10 Reasons Being Single Again is a Gift Which Should Be Treasured

You recently broke up with your significant other because you felt it was for the best, well, that's okay because dating, though enjoyable needs a lot of time and patience from willing partners.
Here's the good news, being single again is not a bad thing and you should treasure it all the way till you find that special person.

If you really doubt it, Kevin Carr from Essence.com lists 10 reasons why you should cherish your single status.

1.
The beauty of possibility: You have the opportunity to begin again more intelligently as being single affords each of us the ability to write -- and then rewrite -- our stories if we so choose. How does your story look? How does it feel? This is your chance to figure that out and use this season of life to position yourself to realize your heart's true desires as a whole.

2.
The alone time: Most people don't like this stage of being single but it's necessary. It is during this period of isolation that you learn the most about yourself, which gives you the ability to grow and expand. After this happens everything in your world follows suit.

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More time to learn your wants and needs: Each relationship experience along with each date will help you to get a better gauge on your specific wants and needs if you allow them to. What you thought you needed in a man has a way of evolving over time. Reflect on what worked and what didn't. That will help you to fine-tune what and who you're looking for.

4.
You get to date: Dates are fun! (At least they should be.) The excitement of interacting with someone new in a social setting should intrigue you. Being single allows you the ability to meet new people and have new experiences. Some people want to give up on the world after one "bad" date. Don't let that be you. Embrace the journey and find enjoyment in the experiences.

5.
More Travel: If you can, pick up and go! It's a big world and you should see it, and without any romantic attachments you can. That's a good thing at times. If you don't want to travel alone find a fun girlfriend that you can jet-set with, like now. Broadening your life experiences will help to broaden your wants and needs in a man and ultimately positively affect your dating pool.

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The bed is all yours: Love and affection is great but sometimes you just need a good night's sleep. (No more having to sleep through your man's annoying habit of stealing the covers.) And, I won't even bring up snoring. Wait. I just did. If you're single and reading this please do me a favor; before you go to sleep tonight jump in your bed and do a snow angel. Watch how amazing it feels!

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More friend fun: Being single also frees you up to be able to spend more time with your friends than you were able to before. Admit it, when you were dating there were time you wished you had more time to go shopping and gossiping with them anyway, right? Yeah, I thought so.

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You get to indulge in randomness: You can move to a new place and start fresh. Forego sex for a period. Stop eating meat. Start attending church more. In most cases all these decisions would require at the very least a conversation with your significant other. You get to avoid this now. Your decisions are 100 percent your own again. In a nutshell, you now can do all those things you said you would be doing if you weren't "tied" down. Go do them!

9.
Your feelings are all that matters: There's liberation in that. Revel in it. You aren't obligated to take another person's feelings into account right now. You and only you are the most important person in your life. Enjoy it!

10.
The choice is yours: When it comes to being single I feel there is a certain error in perception that often hinders people. Instead of looking at it with the "I don't have anybody" mindset, try focusing on this: In this position you have absolute freedom to make what you feel is the best possible choice as far as the man you attach yourself to next. Take it one date at a time and one day at a time. Choose wisely and relish the time in between.

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MUSIC: GuchiKid - Emi Temi @iamGuchi

Micheal Toyosi Atolagbe,he is better known by his stage name Guchi (OSUN BOi)  (atimes stylized called GuchiKid). He is a versatile Upcoming Hip Hop Artist,Song writer,recording artist,performer,product endoser and also a student in one of Nigeria polytechnic. He got trended when he did the re-fix of Ara by Brymo,which got air plays both inside and outside the country,with the likes of tracks like #MioLeSofoRARA and #FollowMeGo. And now here with a Gospel spiced Tune '" EMi TEMi "" with which the visual was released under TSB MUSIC

DOWNLOAD HERE: http://tinyurl.com/mlznnu5

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Music: Volume by Abraham Santos ft Lussy

Abraham Santos "ABS" of Sacramento Entertainment officially presents a new single titled "Volume" featuring one of Nigerians promising artiste/producer Lussy of e-mpire records. The song was produced by yungcalis.DOWNLOAD HERE

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Music Video: Ori mi by Ashaolu Twizzy

Ashaolu Twizzy Dropped A Very Touching Single January 1st 2015 Tittled 'Ori Mi' and he just Shot The Video Directed by Epic' Enjoy The Teaser Before The Full Clip...DOWNLOAD HERE

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Music: Mu jojo by Frezhboi @iam_frezhboi

Talented singer and songwriter, Emmanuel Adeoti (FREZHBOI) has returned with another sensational song titled "MU JOJO".
The mid-tempo, groovy tune is mixed by Nelly B.
This joint will definitely take You away and beyond As 'FREZHBOI' took his stand with his Unique Style and delivery you can't Comprehend.DOWNLOAD HERE

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MUST READ: People Who Experienced Life After Death Tell Their Stories

What does it feel like to die? People who have been clinically dead and then revived have shared some chilling insights into what actually happens in those final moments – and beyond.

1. My world became soft and foggy and everything faded to black. Next thing I remember was opening my eyes and hearing a Doctor say, 'We got him back.' It was really a peaceful feeling more than anything.

2. Overdosed on heroin, the Emergency Room team said my heart stopped. Didn't see anything, just like sleeping with no dreams.

3. It felt to me that my entire life was a silly show I was focused on and forgot that it was simply a distraction from what was REALLY happening. I fell out of the 3rd dimension into…another dimension? I know it sounds crazy but maybe it was just chemicals in my head that created all the visuals. I'm not sure.

4. I was stabbed and shot three times 30 years ago. When I hit the floor (the last bullet hit my spine and left me a paraplegic) I was enveloped in the brightest white light and had a peace like I have never felt before or since. I was not scared, just at peace but then I suddenly breathed in a deep breath and woke up.

5. I overdosed on sleeping medication my freshman year in college. I was legally dead for three minutes(or so I was told). I do remember a little bit of the ambulance ride, but not from my own body. It was seriously the strangest thing I have ever experienced. It could have been a dream, but I saw my own unconscious body, completely flatlined, in the ambulance.

6. Pure, perfect, uninterrupted sleep, no dreams. Man was I pissed off when I was brought back.

7. I overdosed and had no pulse for 3-4 minutes. I remember feeling tired when everything kicked in, then a few spotty memories of chatting with friends, then I was standing in front of a giant wall of light. It stretched up, down, left and right as far as i could see. Kind of like putting your eyes six inches from a fluorescent lightbulb. The next memory I have is waking up in the hospital.

8. My friend had died when he was in his late teens. He told me he was in a dark room where nothing was happening. He was only dead for about a minute but he said it felt like an eternity. At first he thought it might be purgatory, but the longer it went on the more it felt like he had gone to hell.

9. I was unresponsive and on life support, I remember being on an eerie train, something was holding me back, I kept screaming to Jesus that I wanted to live… it wasn't a good place. I believe I was in purgatory. I came out of my coma three days later. I still remember to this day.

10. It feels like fainting, but much worse. Your vision goes completely black and you can no longer see even with your eyes wide open. Your legs and arms go limp, and numb, and feel very heavy and you can no longer move them. Hearing is the last to go, but the people around you sound far away and distant, and soon that fades to nothing. Your last split second of thoughts is one of fear and regret about dying and missing out on everything that will come after you have passed away and will never be alive and living in the world again.

And then poof, your consciousness is snuffed out, and you cease to exist. There is no heaven. No hell. There is nothing. But also, at that moment, there is no pain. No suffering. No more fears. No more cares. No more worries. It is just nothing at all. And you are gone forever. Other animals and plants will use your atoms to make their own bodies and they will live on, but you will never know you are a part of them now. They will have their own lives to lead. Yours is over now. And you will never live again.

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15 Things Men Find Annoying In Women

After listening to some of my friend's complaints and murmurings on Facebook walls, I decided to dive deeper into the subject and scour the internet for complaints about women posted by men.

Now, my dear friends, prepare yourselves, because the worst of it is coming! As you read, treat the exposed information as counsel on how to be better, not as demeaning. Ask yourself, would you put up with yourself if you were your own husband, fiancé, or boyfriend?

So, take a deep breath and read about 15 things that make men want to disappear, along with what the woman says to do so:

1. The Trouble Makers
Most readers will agree with this one. A man gets easily annoyed when a woman cannot let go of the things she does not like. Men do not like a woman who tries to solve problems by arguing about it in front of everyone.
To onlooker: "What you looking at? Don't you see that he is got someone already?"

2. The Drama Queens
The dramatic women love to create a storm in a glass of water. Crying helps them seem more convincing.
"That outfit is awful! I'm not going anymore! You can go by yourself, if you like!"

3. The Jealous
Among the worst complaints are against those women who are almost neurotically untrusting.
"Who is that woman in front of us? She's looked in the rear-view mirror twice now!"

4. The Yellers
You have no clue how annoyed a man gets with shouting.

YOU DON'T EVER LISTEN TO ME! YOU WOULD MUCH RATHER TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS!"

5. The Fault Finder
She is the type of woman that finds faults in everything. Nothing is the way she wants it.
"It would have been better had you done it my way."

6. The Bad-Humored
Are generally straight-faced and smile very little.
"What you laughing at?"

7. The Madonnas
These women do not like the fact that men have freedom of choice. They believe that men do not know how to use their agency well or even that they do not possess the maturity to do so. Generally, they act as if they were his mother.
"You are no longer allowed to use that shirt! It is horrific!"

8. The insecure
These women do not think they are worthy of their companions. They always question themselves about their feelings and the man's taste in women.
"You think that she's prettier than me, don't you? I bet if she looked this way, you would totally go after her and leave me behind."

9. The indecisive
Single boys have a lot to say about this attitude. They show interest in a girl and she shows interest back, but she soon acts distant. Boys feel very confused with this type of attitude.

Those men that are no longer single also have their own two cents to put in. Not being able to pick which clothes to wear, which place to go, and other similar decisions leaves men impatient and irritated.
"I don't know, what do you think?"

10. The Subjective
These are the women with the inability to be direct or state what they want. They think that men have a crystal ball attached to their brains. Not only do they hope that the man will guess what they are thinking, they hope that he deciphers the "woman code," which is given through looks, small gestures, a nose scratch or any other similar signs.
"You just don't understand me."

11. The Overly-Attached
Emotionally dependent women are a burden to men. They do not understand that men need to breathe, have some personal time, and demonstrate total dependence on their love. These kinds of women are similar to gum on a shoe.
"You haven't even left yet and I already miss you!" "Without you, I would die!"

12. The Sloppy
The greatest complainers are married men, since single women don't usually make this mistake during dating times. Men like having a good-looking woman by their side!
"People need to stop worrying about the small details."

13. The Digger
Think more about the things that she can obtain by relating with a man, than the type of person he is.
"What year was your car made again?"

14. The Vulgar
Women like to fish for attention at whatever cost, including being revealing in their attire.
"My body is beautiful, so I'll show it."

15. The Liars

They do not like to do things openly and do not feel comfortable exposing the truth. They prefer to omit a fact or two to telling the truth.

"I don't know what you are talking about."
Well, there you have it, women. These complaints do have a foundation, don't you think? So, don't get angry about it. But fight the stereotypes and make a few changes to improve your relationships and yourselves.

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5 Kind of Guys Nigerian Girls Will Not Date

Nigerian girls will not touch the following guys with a pole.

The Self Righteous guy:This guy is very judgmental. He probably doesn't drink or smoke, and he doesn't hesitate to tell others to follow suit. From the very first date, he'll preach to a woman, telling her she shouldn't drink wine or
get dessert.

He Argues:This type of guy turns every conversation into an argument. When he takes a woman out, he makes her feel like she's in debate class rather than on a date. And in doing so, he makes her feel defensive and self-conscious.

The Flirt:The Boorish Guy doesn't try to hide the fact that he's checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts with every girl and he even goes as far as to brag about his past conquests. Overall, he lacks respect for women.

The Arrogant Guy:He has a huge ego and he's condescending. He's also rude -- not necessarily to her, but to anyone he perceives as beneath him. And that's just as bad as being rude directly to her.

The needy Guy:He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.

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Music: Money o by Iskul @iSkulBaby

Rakeone Music proudly presents iSkul official debut single "MONEY O" The indigenous rapper iSkul hails from the southern part of Nigeria Bayelsa State, who sings and rap with the IJAW Language, just as the like's of other indigenous Rappers in the Industry, song produced by 2kicks,  mixed and Mastered by Surface.DOWNLOAD HERE

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PICS: Sensational Vocalist Timi Dakolo Hangsout With Snoop Dogg In Atlanta At The Rapper’s Listening Party

Timi Dakolois unarguably one of Nigerians finest vocalist, the singer who's recent single have been enjoying massive rotation on Tv and Radio across the the country, which have also earned him a lot of awards.
The "Iyawo mi" singer is currently in Atlanta and attended the listening party of popular American rap iconSnoop Dogg'snew album which took place in ATL.

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MUSIC: Small Doctor Ft. Pasuma – Gbagaun (Remix) @iam_Smalldoctor

While we wait for the Official Video of Mosquito Killer one of the hottest singles on the street right now . Here is the official release of another Hit Single bySmall DoctorftPasuma"Gbagaun Remix". Small Doctor is gradually find his way to the top as he features Oga Nla on this new single and yet again the young man did an amazing job. Listen and share your thoughts.
DOWNLOAD HERE: http://tinyurl.com/k63xrnv

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TIPS: How to Make Your Vagina Smell Good

If you have a strange vaginal odor, the first step you should take is to find the source of the cause and treat it as soon as possible to avoid any future infections or complications.
Here are Top 7 Ways to Make Your Vagina Smell Good!

1. Understand the Causes.
Infections and diseases are the major causes of serious vaginal odor. Examples of such infections and diseases include yeast and bacterial infections, STIs, STDs, or viruses like herpes. Even much more serious problems like some kinds of cancer or internal ruptures can cause vaginal odor. You will need to monitor your body for other signs of illness and if you really feel that your vaginal odor is unnatural, see your doctor.
One thing you should look out for are unusual discharges from your vagina. Brown, green, or chunky white discharges are signs of infection and you need to see your doctor as soon as possible. Bear in mind that some discharge is normal and healthy but it should not smell!

2. Watch your diet. Certain foods tend to affect your body in certain ways, by altering your body's balance of sugar, bacteria, and chemical compounds.
-Start by eating less sugar. A spike in blood sugar can cause yeast infections and buildup, which will cause bad odor.
-Try eating pineapple. Though there is no scientific evidence, many people swear by the idea that pineapple improves both taste and smell for both genders.
-Yogurt is also a great way to help women keep a healthy vagina, as it contains the bacteria which naturally occurs in our body to maintain a healthy vagina.

3. Try shaving or trimming. Having pubic hair can create an environment that harbors bacteria if not cleaned properly. If you want to reduce the likelihood of this being a problem, you can shave your pubic hair or keep it cut short.

4. Good hygiene
If you use soap, antibacterials, use pools frequently, take hot baths, use lotion too close to the vulva, don't change underwear often enough, use scented pads, use underwear made out of stifling material, this can cause problems.
Rinse your vulva with water, avoid soap in your vulva, and wear clean clothes.

5. Another powerful antibiotic is garlic, specifically a clove of garlic. Insert one into the vagina and keep it there for a few hours to remove odor.

6. Avoid hot baths and hot tubs. Surrounding your vagina with overly hot water will kill much of your body's natural bacteria which preserves the delicate balance of your vagina. Avoid sitting in very hot water too frequently or for too long.
Change pads every four to eight hours during the menstrual cycle, as needed.

7. If it's your natural body odor that is offending you, try increasing your fish, fruit, and vegetable intakes while reducing consumption of red meats.
In summary: Never think that your natural smells are bad smells, it's designed to smell like a vagina and that is a good thing, it's not supposed to smell like soap, perfumes or flowers!

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The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage

Growing up, a woman's virginity was such a big issue and a high value was placed on it.

From time immemorial, a woman's virginity has been seen as one of her most prized possessions and a certain respect was accorded to any woman who remained a virgin till marriage.
But with modernization came a new school which places less value on a woman's virginity. These days, virginity is even seen as a curse. Girls have no qualms losing it to the first man that comes their way.

In the days of old, a maiden was expected to go into marriage as a virgin. If on the first night after the marriage her husband discovered she was not a virgin, her family gets instant condemnation.

But civilization has substantially changed the way people perceive virginity. Today, there's so much pressure on girls to gain s*xual experience before getting married as some men do not want to marry a woman with no s*xual experience.

Most girls who have friends that are already sexually active feel left out when they are discussing their experiences, hence the urge to also experiment for themselves.

Virgins are really very scarce these days as majority loose it even before the age of 20. Some girls even compete among themselves who would be the first to lose her virginity.

But what is the big deal about virginity? Could it be the secret to a happy marriage?

Let's take a look at some of the answers given by some Naij.com readers.

According to Ella Ada Obani, being a virgin does not guarantee a happy marriage but it earns trust. "You might be a virgin, but ur attitude and character is zero," she adds.

Owomoyela Abimbola Hanna said: " Yes it does, because the bible doesn't support s*x before marriage. And whenever we do things according to the will of God, we live a happy and fulfilled life ."

"It pays to be a virgin. If you are a virgin when you pray, God answers you speedily because you have kept yourself pure.

Secondly, it is only a foolish man or a 'man dog' that does not have value for a virgin. Do you know what it cost a lady to preserv e her indecency for just one man? Any husband that happens to be the first to drink from the cistern of his wife should count himself blessed. 2yrs ago, Imo state government was giving out cars to serving female corpers that got married as virgin. Let us teach our children to uphold their virginity. Your virginity is your pride ," Ebony Celestine said.

Anekwe Nkechi believes that some girls are still virgin in 20's but it has nothing to do with happiness in marriage. She explains that some virgins find it difficult to conceive, saying: "so virgin or no virgin doesn't guarantee anything."

Justynoble Ben is of the opinion that being a virgin can guarantee a happy marriage to some extent because your husband will always respect and cherish you and with that he will hardly hurt you. "I f I am given such privilege to be a virgin again, I would love to be ," he adds.

Eno Jonah said: " It doesn't guarantee a successful marriage but you'll be happy about not having a dark past. Your husband will always respect you for that, if given another chance I'll still be a virgin for him again ."

"The answer to this question is Yes & No. Being a virgin guarantees a happy home as your hubby will cherish you like gold not only that, he won't have the mind to cheat on you and you also earn respect trust from him. On the other hand, why I say it doesn't guarantee a happy marriage is when you are married to the wrong person. I am a virgin and am very proud of myself, still love to be a virgin again in my next life," Muslihat Obomeghie said.

Another reader named Jane Odukwe said: " My question is the man coming to marry a virgin, is he a virgin? Typical no, so why is he looking for a virgin? Sounds as if making marriage work is made for women alone. What about the men, can't they put effort to see that their marriage works too ."

It is quite understandable that the pressure to remain a virgin till marriage has become more and more difficult in today's world which celebrates waywardness, immorality, indecency and stupidity more than uprightness and decency.

But there are still a number of virgins out there and you can be one of them. If you desire to, all you need to do is make up your mind and determine to keep your virginity till marriage.
Though it is not very easy, it is possible.

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Health Revelation: The Dangers Of Mouth Action [18+ Details]

MouthAction is s*x that involves the mouth and the joystick, v**ina, or anus (b*tt hole). Some other
words for different kinds of Mouth Action are "Mouth Action," "giving head," "going down on," "eating out," "sucking," "cunnilingus," or "rimming."

How risky is it?

There are a few known cases of people getting HIV from giving Mouth Action (licking or sucking).

There are no known cases of someone getting HIV from receiving Mouth Action (being licked or sucked).

Experts believe that Mouth Action without protection is less risky than other kinds of s*x, but all agree that it is possible to get HIV from giving MouthAction to an HIV-infected partner without protection, especially if the HIV-infected partner ejaculates in the mouth. Certain factors, such as the presence of any cuts or sores in the mouth, are thought to increase the riskiness of Mouth Action.

Giving Mouth Action (Mouth Action) to a man has been proven to carry some risk of getting HIV, although most scientists believe the risk is relatively low.

The risk increases if the person giving the Mouth Action has any cuts or scrapes in his or her mouth, even small ones that can be caused by brushing or flossing right before s*x. To have safer MouthAction, avoid getting any Fluid in your mouth, either by stopping MouthAction before expulsion or by using a nonspermicidal condom. You can use an oral barrier such as a dental dam or plastic wrap to make oral-an*l s*x (rimming) safer.
Giving MouthAction to (going down on) a woman is also relatively low risk. The possibility of infection is higher if there is menstrual blood, if the woman has another STD in addition to HIV, or if the person performing MouthAction has sores or cuts in the mouth. You can use an oral barrier such as a dental dam or plastic wrap to make oral-vaginal s*x (cunnilingus) or oral-an*l s*x (rimming) safer.

The risk of other sexually transmitted diseases…..
There are many diseases besides HIV that can be passed through unprotected MouthAction, including herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, hepatitis A, and the viruses that cause warts, intestinal parasites, and other conditions.

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4 s*xual Sins Every Christian Should Avoid

There are at least four primary s*xual sins the Word of God speaks of: adultery, fornication, uncleanness and lewdness.

Here are the definitions of these four s*xual sins:

1- Adultery: Unlawful s*xual intercourse involving at least one married person. Adultery is incompatible with the harmonious laws of family life in God's kingdom, and is under God's judgment since it violates God's original purpose.

2- Fornication: p****graphy, illicit s*xual intercourse including prostitution, whoredom, inc*st, licentiousness (lack of moral restraint), and habitual immorality (would include s*xual fantasies that lead to self service).

3- Uncleanness: Often refers to homosexuality and lesbianism

4- Lewdness: unashamed indecency, unbridled lust, unrestrained depravity (a disposition or settled tendency to evil, the innate corruption of unregenerate man), the person with this characteristic has an insolent defiance of public opinion, sinning in broad daylight with arrogance and contempt. Again, this often refers to s*xual sin. Here's where many people err in their understanding of their se*uality. Notice the following verses.
"Foods for the stomach and the stomach for foods, but God will destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for s*xual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. And God both raised up the Lord and will also raise us up by His power" (1 Cor. 6:13-14). Paul is correcting the dangerous misconception among the Corinthians who believed, "as the stomach is designed for food, the private parts are created for s*xual experience." This mind-set is not only common among unregenerate human beings but also among Christians who justify s*xual immorality. Paul shows how this analogy is false because your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost and belongs to Christ. Eating food is a secondary and temporal arrangement, but se*uality reaches into the eternal and metaphysical depths of one's being. An essential identity exists between the present physical body and the future glorified body (v 14). s*xual intercourse is more than a biological experience; it involves a communion of life. Since Jesus is one with the born-again believer's spirit, it is unthinkable to involve Him with immorality; thus the strong admonition not to let the sin of fornication and all uncleanness "even be named among you" (Eph. 5:3; emphasis added). se*uality is a uniquely profound aspect of the personality involving one's entire being. s*xual immorality has far-reaching effects, with great spiritual significance and social implications (v18). Such immorality is not only a sin against the body but against the Holy Spirit, who dwells in the body. It is one of the ways we are to discern the Lord's body, which when consistently neglected, as I stated earlier, often brings weakness, sickness, and even premature death. Regardless of how satisfying and fulfilling s*x is in its rightful place within the marriage, it is still a temporal arrangement and not a part of our eternal existence.

And yet by it we procreate and give birth to eternal spirits. s*xual immorality messes with the power of procreation with someone to whom you are not married. The s*xual drive is not sinful, but it is hurtful if not kept in its proper place. Scripture forbids s*xual immorality in order to protect you. Politicians, businesses, schools and our public institutions are not qualified to handle the subject of s*xual immorality and deviate s*x problems we have in our culture. They are a part of the problem, not the solution.

Sadly though, the church has fallen so short of addressing this problem from a strong scriptural perspective. Some churches no longer even believe what the Bible says about s*xual immorality is pertinent. One high-ranking church official said that the church is going to have to come to an understanding of homosexuality according to the changing culture. That is one of the biggest problems in the church today. Many of us are conforming to the standards of the culture around us. Another well-known charismatic television preacher told his audience that homosexuality is not sin but brokenness. "What do you think David and Jonathan were doing? What do you think Ruth and Naomi were doing?" implying that they were involved in homosexual and lesbian relationships. I had to shake my head at that one. And yet this preacher is considered one of the greatest preachers in America with a very large following. It turns out that one of his own children is a homosexual. Although this is a very crushing trial for any godly parent to have to face, one cannot be loyal to his family at the expense of betraying God's holy Word.

When influential preachers say erroneous things like that, it opens the door for deception and compromise among masses of people who respect these preachers. This will lead to a flood of evil, immorality, and all kinds of perversion among the hearers of such. It is sad to see the dilution of sound doctrine in much of the church today. It is grievous to the Holy Spirit to see such cowardice and compromise among preachers who have either departed from the true faith or who are afraid to teach sound doctrine in the area of s*xual morality. As a result, our children and young people are getting educated by the reprobate minds of the world. Let the preachers of righteousness speak up with strength and conviction, for the time is here when many are not enduring sound doctrine, but with itching ears are heaping up teachers unto themselves.

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Things A Lady Shouldn’t Do In The Presence Of A Man

• Farting In Our Presence
Men hate this to the core, they may pretend not to but they really hate when you do it in their presence. If you doubt me, go and ask a man whom you don't know to tell you what he thinks of a lady who fart or always fart in front of him.

• Eating too much
Whenever you Ladies are in our Presence please try to control your eating habits. Not that we're too broke to buy you Food but eating without Class just because your indoors is disgusting to say the least!

• Washing of your undies (panties)
Please try to reduce the amount of times you wash your undies in our presence. Forget that popular slang which tends to say that when a man loves you, he can even wash your undies, we're not that cool with seeing someone else's undies!

• Talking too dirty
Please, have control of things you say in our presence. Don't be too naughty when it comes to your language except you want to remain a GIRLFRIEND FOR LIFE!!!!!

• Laughing excessively
Control the length you laugh in front of us. When we're not around, you can laugh and bring down the roof if you wish. I was talking to a lady and she laughed so loud that she didn't know when she polluted.

• Always watching movies
If your a Nollywood addict please, for the sake of not receiving any RED CARD, stop giving all your time to once your man is around. We need total concentration when we are talking to you

• Fighting
Never you fight in front of your man, he may feel that one day you will fight his mother.

• i Too Know attitude
Its very annoying when you always act like you know everything. When we argue about sports,romance,friends etc its cool for you to let us win sometimes as it would do you no harm than try to make sure you POV is the most correct even when its not.

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For Ladies – 10 Foods That Ensures Bigger Breasts

If you are interested in increasing your chest size naturally without surgery, changing your diet something you should consider. It is important to realize that food by itself cannot induce chest growth. For that you need chest enlargement herbs.
However, without the amino acids and phytoestrogens that are contained in certain foods, your breasts will not grow as much as they should, no matter how many herbs you take. The following ten foods are both good for you and available in any grocery store. Simply add them in your diet to boost your natural chest enlargement program.

1. Alfalfa sprouts Alfalfa sprouts are rich inphytoestrogens and other nutrients that promote chest growth.

2. AvocadoAvocado contains amino acids and other nutrients that promote growth of the breasts.

3. Flax seeds Flax seeds contain phytoestrogens, which stimulate chest growth.

4. MilkMilk is high in protein and also contains naturally occurring estrogen, progesterone, and prolactin, which are needed for chest growth.

5. NutsNuts are high in monosaturated fat, which promotes chest growth.

6. ParsleyParsley is a plant which stimulates the production of estrogen and even regulates hormonal disorders.

7. SeafoodSeafood contains high levels of manganese, which helps to increase s*x hormones, thus. promoting the growth of chest tissue. Seafood also makes the chest tissues more susceptible to estrogen.

8. SoySoy products are rich in isoflavones and help fight the free radicals and cancer cells that might grow in chest tissues. It is also very rich in phytoestrogens, the hormone largely responsible for chest growth.

9. Sunflower seedsSunflower seeds are high in protein, which increases chest volume.

10. Whey proteinProtein is crucial to any chest enlargement program. Although including meat, poultry, and fish in your diet is an good way to boost chest growth, whey protein is an even more concentrated protein food.. If you want to grow your breasts naturally, you can boost your progress by eating these ten foods.The best part of the natural chest enlargement experience is that aimost everything you do for chest growth also benefits your overall health in some way. Bigger breasts and better health: what a great combination!

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5 Rules for First Time s*x

s*x is a beautiful thing and it is vital for any marriage to survive. it brings about emotional and physical bond. However, s*x is worth waiting for and it is best to wait till you are married. Here are 5 rules for first time s*x;

1. Mutual consent is required. In addition to this rule there are others that must be present
– Mutual consent is required. okay you or she do not, what's the point? Remember that we are not using the other as object, we must be loving. It is right that one of the two try things because the other person likes to do that, but they must be prior, and not imposed by force.

2. Absolute respect is mandatory. The great respect is mandatory. Respect means that you are aware of what the other person wants. You are ready to discover what they are capable both in s*xual matters. Your lover may have been damaged psychologically or emotionally from past relationships he had.

In fact, in most cases almost all were disappointed once. At the other end may have experienced s*xual abuse as children. They may feel insecure about their se*uality. They may have low self-esteem as a lover. Can be quite inexperienced in s*xual technique.

You must be extremely patient and sensitive to the limits of their se*uality. Therefore, respecting your partner and give the time necessary to make you feel right at his side.

3.The mutual care is required. Care is required. Love is always given and received as a gift. s*x without love can be great s*x, but if you add s*x care can become a warmth that connects two hearts and souls.

This is s*x beyond technique. s*x with two lovers care becomes full. s*x with love from the fans overwhelmed. Care to connect the s*xual movements to achieve the creation of a deeper spiritual connection.

Most men want an emotional connection and most will welcome
a more spiritual experience of s*x, but are scared and do not yet know how. Most women need an emotional connection instead as input for a s*x carefully.

4.Open and honest communication is mandatory. Chivalry is used as required, and "rude" is used as mutually desired. With mutual consent anything is fine. But it is usually best to start with more gentleness and more impetuous progress slowly, and so you learn what they want and in turn what you would like it. Many women are passionate and "playful" as they feel secure. But if you have not established a high degree of confidence with it, "wild" may end prematurely with what might have been a passionate s*xual relationship and long term.

5.The kindness and chivalry are the norm, and what? Wild? is allowed if mutually agreed Open and honest communication is mandatory. Talk about s*x. Say what you like and what does not.
A good way to do this is to offer options A and B and ask what she likes best partner. This prevents damage to fragile egos that young men are as likely as they learn to be lovers.

If a man listens? I do not like that??, It's easy to feel you're hurting your family and that can make withdraw, get angry or react otherwise inappropriate. But if you give to your partner, for example, the choice between touching her breasts in one way or another, and asked what was best for her, you will not hurt your ego and learn faster like it. Thus a common lover becomes a great lover.

If you need to stimulate their imagination to know what to try, read any of several manuals available in bookshops love. And then use some of the techniques explained here to discover the preferences of his wife.

Once you consider honest with their attitudes then you can move comfortably in the physical aspects of love: as the act in question, the previous game, the game moments later and all juicy having s*x.

East is an ancient tradition called? Warrior lover? Where the man is prepared physically, emotionally, and mentally for? Great battle?. This is not for dominating or defeating your lover but to bring the best in both and reach new heights in se*uality.

The idea of creating the right ambience for lovemaking may seem artificial or calculated, but there is also a great lover of art. A secluded, candles, good music, good wine, a special meal, clean sheets may sound like a trite scene from an old movie but still work. Women love to be adored and creating a special place to love them shows that you love her too.

Know that foreplay is very important to take a woman to s*xual satisfaction. It can get to wake up the passion and take it to the peak of his desire.

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4 Ways To Bring Hot “Honeymoon Action” BACK To Your Bedroom

s*x in marriage changes, matures, gets better, and has downtime over the lifetime of your relationship.

But it is also true that you can maintain a strong s*xual, sensual, and er*tic relationship that is vibrant, exciting, and fulfilling with these four simple steps:

1. Understand that married s*x differs from "new couple" s*x

Great married s*x is about understanding that the two of you will have a lifetime of sensual and er*tic experiences together. Some will be great, most will be just okay, and some will be bad.
The most difficult piece of work is making the OK s*x … okay! This kind of s*x happens when one person has a higher level of desire and the other person just goes along for the ride.

Most couples I see have a deep belief that there is something wrong with their s*x life if they have different desire levels. This is actually perfectly normal. Age, stress, hormones, injuries, and medications all have an impact on your s*x drive and ability to climax. It's important to learn to navigate this OK s*x with creativity, understanding, and generosity.

2. Realize that s*x isn't only intercourse

The goal for your sensual life together is to have a buffet of touch—intimate, er*tic, intercourse, and so on. Just because you are touching in an er*tic way does not mean you must have intercourse. It's a very freeing feeling to disconnect the link between touch and s*x.

Sometimes intercourse is not an option (broken leg, sprained back, babies), but don't let that stop you from having playful and intimate dates. Plan a date night with your spouse where you agree to a level of touch (intimate or er*tic) and stay there without moving up the scale to s*x.

3. Schedule s*x

This is greatly debated among couples. How can scheduled s*x be sexy? When you schedule s*x with your partner, you are stating that your sensual life is important to you and that you want to carve time out for your partner.

You are not just waiting to see if there is enough energy left at the end of the day to give him or her. It also allows for anticipation to build as you get ready, pick special clothes, and imagine all the what's and when's. Try scheduling a few s*x dates and see if it works for your relationship.

4. Be spontaneous and try something new.

It always feels odd counseling couples to schedule spontaneous s*x. It seems impossible, but the spontaneity I'm referring to is not about when you have s*x; rather, what you do during s*x.
Passion and desire stem from the unknown. It is important that each month you add something new to your s*x life. I'm not talking about a big "new," but a small "new"—a slight change to the position or location, a different rhythm, turning the lights on or off, saying something kinky, or keeping some clothes on. These small changes invite the unknown back into your relationship and keep passion alive.

There are many octogenarian couples who report having wonderful and satisfying s*x lives. When we hear that, most of us throw a wish into the universe: "I hope that's us someday!"
It can, but you need to allow your definition of s*x and sexy to change. And, as always, talk with your spouse about these four steps, about s*x, and about your desires and needs.

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8 Silent Ways Your Husband Is Screaming ‘I Love You’

Husbands get a bad rap for their inability to express themselves, especially when it comes to saying those three simple words: "I love you." Your husband may tell you he loves you as he's leaving for work or before he says good night, but sudden, spur-of-the-moment expressions of his most inner romantic feelings are not something a man shares on a regular basis. Believe it or not, sharing delicate emotions just isn't a common characteristic of the average male.

Wives, don't let your husbands' lack of words discourage you. While words are very important, expressions of love aren't always given aloud. When your hubby's lips are silent, he screams "I love you" in the things he does for you. Some of his actions are easy to dismiss because they are small and simple, but when you look at them from his perspective, you'll see the sacrifice he's really making. Here are eight ways your husband is screaming he loves you — and you might be missing them.

He lets you choose

If you go out to the movies and your husband lets you choose the movie, he is letting you know that what you want is important to him. Similarly, if he lets you choose dinner, the color of your next car, the destination of your next vacation … he is telling you — very loudly — that he loves you and that you matter to him.
He helps out around the house
When my husband comes home after a long day at work and pitches in to help me finish dinner and do the dishes, I know he is saying "I love you." I have seen him mop the floors, scrub the toilet, organize the pantry, fold my personal laundry and complete a honey-do list a mile long — all in the name of love. If your husband helps around the house, he doesn't do it out of duty or to show off to his friends. He does it because he knows it will lessen your load.

He asks for your advice

When your husband asks for your advice, not only is he telling you that he loves you but he is also telling you that he trusts you to give him guidance. It is difficult for many men to open up and ask others for help, so if your man has come to you seeking advice, feel honored, trusted and very much loved. He has placed you in a very small circle of people whom he feels he can open up to. In essence, he is saying, "I love you, and I know I can open up to you without fear of judgment."

He holds your hand

Whether out in public or home alone, when your man holds your hand, he is saying "I love you." Holding hands is a simple expression of genuine love. It is physical touch without s*xual innuendo. It is love in its simplest form. It is the quickest and easiest action your husband can do to express the feelings he has in his heart.

He helps with the shopping

Whether he's shopping by your side or picking something up on the way home, if your husband is willing to shop til' he drops, he is saying "I love you." I used to always ask my husband to stop by the store on the way home, and because he was always willing to do it, I never really thought about the sacrifice he was making. Only recently did I discover that my husband doesn't really like grocery shopping, that he only does it because he loves me and knows I don't like grocery shopping either. If your husband is willing to help you do the things you don't like to do (especially when he's not so fond of those things himself), he is practically screaming his affection.

He listens to your frustrations

I'm just going to say it. The majority of women have a lot they like to complain about (myself included). If your husband is willing listen to your frustrations — and even offer encouragement — he is really saying "I love you." A man who is willing to sit and listen, especially when he has heard the same complaint over and over again, should certainly be recognized.

He smiles at you

A smile, like holding hands, is such a simple gesture, but it speaks volumes. A simple, sincere smile has the power to take a woman's breath away. Remember when you first met your husband — how his smile affected you. Keep that memory close because, each time your hubby smiles at you, he reaffirms every loving word he's ever said to you. Not only does that sincere smile say "I love you," it says, "You make me happy."

He gives you a piece of himself

Whether it's a compliment, a gift he's purchased or a loving glance, when your husband takes the time to give you something that has come directly from him, he is saying "I love you." Even when he gives you a gift that is completely off the mark, the act of giving shows that you are on his mind.

The words may not always be said, but if you listen with your eyes, you'll find that your husband is screaming "I love you."

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