. A spirit of peace
Contention can destroy any marriage. Asking God for a spirit of peace will help give you the ability to face conflict without the contention. It will give you the desire to correct the problem without wanting to seek revenge or hurt your partner. When you face contention with a spirit of peace, you're better at listening. You also give your companion the same opportunity.

6. A disposition to see good
When you are living with someone, it is easy to start seeing all their faults. It is difficult, however to see the good qualities of a person if you are constantly focusing on the bad. Ask God to help you see the good in your spouse. The good qualities become your focus and the things that annoy you tend to get smaller and smaller. Just like the lens on a camera, what you are focused on becomes your reality.

7. An attitude of gratitude
Showing gratitude for your spouse is one of the greatest things you can do for them. Everyone loves to feel important to someone and as you show your gratitude for your spouse, you are letting them see exactly what they mean to you. Ask God to help you show gratitude, not only for who they are, but for what they do for you. Not only will you strengthen your relationship, but you will live a happier life.

8. A willingness to forgive
In every marriage, there are going to be times when your spouse is going to do something that you are going to have to forgive him for. There are also going to be times when you are going to require the same forgiveness from him. The truth is, if you want your spouse to forgive your weaknesses, it is important that you are willing to forgive his. Forgiving is not always easy, but if you ask God for help, you will have the ability to forgive and to be forgiven.

9. The capacity to love
Love keeps your marriage together. When everything around you seems to be falling apart, it is the love that you share with your spouse that will help you keep things together. You can overcome every obstacle together as long as there is love between you. When your marriage starts to struggle, ask God, above all, to help you love your spouse. If you feel the love is gone, ask God to help you get it back. Love doesn't just help the world go round; love is the heart of marriage.

God is ready and willing to help your marriage. With his help, you can not only strengthen your marriage, but you can change your life, and he's only a prayer away.

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3 Legit Reasons You Should Marry Young

Taking the plunge and getting hitched can be a bit overwhelming. There's the initial stress of planning the wedding, but that stress pales in comparison to the ongoing responsibility of actually being married. Perhaps that's one of the reasons why the average age for marriage has climbed to 27 for women and 29 for men.

But there are some serious advantages to marrying young.

We're a bit biased when it comes to discussing the ideal age for marriage — primarily because we were married when both of us were the ripe old age of 21. We were so mature, so established in life, so ready to be married … Okay, not really. But we were confident, determined and in love. With no clue what lay ahead, we committed with all our hearts to sharing our lives together.
We recognize that there are plenty of people still searching for that "special someone." If that happens to be you, please don't get discouraged. Do what you can now to better yourself and prepare for your own marriage — whenever that time comes.

That being said, here are three legit reasons to marry young.

1. You quickly learn that money is not the key to happiness
Most couples who marry young start out with little to nothing — and that might even be an understatement. The fact is, when you marry young, neither spouse has had time to accumulate much of anything when it comes to wealth or financial stability. It's quite possible that, on the day of your wedding, you'll be able to fit all your worldly possessions in the trunk of your beater car and count all your savings using just your fingers and toes.
And believe it or not, that's to your advantage.

Not only do dire financial circumstances teach you very valuable financial lessons (like scrimping, saving and living on a budget), but they also teach you the timeless principle that money cannot buy happiness. When you first marry, you won't have a big house to come home to, a fancy car to drive or even many groceries in the refrigerator, but you will have your love for each other — and that love will make you feel truly rich.

2. You aren't too entrenched in your own habits
Getting married is a huge change, and there are many lessons to learn. Though madly in love, you and your spouse are still two very different people with very different ways of doing things. Married life is very different from single life.

When you marry young, you aren't as deeply entrenched in your own habits and ways of doing things. As a result, the transition to married life is much smoother. Rather than b*tting heads over whether to buy 1% or 2% milk or how to properly wash the dishes (or any of the million other petty things couples argue about), you and your spouse will establish your own habits and ways of doing things together. By marrying young, the transition to married life doesn't feel so much like an encroachment on your personal space or an infringement on your privacy.

3. You grow closer together by growing up together
We look back at our wedding pictures and think we look like babies. And we were young! The fact is, when we got married, we still had a lot of growing up to do (and still do). But as we've matured in all aspects of life, we've also grown closer together. We've had to learn hard lessons together. We've had to work through tough challenges together — but we've been together, side by side through it all. We have shared more memories, more life together.

Together, you and your spouse will apply for programs in school, study late into the night for exams, earn degrees, move from coast to coast or even across the world for internships and jobs. You'll learn to be parents, you'll enjoy summer vacations to the beach or the mountains, you'll move and buy your first home … The list goes on. Marrying young allows you and your sweetheart to write the early chapters of your lives together so you can better understand and shape the rest of your story.

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KISSING TIPS: 5 Simple Rules To Follow To Be A Great Kisser

There has to be a reason why we like thrusting our face into another's.

A new study conducted among 900 men and women has found that kissing plays a crucial role in human courtship because it alerts us to "hidden biological cues indicating the genetic fitness or desirability of a potential mate".
And here are the rules:

Check your breath
We know, discussing hygiene takes the punch out of passion, but this is elementary. If your mouth smells foul, you've lost round one even before you've begun. Which is why you have toothbrushes, mouthwash gargles and mint chewing gum. Keep your teeth, gums and breath healthy. While this applies to both sexes, it's especially vital for men, because research has proved that women depend on taste and smell in mate evaluation.

Judge timing
Circumstance is a player, and context is key. Pick the right moment. Is your partner keen to kiss you too? Will they allow you into their personal space? It's best if you run an easy test. Deliver a friendly peck on her neck or lift the hair out of her face. If she doesn't recoil, the signal's green.

Focus on the job
There will always be distractions, but a good kisser is one who shuts out the universe and stays in the moment. Feel your breath mix with your partner's. And relax. Your lips can't be tense. And keep the pressure balanced. If it's too light, you may come across as lukewarm. If you push too hard, you are uncouth.

Use your imagination
Kissing is an important step in foreplay, but you needn't make it obvious that it's a means to an end. It can't be mechanical. And hit erogenous zones besides the lips. For men, it varies from the nape of the neck and back of knees to even nibbling of the ears. For the ladies, a kiss on the inner thighs and a caress of the wrists are equally turning on.

Match rhythm
Stellar kisses have gradations. They vary in spend and pressure. They vary from gentle to passionate, with a pause taken in between for breathing. React and reply to your lover's lip cues. Lead aggressively when they let up; be the patient recipient when they are in the mood to play choreographer. Remember to catch your partner's eye in a while. It can get annoying to have someone pinch their eyelids shut each time they kiss. It helps build an emotional connect.

Watch your hands
Use your hands. A kisser who moves nothing but the lips comes across as frozen. But be aware of where they are going. Clutching him/her by the waist close to your groin suggests you mean business. Touching the chin gently or fiddling with the other's fingers is about playfulness. Holding them firmly by the neck could mean, "This one's going to take a while". Before you allow them to stray anywhere else, make sure you are in a position to take liberties. Ferociously clutching a clump of hair isn't permissible, unless it's S&M you've planned.

Debate tongue use
Some believe tongue use must end when you earn your graduation degree, but there are those who swear by its power. This one's tricky and will take practice. No one likes being suffocated with a tongue shoved down the larynx, so make sure your tongue doesn't exit your mouth. Meeting the other at 'gates' is fine. The lick can come to good use, especially when you run your tongue over your lover's slightly parted lips.

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Cli**ris: 10 Amazing Facts about the Female s*x Organ

Fact #1: The clitoris is the only human organ that exists for the sole purpose of providing s*xual sensation.

Fact #2: A woman's clitoris is supposed to be the equivalent of a man's man-hood. In fact, it is developed from the same phallic outgrowth that develops into a man-hood in boys. This private part tissue remains undifferentiated at conception until the development of the urinary and reproductive organs, which finally determine the private part organs.

Fact #3: The glans of the clitoris which is usually about the size of a pea has an estimated 8,000 sensory nerve endings which is almost double the sensory nerve endings on the head of a man's man-hood.

Fact #4: The clitoris has a lot more sensitive nerves than the v**ina and hence clitoral stimulation can bring about a much more intense climax.

Fact #5: Since the clitoris is a lot like the man-hood, it needs similar stimulation so that the woman can reach an climax. Unfortunately, vaginal penetration does not always provide the required stimulation in many women and that is why they fail to reach climax.

Fact #6: Although the clitoris appears like a small pea sized ball, the entire length of the clitoris measures to be around four inches. The portion that you can see is the head. The rest of it is hidden behind the tissues of the inner labia.

Fact #7: The size of the clitoris increases throughout a woman's life. By the end of puberty a woman's clitoris is nearly doubled in size. By the time she reaches 30, it is almost four times larger than it was at puberty. The clitoris just keeps growing over time.
Fact #8: Did you know that the clitoris never ages? That means once it reaches maturity, it remains at its s*xual peak for the rest of a woman's life.

Fact #9: Due to genetic or high male hormones, some girls are born with larger clitorises that look like a man-hood. Although this is perfectly healthy, many parents resort to surgery to fix it.
Fact #10: In many countries there is a disturbing practice called Female private part Mutilation (FGM), that includes several procedures to remove the clitoris or external female private partia leaving the girl devoid of pleasure gained through external s*xual organs.

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No Question: 12 Things You Never Have To Ask The Man Who Loves You

If you're falling deeply in love with someone, it's a confusing fall; In love, you're bound to feel lost, excited, anxious and worried. Love is a dangerously beautiful experience for the soul.

But even though so much is unknown when we find the person we believe may be the one, some questions should never have to be asked.

1. Do you love me?
I can't stress the importance of these three words. Nobody wants to see those who are closest to the heart become total ghosts because they weren't told of their worth.

Love yours deeply, and let this person know of your love for him or her every chance you have, before it's too late.

2. Do I make you happy?
You should see by the way he smiles as he watches you laugh about nothing. You should feel it in the way he wraps his arms around you and holds you in his sleep.

His happiness should be your happiness, and yours will be his. Secret smiles and little happy moments make relationships worth it.

3. Am I worth it?
When we're young, the temptations of lust and attraction were rampant, but infidelity seems to have not only become the norm, but the popular thing to do.

In a relationship, however, that's worth it. There won't be a question as to whether or not either of you is satisfied.

You understand what works for each other, and you compromise enough to be respected, trustworthy and loyal.

4. Do you think we have a future?
When your partner loves you more than anything, keeping you in his or her future won't even be a second thought in his or her mind.

You will know your partner plans to keep you close to his or her side through thick and thin as he or she plans to take you on weekend getaways, fun trips away from the city or suburbia where you both live or road trips to random music festivals in the middle of the summer.

5. Do you care about my past?
To be perfectly candid, we've all f*cked up a few times. It shouldn't be the determinant to who you are in any relationship or future experience.

Someone who deserves all of you should understand nothing that happened before your relationship was a failure, just learning experiences.

6. Do you think I'm the one?
When you've met the person who you'll spend a beautiful future with, there's no question that he or she is the one.

Although love at first sight may not always be the case, it becomes quite clear rather quickly when you've met someone who you're more than compatible with. The two of you are totally in sync.

This wasn't meant to be just a "fling." There's something real here between the two of you, and the both of you want to watch it grow.

7. Do you care about my flaws?
Not only should your lover care about your flaws, he or she should love every single one of them.

Because, at the end of the day, every single thing about you, whether you view each piece of the puzzle as good or bad, makes up who you are.

The right person will worship every aspect of your being.

8. Am I the best you ever had?
Everyone deserves the right to feel comfortable and free in his or her s*x life. We all should feel completely satisfied, confident and beautiful on a daily basis.

You should never have to ask the person you sleep with whether you're one of the best s*x partners he or she has had.

It should be known that the two of you are extremely happy with the s*x and fun in your relationship.

9. Do you admire me?
You should feel admiration from your partner on a daily basis, no matter how near or far they are.

Your beau should love your brain, your body, the way you speak and breathe…Your light should be his or her guiding force.

In other words, your partner should be absolutely obsessed with you, in the most endearing way.

10. Do you think I'm beautiful?
He's found love in the smallest freckles on your skin and the way your hair winds up at night, even when you hate it. His eyes will smile when they see your face, and his lips will start to curl.

When someone who truly deserves to be in your life for the long run enters it, you will see just how beautiful other people view you through the eyes of your beloved.

11. Do you want to know the things nobody else hears?
It's as if the two of you have the exact same internal clock that keeps you up some nights until the crack of dawn, sharing every single story from your lives.

He isn't just interested in the way you grew up or what your favorite classes were in school.

With him, it goes even deeper: He wants to know what kept you awake at night as a child, what your first time having s*x was like, all of the secrets you've been too afraid to even tell your closest friends.

You should never feel afraid to tell him anything.

12. Will you still love me tomorrow?
It doesn't matter what fight happened today. The wrinkles on your face from standing under a thousand suns and laughing under many moons won't make you any less beautiful.

Whether you're by his side tomorrow or across the entire country, the one will always keep you close in his or her heart. Every single day. No matter what. You are loved.
You have now found the one, and the need to ask for his or her love is no longer needed.

When you've met the person you are going to spend your life with, eventually, somehow, all of your questions will be answered.

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3 Big Reasons Dating Is Outdated And Flirting Is In Vogue

Is it just me, or does it seem like no one wants to date anymore? Invogue

Flirtationships have replaced relationships. People are hanging out instead of going out, texting instead of calling and meeting up instead of courting. The definition of dating has definitely shifted and I'm on a mission to figure out why so I can help you enjoy the dating process again.

It's hard to get him to put a ring on it if no one wants to put a label on it first!

There are three big reasons why I believe our society just doesn't date anymore.

First, there doesn't seem to be a modern day definition of dating that everyone can agree on.

There are no real rites of passage for courtship and no one saying when it should begin, what the stages look like and what the end game is.

For example, when I listen to the love stories of my parents who have been married for 37 years and my in-laws who just celebrated 44 years of marriage, I notice a HUGE difference between how couples met, how relationships began and how they progressed into marriage back then and how we go about it now.

Now you have men wanting to get exclusive by date three and therefore no longer feel the need to impress a woman, or even take her out of the house.

Or, you'll have a couple who is hanging out for three months, and when the topic of commitment comes up, the man says, "Oh, I like you but I'm not looking for a relationship."

I've also heard from both men and women who were unsure about their purpose for dating. Some women recently told me they don't want to EVER get married for fear of losing their independence. They just want a man who will hold them at night and keep them company during the day.

While the first problem is about how we define dating, the second problem has to do with how we meet and connect.
Online dating has made us more connected than ever! Millions of singles turn to the internet to find love. However, just because there are a lot of folks online, doesn't mean there's a lot of dating going on.

We're revealing more about our private lives to perfect strangers on the internet, but we also distrust people too! Many of my clients don't want to go on blind dates anymore. They'd rather Google a person first. I can't say I blame them, though. People lie on their profiles, send offensive emails and make snap judgments about each other based on a picture! Where's the romance in that?!

We've lost touch with how to communicate in authentic ways that create attraction, build trust and foster respect.
No wonder people are giving up on love! Men and women both tell me they'd rather stay alone instead of wasting time and energy on the games people play. It's just too much work, they say. Dating is outdated.

But there's a greater problem that really scares me. By opting out of dating, you've given up your hope and your faith in love!
Call me old-fashioned, but I believe in walks in the park, ice cream dates, romantic dinners, giving gifts, writing poems and singing songs. I believe in going out of your way to get dressed up, make a connection and explore the possibilities of the future together. I believe in love.

After all, how can you build strong relationships and enduring marriages if you can't even figure out how to get it started?

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Sexy Tips To Seduce Your Husband Daily

When we are trying to seduce someone, we use many ways to draw attention to ourselves, especially women. She wears her best clothes, uses her favorite perfume, offers a dazzling smile, asks her friends what she should do to get "that guy" to like her, and she often daydreams of that guy whom she believes could be her "prince charming."

From the moment we make our dreams become reality, dating consists of smiles, hugs, kissing, long walks, talking, taking pictures together and so on. Basically, it is the time where we get to know each other. When we turn from wondering to truly knowing that this is the man we want to marry, we move on to another part of dating, where we make plans up until the wedding.

When we are married, our daily routine becomes an enemy in our lives. If it isn't nurtured properly, it will bring monotony into our lives. But wait, how do you seduce your spouse daily?
The daily smile, the everlasting receiving smile. When he comes home, smile at him and ask him about his day.

Always try to kiss him daily, kiss him passionately or "make-out" and make it an important part of your marriage.

Send loving text messages, emails, and so on. "I love you very much" "Have a great day." Let your heart guide you on what to say.

Try to always have meals together. Make this something that is sacred in your life.

Don't limit makeup or using perfume for certain days, like when you go out, or when you go to parties. Do this for him on any day, even if you are going to stay at home and just watch a movie together.

Walking around holding hands, hugging, and always maintaining physical contact is essential to all of this.

One thing that you cannot forget to do, or to keep off your list of "things to do to seduce your husband" is know how to (and doing it) make his favorite meal. Even if you don't really know how to cook, these are times where it is OK to ask for guidance from a friend or family member.

To maintain this love, this seduction, it is required to make sacrifices and to actually try. But the woman is not solely responsible for this, the man is also responsible. Yet you, as the woman, can show him the way. I mean, who doesn't like to be loved, pampered and taken care of?

Seduce or conquer requires action
The word "conquer" in the English language, is classified as a verb. Every verb is an action word. Therefore it is important to act on this and practice this as a part of your everyday life, especially in your marriage.

"A relationship is a seed to a garden; it needs to be taken care of daily." – Renato Cardoso and Cristiane Cardoso – Casamento Blindado.

Seduction is nothing more than demonstrating your love and devotion to your partner. It's very important that the both of you feel this with every gesture.

"Days that are the exact same are like a river that runs backwards, it doesn't go anywhere." – Sandy – Dias Iguais
Prioritize your marriage and your relationship
According to the years you have been married, when your children and grandchildren come, we tend to not prioritize each other as we did in the beginning. Still, as partners, we need to remember that our grandchildren and children will one day raise families of their own. Then we will only have each other to support and care for.

Seduction isn't only for young couples that are just starting their married lives. It is for everyone from the moment that you decide to be married together. It will help remind you of the beginning of your marriage. It will come as a daily fight, but with the years it will bring joy and happiness, and every hard moment that you go through together is worth the experience as you will learn to deal with these everyday trials.

Use your power as a woman, wife and mother, as they will use their special charm for you and you will be a happy couple.

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Single Ladies: 4 Top Complaints From Women Looking For A Man

Young couple holding glasses with champagne and woman looking for them, outdoors, focus on woman with red hair and man

Please note: This article is not intended to be offensive. It is meant as a wakeup call. Please receive it in the loving concern in which it was sent.

In my travels, I have encountered a number of women (too many actually) that have expressed pain, regret and discontentment regarding their relationships. Out of desperation, these women have done things in an effort to keep a man that didn't want to be kept. In their mind, having a half of a man is better than no man at all. Why are so many women choosing to settle when it
comes to a man?

Women are constantly being bombarded by the media on how to find, keep and marry a man. But nowhere in these self help trilogies are women admonished to have self respect and dignity. The focus is solely on a woman satisfying a man, mentally, physically and sexually. This consistent message coupled with the lie that there are very few good men left has caused some women to lower their standards and do whatever it takes to keep a man. However, these choices have caused a lot of women to be miserable in their relationships.

The top complaints that I have heard from women are:

He doesn't love me

He doesn't respect me

I can't keep him

I want my own man.

Let's address each of these complaints one at a time.

He doesn't love me

When I hear this statement, I ask a few questions: Did he deserve your love? Did he earn your love? Did you throw your love freely his way? Most of the time, the answer is that he did not earn my love. In that case, anyone will take something that is free. If you don't put demands, restrictions or parameters around your heart/love, it will be taken for granted. Remember, you are a precious jewel and everyone can't see your worth or your value. But those who are worthy of you, will recognize who and what you are. Take your time. Allow yourself to get to know people and let them earn the right to your heart/love. If you want to stop the hurt and the pain, make a decision to stop throwing your heart/love away to any and everybody. You deserve better.

He doesn't respect me

My question is: Do you respect yourself? I had a 30 year old male colleague state:

"It's a shame when a man has more respect for a woman than a woman has for herself."
I have heard other men state:

"Women give of themselves sexually to easily".

"In a new relationship, women should not have s*x for at least 90 days, if that".

"Men really prefer a woman not to have s*x with them. It keeps the chase going. Don't get me wrong, I will have s*x with her but I would prefer her to say no. "

It is a sad day when a man is having to tell a woman not to have s*x or not to have s*x to soon. Ladies, do you demand respect? Do you behave in an unladylike manner? Do you find yourself in precarious situations that you are ashamed of? Do you allow a man to speak to you in a disrespectful manner?
Does he call you or refer to you out of your name such as: "B" or a whore, etc? Is the answer to any of these questions, yes? If so, why? Do you think that this will help you get or keep a man? It won't. Please don't ever disrespect yourself for anyone. When you respect yourself, others will respect you. Always remember, your actions teach people how to treat you and they will follow your lead accordingly. Decide today to respect yourself and others will do the same.

can't keep a man

This is a hard one but let's start with this question: Was he yours in the first place? I know that is a harsh question, but some women are extremely guilty of fantasizing about a relationship and making it more than what it is. A simple example: Just because he said you look nice doesn't mean he is madly in love with you. He only meant that you looked nice. And that's it! Nothing more!

I am a firm believer that if a man wants you, he will tell you. You won't have to figure it out, decode his conversations or interrogate your friends with their thoughts. And when a man tells you he doesn't want you, he means it. He doesn't want you. So no matter how much you do for him or how much s*x you have with him, he will still not be your man. It goes back to respect. If you are giving a man the "world" for free with no demands or stipulations, he will take it. It doesn't mean he is in love with you. It just means that he was just along for the ride. Ladies make sure that the effort that you are putting forth towards this relationship is being reciprocated by your potential mate. It should be an equal balance of give and take. Most importantly, be sure that the man you are trying to keep wants to be kept by you.

I want my own man

Don't we all. And the best way to get your man is to love yourself, respect yourself and enjoy yourself. Do you! When you are busy taking care of you, you will be found. Too often, women are obsessing about a man, either getting one, keeping one or replacing one. Instead, spend that energy and time on you. Pursuing your destiny and fulfilling your God given purpose. And while you are focused on you and enjoying your life, your man, the right man will come.

I interviewed a variety of men ages 25-55 and asked what they found sexy or appealing about a woman and the answers were all the same:
Intelligent
Confident, a woman who knows her value and worth.
Friendly, outgoing, and fun loving.

Clothing, a fashionable dresser but leaves something to the imagination.

A woman who takes care of herself; hair, nails, etc.

A woman that challenges a man to be the best he can be.

Of course opinions will vary but at the end of the day, you want a man who wants you, loves you and wants to see you succeed. Please don't settle. There is a great man waiting just for you. One that is worthy of you and you worthy of him. Wait for him. You will be glad that you did.

It really grieves me to constantly hear the horror stories from women regarding relationships that have gone wrong. We have all experienced the hurt, pain and devastation from making poor choices. But don't let that pain go in vain. Pick up the pieces, learn from those mistakes and make a vow to put yourself first, to love yourself, respect yourself and to demand the best for yourself. I truly believe that you will see a difference in not only the caliber of men you attract but the person that you will become.

I wish you nothing but God's best in every area of your life.

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6 Things Never To Tell Others About Your Relationship!!!

Nothing wrong with sharing these things with friends if done in moderation; you don't need to share EVERYTHING! Here are some things you should try NEVER to share with others about your partner, they can and will be used against you.

MONEY – Never tell anyone how much your boo earns, or if you're having money problems. People don't need to know this. Who wears the financial pants? Who pays for what? If you have an agreement with le boo about how you both want to manage your finances then this should not be up for debate with your friends. The "you can chop my money" status of your relationship should be hidden.

BEDROOM – Do not share what went down last night, how you were kissed senseless, how does this information affect the price of garri in the market? If your boo is a stallion and he steady gives you the "D", keep it to yourself unless you don't mind sharing him? If you're celibate avoid discussing it too as your friends may envy you, and if you're not celibate, you may be tagged as "loose". They will yimu no matter what.

DETAILS – Avoid giving details. "My boo's favourite food is Amala and gbegiri, my boo scratches her b**bs first thing in the morning, my boo doesn't like this or that". Why are you furnishing others with this privileged information? Haven't you heard stories where a friend snatches le boo? Why do you think that happens? They already know your boo's likes, dislikes, habits e.t.c Do not tell any one where you boo's mumu b*tton is (thanks Honeydame)

FIGHTS – Couples fight all the time, if you don't fight in your relationship then I put it to you that you are a liar! LOL. Friction is normal as long as you kiss and make up… but telling your parents, your friends about every single quarrel will not help. Its always awkward because your friends will always be on your side and will keep condemning you boo… after you say they don't respect him/her, why should they? After you've forgiven and moved on, those you told will always remember. This point is null and void if your boo is abusive!

SECRETS – We all have secrets and your boo may have told you some of his/hers, it would be totally out of place for you to share something confidential like that with others. Also, if you have a secret you're keeping from your boo then you should never tell someone else that "biko I don't want him/her to find out or my boo doesn't know about this oh"…you're only giving outsiders ammunition. What if they accidentally or purposely jabo the gist to your boo? Kasala go burst!

DREAMS/PLANS – Dreams, aspirations, plans are things we share with people we love, when your boo is telling you of the mansion he wants to build in 5 years time, or the business he wants to start, avoid being a tatafo, do NOT share this with anyone. Keep their plans, aspirations between the both of you.

Your partner will feel betrayed when they find out you've been talking about your private matters, they wouldn't trust you with anything; If you discuss these matters with your colleagues it breeds see-finish, biko stop. Your friends will wonder what your saying about them to others if your can be so open with details of your boo's life. People will think you have no self control… they will never confide in you.

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10 Things Every Pregnant Wife Needs From Her Husband

My wife is currently 6 months pregnant with our precious little girl. We are so excited to bring this bundle of joy into the World. Pregnancy has been a serious time of learning, adjusting, and embracing. Here are 10 things every pregnant wife needs from her husband.

1. Respond to the announcement of the baby and gender announcement appropriately.

Your reaction to the initial announcement that your wife is pregnant means the world to your wife. When we found out we were pregnant I was equally as excited as my wife. The challenge came when we are about to find out the gender of the baby. I can honestly say I thought we were having a boy.

I remember the look on my face when we found out we were having a girl. I had to quickly adjust in order to not disappoint my wife. This is such an important moment for her, so she needs to know you are just as excited as she is! This is all a part of the journey.

2. Tell her she is beautiful and mean it.
Your wife is going through a lot of changes and with those changes comes a hit to her confidence. Hearing you are beautiful from the man she loves more than anything is something that will keep her heart secure in your love.

3. Start interacting with the baby.
The baby is developing inside of your wife, which makes it really hard for you to feel connected to the baby like your wife is. This is why you must make intentional steps to interacting with the baby. One thing I would do each night after my wife falls asleep is hold her belly and pray over my baby girl. This really helped me to start interacting with her.

4. Massage every part of her body, especially her back.
This right here will make her fall in love with you all over again. This should be done at least one time every day. Take sometime and ask your wife where she would like a massage, and I guarantee you will have one happy wife.

5. Don't take it personal.
Do not take the things that may come out of your wives mouth personal.

6. Adjust to her changing love languages
During pregnancy, the way your wife receives love will change. Try out different things to continue meeting her needs.

7. Learn what is happening in her mind and body.
Read books that will help you better understand what is happening in her body. I subscribed to a pregnancy app that sends me emails each morning with a new tip and update on where my wife is in her pregnancy weeks. This helps in our conversations, and even when we are at doctors appointments.

8. Go to all doctors appointment.
I was late to our first appointment due to work and the look on my wife's face when I arrived was something I never want to see again. Your wife wants you at every appointment, so make every effort possible to be at each one.

9. Let her sleep.
Your wife will experience a strong drain of energy. Take up some extra responsibilities around the house in order to allow her to rest.

10. Be patient and enjoy the journey.
Pregnancy is a journey and if you can be patient with your wife along the ride, your relationship will be come stronger than ever. This is the preparation time for entry into one of the most rewarding seasons of your life.

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10 Tips To Be A Great Lover She Would Never Resist

One of the easiest ways to be a great boyfriend is to understand your partner and put yourself in your partner's shoes.

But for an easier way out, here are ten tips on how to be a good boyfriend that can help you make all the difference in your love life.

#1 Treat her like a lady
Boyfriends aren't born great. They become good boyfriends by knowing how to behave with women and the girl they love.
One of the first steps in getting the admiration of a girl you like is to treat her like a lady.

Learn to be chivalrous and understand what it takes to make her feel special.

It's easy to play nice until you get the girl, and treat her like you don't care once the chase is over, but guys who do that will never be able to hold on to a great girl who's desired by all guys.

#2 Respect her as a person
You can't expect your girlfriend to do everything you want or behave the way you expect her to, just because she's your girlfriend. Remember that she's just your girlfriend, you don't own her and shouldn't expect her to behave like a trained monkey just because she's likes you or you're getting some action in bed with her.

If you want to know how to be a good boyfriend, learn to treat your girlfriend with respect and pay attention to her needs. Don't take her words lightly or ignore her advice just because she's a 'girl'. If you truly do love your girlfriend, you would respect her too.

And if you can't respect her, it's obvious it's not love that's holding the relationship together.

#3 Remember the special days
Do you ever forget your birthday? Of course, you don't. You never forget your birthday because it's a really special day that comes just once a year, right?

Don't you think your anniversary is special too, or perhaps your girlfriend's birthday? It's really arrogant when a guy forgets a special occasion and then says it's no big deal. If your own special day can be important, why can't you understand that women give equal attention to their special days too. Try to make a conscious effort to understand your girlfriend and remember the special days if she's indeed important to you

#4 Be caring and affectionate
For men, what matters is physical intimacy and s*x. For women, s*x is equally important, but they do appreciate a lot of affection too. Just like s*x matters to men, cuddles and affection matter just as much for women. Show your affection by spending time holding hands or sitting down in each other's arms while having a conversation.

A warm hug and a few affectionate kisses mean more in love than wild s*xual escapades. And it'll help your relationship last longer too.

#5 Don't take your girlfriend for granted
One of the most important aspects of knowing how to be a good boyfriend is to avoid taking your girlfriend for granted. If she gives you a foot massage or cooks a delicious meal for you over the weekend, just don't take your girlfriend for granted and expect the same every weekend. In a great relationship, both partners have to understand the efforts of their lover and realize that every simple gesture is a sign of love and affection that should never be taken for granted.

Never ever take your girlfriend for granted or take a special gesture for granted. Instead, always learn to be thankful and appreciative of every single affectionate gesture.

#6 Support your girlfriend when she's in need
All of us need a helpful hand when we're in need. You don't need to be clingy and become her Man Friday who's there to answer her every beck and call. But when your girlfriend genuinely asks you for advice or help, be there to help her out.

Your weekend games or your male bonding time may be important to you, but on a rare occasion that your girlfriend asks you for a bit of help, make sure you're by her side. It's always reassuring for a girl to know that she can depend on her man for a helpful hand.

#7 Learn to apologize
Now this isn't just isolated to boyfriends, but since we're going over how to be a good boyfriend, we'll stick to the man's side of things. It may be egoistically painful to apologize, but sometimes, it's a generous and yet humble move when a man can apologize to his girlfriend even if he's not the one who's wrong.

In the heat of an argument, it's easy to get egoistic and have tempers flying on a high, but always remember that a simple apology can end the fight and help both of you communicate better. At times, apologize to your girlfriend even if it's not your fault for the sake of the relationship.

P.S. You can always hint to your girlfriend that you're still right when both of you are having a laugh after a few hours. It'll help both of you sort your differences without getting blinded by anger or ego.

#8 Listen to her needs
Communicate and understand her needs and wants. Try to understand your girlfriend's feelings, and even if she ever does sulk or behave grumpily, try to understand what's going on in her mind instead of retaliating back in anger. Sometimes, women may find it easier to sit by themselves or throw an angry fit instead of getting straight to the point. It's one of the differences in the way men and women react to pain or anger.

Instead of getting angry over her behavior, realize that men and women are different in such cases and try to understand her mind without losing your cool. It'll make her feel better, and you a lot more understanding over time.

#9 Don't try to dominate her
Most guys have a tendency to dominate their girlfriends. It may start out subtly in little ways like watching a favorite show or telling the girlfriend to avoid speaking to a few particular friends. But eventually, the urge to control a partner grows to an uncontrollable level, especially after marriage and even more so if the man's the sole breadwinner.

This is one of the worst ways of trying to hold a relationship together. Instead of trying to dominate, learn to communicate. You can't cage a lover or try to manipulate them into becoming what you want them to be. Love is about the attraction between two individuals. If you try to change someone, it's not love that's holding both of you together, it's your insecurity and cowardliness.

#10 Push your girlfriend to be a better person
If you want to know how to be a good boyfriend, this is as good as it gets. You know your girlfriend better than anybody else, flaws and all. Most guys assume a relationship is all about being happy and in love, and having a great time in bed. But that's not where love ends.

Help your girlfriend become a better person and help her overcome her flaws. When both of you try to make each other better individuals by overcoming each other's flaws, you can achieve more happiness and satisfaction out of life. Learn to positively criticize your girlfriend and help her with her flaws at the same time. By helping her become a better person, she'll love you and respect you a lot more.

Always remember that knowing how to be a good boyfriend is easy, as long as you have the patience to look at the world through your girlfriend's eyes and learn to understand her thoughts and her wants.

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Music: Iyawo mi by A-Cool ft Wizkid

Dope Joint Alert.. AfroNaija Entertainment Signed Recording/performing artiste, "A-Cool" is Here with his Single of 2015 featuring Star Boy Records BOSS "Wizkid". This Two Wonderful Act Teamed Up To Deliver a Banging New Tune Titled "Iyawo Mi" Produced By ' Spart G ' and Mastered by 'AfroNaija Entertainment'.DOWNLOAD HERE

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6 Reasons Why Couple Are Getting Divorced These Days

According to Isabella Carson of Healthy Black Woman, when couples are getting divorced most people cite reasons such as cheating or abuse but a recent survey proved otherwise.

Most couples divorcing gave several shocking reasons when a study was conducted online and here a 6 major reasons participants gave.

1.
One man stated that he and his wife had tried to get pregnant for a long time but nothing was working. They were going to try alternative fertility options with the doctor but she didn't want to do that. Instead she cheated on her husband until she became pregnant.

2.
A woman said that she was coming to the conclusion that she would never want to have children with the man she had married because she didn't think she could trust him with them. She then wondered why she would trust him with their relationship too.

3.
Many couples have different maturity levels going into the relationship. Some end up not being able to handle the gap when one is far too immature or the other is far too strict.

4.
Some couples get married on a whim. They are swept away with romance and make the leap far too soon or they get married because a huge tragedy had just occurred and they didn't want to lose another person. After the fact they realized that they had gotten married for the wrong reason and felt that it was time to part ways.

5.
All too often you will hear the "we just grew apart" reason when there is really another underlying issue.However sometimes it is just because they grew apart from each other. They may have picked up new hobbies that are not of interest to the other half of the couple and they eventually drift apart.

6.
One man said that he had finally realized after a few years that his wife was a narcissist. He didn't want to let her have control over him anymore so he left and never looked back.

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