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Orange Music Production has a proactive signing policy with artistes as we give room for equal opportunities regardless of racism, ethnic or religion.
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Wednesday, July 29, 2015
6 Things A Man Should NEVER Do For The Woman He Loves
1. Let her guilt him into doing things
This is called being emotionally abusive and manipulative. It is not acceptable. A man should never let his sweetheart guilt trip him into doing something just because he loves her. That is not how love works. It is totally fine to sacrifice your wants for the needs of another. That is love. But when this love is manipulated by tears and selfish desires, a line must be drawn.
2. Put himself into financial ruin
Men have the natural desire to feel confident in their abilities as a provider. Because of this, many men will give into the every want of their sweetheart, purchasing their way into horrendous debt. No matter how much your wife loves to shop there will be more tears when you find yourself with nothing than there will be when you insist on living within your means. Your significant other should love who you are more than what you can buy for her.
3. Pretend to be who he isn't
This should be pretty obvious. No one should feel the need to be someone they aren't around the love of his or her life. Relationships that are built upon false identities and assumptions are almost always doomed for failure. Always be yourself with the woman you love. If it turns out that she does not love who you really are, she is not worth your time or emotion.
4. Give up his values and beliefs
Men, never ever give up your beliefs, values or religion for a woman. A woman who truly loves you would never make you give up your core beliefs for her. This is not true love. Your values and beliefs are a part of who you are. If your sweetheart cannot accept this, she does not really love you. This does not mean that she needs to agree with and share your beliefs. It does mean that she should respect them.
5. Suppress his emotions
Today's society puts a large amount of pressure on men to be "manly." This manliness is often stereotyped as rough, tough and emotion free. The truth is that men are every bit as human as women, and humans feel. So, while a man might act the part of a man out in public, he should not feel the need to put on the stone face around the woman he loves. Your sweetheart should be your safe place where you feel free to express and openly feel your emotions. A man should never hold in his feelings in fear that the woman he loves will think him weak or unmanly.
6. Change his dreams or career
Just because it may not be her dream, does not mean it cannot be yours. A man has just as much right to dream as a woman does. While romantic relationships will often require some dreams to be sacrificed, those sacrifices should not require you to live in misery. Men should not give up doing what they love for something their wives or in-laws think is better. A woman who truly loves you will support you in your dreams and choice of career. What is important to you should be important to her.
If Your Guy Ever Does These 5 Things, DON’T MARRY HIM
1. He gets violent, even if he doesn't hit you. You may think this is a no-brainer but honestly it isn't. Most women I know who've been in abusive relationships have immense strength, only to shut down in the presence of her partner's anger and violence.
As a strong woman myself, I froze when a guy I'd been dating went into a rage one night, throwing things, damaging property and calling me names. I knew it was a deal-breaker because even though he didn't put his hands on me, he scared me. No healthy relationship can be built off a foundation of fear because you never know when his actions may escalate.
2. He cheats. Many people will say this point is debatable because lots of couples who have fidelity issues repair their relationship and end up in a better than where they were pre-cheating. But it's not the act of cheating that's the deal-breaker here; it's the disrespect, broken trust and significant risk to your health. (Hello, STDs!)
With all the risks that hang in the balance for just a tiny bit of pleasure, it's entirely inconsiderate and selfish when a man cheats on you. Do you want someone who puts his wants before your needs, like security and trust? I don't which is why I've said BYE to cheating men.
3. He doesn't claim or proclaim you. Many women will spend time in limbo-like relationships with guys who won't give them the girlfriend title. Here's the truth: If you've been dating a man for longer than six to nine months and he's hasn't made you an official part of his life, it's time to MOVE ON.
Stop making excuses for why things aren't progressing to the next level; you'll only waste time and your time is worth more than that. These days, I don't settle for less because I don't want a man who makes you a bargain-bin find. If he knows your worth, he'll claim and proclaim you and there will be few conversations about how 'he isn't ready.'
4. He suffers from addiction. There are plenty of honor badges to be earned by standing by your man when he's fallen on hard times. But CAUTION if you stick with a man fighting demons, namely addiction. Addiction can range from less-severe, like cigarettes, to major issues such as drug, alcohol and s*x.
Someone who suffers from an addiction will do anything – and I mean anything – to get their fix, even at the expense of those they love. So unless you'd like to be second to whatever vices he has, it may be time to 'leave smoke.'
5. He gaslights you. We've spoken about gaslighting, which is the manipulative act of someone attempting to change your memory or perception of events in their favor, making you feel crazy or like you've forgotten something. But when is gaslighting a dealbreaker, you ask? The answer is when it happens!
A man who resorts to manipulative tactics to have his way or 'win' an argument will continue to play mind games and be dishonest with you. When I experienced gaslighting in my relationships, I felt crazy and my self-esteem plummeted until I understood the game that was being played. Take advantage of the situation and leave immediately; it's the best thing you can do for yourself.
If Your Partner Doesn’t Make You Feel These 5 Things, Don’t Say ‘I Do’
There are certain standard emotions we all feel when we fall in love; they're universal. While they may only be a part of the definition, the tip of the iceberg, they are necessary to keep our delusion alive. And what a wonderful delusion it is.
1. Intense Desire
It won't always be intense, but that's because it couldn't possibly be. The level of desire you feel for your partner will vary.
There will be days when you won't be able to keep your hands off each other just as there will be days when you don't feel the need to devour him or her.
The problem most couples face is actually not a problem at all. It's more than normal for your desire for each other to fluctuate over time — just as all your other emotions are never constants, neither is desire.
Most couples fall into a panic when their loins aren't burning for each other, but what they fail to understand is it's possible to return to that state, indefinitely.
The one thing you can't do, however, is fake it. If you've never felt intense desire for the man or woman in your life, then don't expect another few years to change that.
2. Jealousy
This one is a bit tricky. You don't want to feel jealous too often — because that's most definitely not a good sign — but you also need to feel jealous from time to time.
Jealousy is only bad if we act on it poorly. The feeling itself is harmless. More than that, it can be incredibly useful for keeping things exciting.
Jealousy is a very exciting emotion. It forces upon us a reminder of how much we want to keep someone for ourselves.
I understand this sort of wanting for yourself isn't for everyone, and there are some who have a more open approach to love.
One way isn't better than the other — simply different. Personally, I enjoy feeling jealous. I enjoy wanting.
As long as you use that jealousy as positive motivation, then your relationship will only benefit from it.
If there is no jealousy in your relationship, then you may want to ask yourself why.
3. Longing
If you've never longed for someone, missed this person when he or she wasn't around to the point it became unpleasant, then I don't think you were ever in love.
To love someone is to find someone you understand you are connected to — a connection which you always felt existed but never understood until now.
Once you meet this person, you're going to want to shorten the distance between the two of you and keep it shortened. When distance is a necessity, you're going to long for his or her presence.
This won't be constant, but it is necessary. Otherwise, the relationship will fail, the marriage will end.
4. Utter Bliss
You either are in love or you aren't in love. The turning point in which you go from the latter to the former is a point of utter bliss.
It's that moment when you realize this person, who, not too long ago, was a stranger, now means everything to you.
You could lose your job, break your leg, screw something up totally, and as long as this person, this beautiful person, remains a part of your life, you could not care any less.
This is the moment we realize we are in love, and if this sounds strange to you, then I'm sorry, but you haven't found it yet.
5. Hope
They say love gives us rose-colored glasses, that it tints our perception of the world around us and makes us turn a blind eye to all the evil that lurks. I don't believe that to be correct.
Finding love doesn't blind you; it makes you hopeful.
It makes you hopeful of the possibility that things are going to turn out all right. It gives you the hope that the world may not be as horrible as it so often seems.
Love gives you hope for a life filled with more happiness and less sadness — that maybe, whatever you're doing, you're doing right.
Love makes us feel less like failures and more like ever-wandering wanderers.
We know very little about life and the world around us, but we lose the fear of thinking we're completely lost. How could we be when we managed to find such an amazing individual?
Love makes us feel found. It makes us feel… real.
Top 3 Natural Remedies That Helps diabetes
This is perhaps one of the best-known (and widely-researched) treatments for diabetes. Research has found that many of the bioactive ingredients in this popular spice are able to mimic the action of insulin. In other words, they make it easier for glucose to travel from the bloodstream to the cells (where they are needed for energy). This, in turn, prevents high blood sugar and all the problems that can go with it.
Grape seed extract
Many people are not aware of this, but the liver (like the pancreas) plays a big role in regulating blood sugar levels and keeping them in a range that is safe for the body. Grape seed extract can help because it is able to protect and rejuvenate liver tissue and support healthy liver function. This is a very important factor to consider for diabetics.
Bitter melon
Despite the off-putting name, bitter melon is a popular Indian remedy for diabetes and has been used in Ayurvedic medicine for thousands of years for this and many other conditions. It is believed that compounds in bitter melon mimic the action of insulin in the body and can help with natural blood sugar regulation and control.
So consider the natural remedies listed above. They can help diabetics to regulate their blood sugar levels safely and avoid the serious long-term complications like kidney failure that can be so devastating for people with this condition.
12 UNDENIABLE Signs That Prove Your Boyfriend Is A JERK
Does it feel like your relationship is a roller coaster that you just can't seem to step off of? Do you go from happy to sad at the drop of a hat? Have you stayed up late picking your friends brains about your man's behaviour?
If you found yourself nodding to these questions, it's time to consider the strong possibility that you're dating a jerk. In the past, I've talked about the signs you're dating a narcissist, but the garden variety jerk is something that I haven't talked about much yet.
Clearly, there are more obvious things jerks do, like lie, cheat and steal, but what about the more subtle signs that you're dating one? The answers lie largely in how they make you feel.
(Note: Jerkiness is NOT gender specific, so you can apply what follows to both men and women even though I use male pronouns here.)
1. You Make Excuses For His Behavior
When he lets you down, you tell yourself (or worse, your friends and family) the most seemingly logical reasons why ("He's tired." "He was busy at work."), but deep down you know better. His behavior sucks, and you're doing your best to rationalize and explain it away.
2. His Attention Feels Like A Drug
When he shows you attention, you feel happy. When he lets you down for the 23rd time this month, his withdrawal hits you right in the gut. If he's running hot, you can relax a little, but watch out when he goes cold. Your emotions hinge on his actions in an unhealthy way.
3. He Tosses You Crumbs
One night he may stand you up completely, then text you the next day happily, like nothing happened. You might have no luck getting a response one day, but the next, he's completely on top of the communication. He has a hard time committing to making time for you. You feel like you're dead last on his priority list.
4. He Regularly Flakes On You
You've come to realize that all plans with him are "tentative," since he only comes through for you some of the time.
5. You Feel "Crazy" Or "Unhinged"
When the other person goes hot and cold, your emotions cycle from downright bliss to abject depression. A little bit of attention from him is enough to make you wonder if you're going off the deep end. The crumbs of his attention and his lame excuses for his behavior are enough to make you wonder if it's all in your head.
6. He Insists That You Do Everything To His Standards
You might not even know what his standards ARE, but it feels like whatever you do is wrong. He's critical of efforts that you make even in good faith. The relationship feels difficult.
7. You Feel Like You Have To Chase Him To Get Your Needs Met
Because he doesn't really have your best interests at heart (or even vaguely on his mind), getting appreciation, encouragement or even acknowledgement is an uphill battle. He may make vague promises, but, more often than not, he doesn't keep them.
8. He Doesn't Ever Ask About You
He doesn't really seem to want to know much about you. Your conversations are deep and wonderful (because he managed to hook you in the first place), but over time it becomes clear that he doesn't really seem to take much interest in you, except maybe when you're in his immediate company.
9. When You Need Him, He's Too Busy
Need a favor? He's unreachable or has a lame excuse for why he can't help you.
10. He's Selfish
It feels like you're constantly dancing to the beat of his drum rather than the other way around. When given the choice between doing something nice for you or himself, you suspect he'd choose himself every time.
11. He's Disrespectful And Uses "Humor" To Insult You
Jerks make mean jokes at your expense. He might call you a mean-spirited pet name like "b*tch" or "a**hole". When you get offended and speak up about his disrespect, he will try to claim that it was all a joke. Even worse, he might accuse you of being the sensitive one. He may tone it down for a while, but over time his disrespect keeps creeping back into your interactions.
12. He Uses How "Damaged" He Is To Excuse His Poor Behavior
As a fun, zany hybrid of excuse-making, he blames his shabby relationship behavior on "being damaged," "previous bad relationships," "not being sure how to love again" and/or "having trust issues." If he's particularly jerky, he'll resort to sob stories and let you feel sorry for him AND make up your own excuses.
This is probably the case if you find yourself thinking, All I have to do show him kindness. He's been through so much. This makes you want to heal his broken wing by being particularly forgiving. The worst part about this is that while you're "being understanding," he's learning just how much he can get away with.
The REAL Reason Your Man Lies And Cheats (And 5 Ways To Handle It)
One of the number one questions women ask me is why men lie and cheat. The answer, in one word is — shame.
Now you're probably asking yourself, "Dr. D, how in the hell does someone who lies and cheats do so out of shame?"
From your perspective, cheating comes across as caring only about one's own self, one's own activities, and not giving a damn about the rest of the world. But the truth is … beneath it all, the exact opposite is driving his cheating behaviour. Such behaviour is merely a mask.
Beneath it lies a very insecure man (or woman) who fears rejection, criticism, and abandonment.
Now don't think for one minute that I don't understand how you feel. More than likely you think the self-centered jerk who lied to you, broke your heart, and made you feel like a fool over and over again has no clue of what "shame" is. Herein lies the conundrum. How can a person operating with such a lack of emotional intelligence, a high degree of false pride, and an over inflated ego be ashamed of anything? Put simply, he doesn't know any better.
Here are a few signs of a man with a serious shame problem:
Everything he does is someone else's fault
He gets mad and defensive when you correct him
He over inflates his abilities on a consistent basis
He over promises and under-delivers
He's unreliable
The behaviour outlined above is that of a man who ultimately feels inadequate. And, let's face it. Who in their right mind likes to feel inadequate? Nobody! Not even you.
When people feel inadequate and ashamed of themselves, it has rippling effects. When men, in particular, experience this toxic emotion, they often project it outward, by taking it out on you (treating you poorly or making you feel responsible for his actions) and by seeking external relief from shame (by hiding out and numbing out in an affair). In order to protect the ego, people (especially men) come across as narcissistic.
Making matters worse, women involved with men like this often enable the bad behaviour. More than likely that's exactly what you've done or are doing if you're dealing with a man who has shame related behaviors/issues. Here's why — you're projecting on him the nurturing and attention you desire for yourself. By the time you realize what's going on, it's too late. You're caught up in a dysfunctional, co-dependent relationship.
To begin the process of fixing this, you must first understand what "shame" is — shame is a painful feeling that's a mix of regret, self-hate, and feelings of dishonor. Here are a few powerful things you can do to help pull him out of shame (and protect yourself along the way):
1. Use the word "we," not "you." More than likely the man you're dealing with grew up in an environment latent with criticism. By using the word "we" you're fostering a team dynamic in your relationship. This helps him feel accountable for his contribution to circumstances and situations, without having him feel like he's being ostracized. Saying "we need to get back on track" achieves an entirely different outcome than saying "you need to get back on track."
2. Lower your voice. Don't shout or raise your voice when confronting him. In other words, talk to him the way you would a little boy. After all, it's the little boy inside of him who needs reassurance and understanding. It's the wounded child within that keeps sabotaging his interpersonal growth.
3. Use negative reinforcement to get his attention. As with most people, "punishment" such as cursing a man out, hitting, or threatening him, only adds to the problem. Negative reinforcement, however, allows him to see healthy natural consequences of his behavior. It involves you holding your boundaries, allowing him to see the positive things his selfish behavior causes him to lose.
4. Lead by example. Just because he's an adult doesn't mean he always thinks like one. By nature men are competitive, use this to your advantage. Meaning, as you pull your weight following through on responsibilities and obligations, demand that he pull his.
5. Stop accepting mediocrity. Make clear your expectations, while being that which you seek.
6. Lastly, never use the phrase "a real man." This is one of the most shaming phrases men hear. "A real man" would do this, or "a real man" would never do that. Coming at him with this phrase will only lead to a useless confrontation. It's the equivalent of him comparing you to your mother.
On some level, we're all a work in progress … including you. Just because your man seems broken now doesn't mean he's incapable of fixing himself. Your job is to make sure that you empower him, not enable him. Trust me, when he knows better, more than likely he'll do better.
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1. All artiste and Music writer/composer are to obtain Orange Music Production form with a non refundable payment of #2000.
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These terms and conditions governs the relationship between each artist, music writer/composer and Orange Music Production.
1. All artiste and Music writer/composer are to obtain Orange Music Production form with a non refundable payment of #2000.
2. All artiste and Music Writer/Composer should not submit more than 2 songs or 2 write up respectively anything above this will not be attended to and renders the application invalid
3. All songs and write-up must be from original source/owner. Copywrites will be disqualified once detected
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6. Orange Music Production gives equal opportunities to all artistes and song writer/ composer both internal and external applicants regardless of racism, religion, ethnics e.t.c
We wish you all the best of success as we believe this is another opportunity to make way in the Music industry
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Sunday, July 26, 2015
Music: Love path by Jumi ft Amarah Prod by @pmynorsbeatz1 @jumionar
Jumi loves and is good in the Arts( Dance,music and writing) Those she admires in the music industry are Emeli sande, Asa, Bez, Adel and John Legend. Although she always had a passion for music and performance from childhood, she only began to drive this passion in 2013 by writing songs, ultimately grooming and developing her self as a recording artist. At Pmynor's studio is where she dug harder into her musical gift as she now found every motivation.
She uses music to express her self and in that, her expressions are not limited in any way, she therefore sings gospel, RnB and soul fussion. she explores deep into life angles with music…..Kindly Download and share with others….Don't forget to drop Comment after download
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13 Things Nigerian Women Do When They Are Not Interested In You
1. She doesn't kiss you when there is an opportunity to kiss. For instance, you move in for a kiss and she turns her head so you end up kissing her cheek.
2. She declines your offer to walk her home, walk her to her car, etc. She wants to avoid the awkward moment of being alone together and the potential that you'll make a move and she'll have to turn you down.
3. She ever says that you're "like a brother."
4. She calls you "bro" or "dude." There's a rare girl who will do this with a guy she's interested in but most girls will only do this to someone they are not at all sexually interested in, that person is not a "bro".
5. Try to set you up with a friend. Maybe some women are dumb enough to do this in high school but past the teenage years no woman is going to set you up, or talk about setting you up, if she secretly wants you for herself.
6. When you ask her to hang out her response is, "Sure, who else is coming?" She never initiates solo hangout time with you.
7. She doesn't let you pay for her, or if she does she makes sure to get you back at some point.
8. She talks to you about other guys. A lot. She asks for advice about what to do with the guy she likes or about where to meet guys in general. But the guy she likes is always someone else.
9. If you are in a situation where she has to comment on your appearance she will say "cute" rather than "hot" or something less emotional like "good looking" over the innuendo-charged "sexy." She will probably also couch this as an objective claim, like "anyone would think you are good-looking" versus a personal compliment like "I think you're very sexy."
10. If you're at either of your apartments hanging out, she will sit on a different piece of furniture than you. If someone is hoping "hang out" turns into "make out" they are sitting next to you, period.
11. She isn't freshly made-up when you see her. She's comfortable seeing you if her hair is ratty and she's only wearing baggy sweatpants.
12. She never touches you. At least not any more than you would touch one of your guy friends.
13. Your intuition tells you she isn't into you. No asking for charity, no trying to make excuses or rationalizations — what does your gut tell you?
10 Good Reasons You Should Not Date A Married Man
A woman with even an ounce of pride would NEVER share someone else's husband. If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap:
1. It is so wrong
Of all the reasons not to get involved with a married man, the primary one has to be this: it's just plain wrong. Both a married man and his girlfriend can come up with all sorts of reasons to justify what they're doing – it's real love, his wife doesn't treat him right, etc. Those are excuses but cheating is never right, and a person with dignity just wouldn't be part of it. Getting involved with a married man is so wrong even for all the right reasons. Society frowns at it, God detests fornication, and you aren't being fair to even yourself.
2. He is the winner
He's got his cake and is eating it, too. He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what he's missing in his marriage. He can spend his days with you and his nights with his wife; if you ask us, he is very blessed. When he is tired of you, he can move on with no strings attached, and don't think he won't. If he could do that to someone to whom he is legally bound, what will he do to you who only has his words? He is the one who is being hailed by his friends as "the really big man" while you are the husband- snatcher. He wins, for while his morale is always high, yours will be low, for you will have no dignity or pride again.
3. He won't leave her for you
We don't care how many promises he made to you, don't expect him to leave her and come marry you. So you can start preparing yourself for a heartbreak when he moves on to someone else who is just as naïve. And yes he'll find someone sweeter, shapelier and better than you ever are. pity you, he goes home to his wife, you go home wishing he it had lasted forever.
4. He might not be who you think he is
We hear stories about how some girls were used for ritual sacrifice, it isn't a day that the act is perpetuated, the married man could have kept stuffing the girl with money and food, like a broiler waiting for the day he'll slaughter her for money ritual. But of course he wouldn't use his wife. You don chop, come die, funny. Besides you will never know for sure where he is, what he is doing, and who he is doing it with. There is always two sides to every story and unfortunately, you will never know any other side but his.
5. You'll always be his little secret
No one can know about you. Not family, not respectable friends, you can't go out with him in public because you just might get caught either by his family or yours. Plain and simple, he doesn't want anybody to know about you for the fear of making himself look bad. Prepare for a hide-and-seek affair. You really can't call what you are having a relationship, think of it more like a hide and seek game. And hiding can be exhausting, having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you. So why even bother?
6. Lose his respect and it's over
It is pretty obvious that immediately you accept his offer, his respect for you is gone. because he is thinking "she's after my money" so the likeness reduces and you become his little puppet, he'll start stringing you around. So even though he's the one who pursued you, even though he's the one that made it difficult to say "No." And even though he tells you how wonderful you are. At some level, he's going to have trouble respecting you for settling for such a flawed relationship. Watch it, so he wont wash you
7. You're kidding yourself
Despite that he tells you he loves you, reassuring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife and coming into your arms speaks for itself, you are a second best. A mediocre, and you are worth having fun with but not marrying. If such is the case why settle for less when you can go for your type.
8. Time is too precious to waste
Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older? And so matter how you try you will look older, especially since you are dating an older man, fact. Because it's convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time, it will therrefore deter you from having a serious relationship. And omo! before you know it you have eaten up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing with an old man.
9. Loyalty is not one of his strong points
Obviously. If he can cheat on her{his wife}, he would do it to you. He made a vow when he married her and he clearly couldn't follow through with it. What would make you think you're any different than her? Infact your stand is even worse for you have no legal backing. I'm sure you do know this, yes?
10. Beware it can boomerang
There is no fool proof in cheating, even though you have all the sides covered and a schedule to keep your activities secret, remember "everyday is for the thief and one day is for the owner" but omo! that one day go brutal die, when the madam of the oga you have been sharing catch you pants down. Heh! heh! you will cry tears will not come and you'll receive public disgrace and be humilited. And its funny that many men (and women) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions. Human nature finds it easier to blame than to accept shame. If he is caught by his wife or conscience, don't be surprised if he tries to blame you and get you to take the fall.
5 Types Of Nigerian Guys That Are Easily Used By Ladies
If you find yourself in any of the categories below, it would be wise enough for you now to dust your ass and retrace your steps!!! Below are some types of guys that are easily manipulated by women:
1) #The Sex Freak#: Sex is surely, one formidable tool that women have been using to manipulated men by constantly draining them both financially and emotionally from time immemorial!!! If you are sex freak, you would do anything she requests for in order not to lose the opportunity to have access to regular sex! In the long run, you might find yourself spending more than half of your monthly income on her! Being able to control your sexual desires can greatly help you in avoiding the situation of you being a slave to babes!!!
2) #The Love-starved Guy#: I know guys who go about looking for love as if it was their destiny Though, it's not bad to search for love but when you show too much obsession for it, you could be easily used by ladies. Why would you beg a babe to date you? Promising her that you would take care of her or do anything for her? You must be a 21st century mugu!!! When you do this, you have laid yourself on the ground to be trampled on and used in the long run!!!
3) #The Emotionally-weak Guy#: Emotionally weak guys are easily used by women. Such guys tend to exhibit attitudes such as desparation, inexperience and romantic foolishness! They can't say 'No' to a lady's demand at all times…I call them 'Yes Men' It is this type of guy that will continue to call a babe up to 78 times, knowing fully well that she doesn't want to pick his call . He can easily change his important plans just to please a woman who doesn't even have an atom of love for him. He can starve himself for a babe just to provide her those expensive goodies she has requested for!
4) #The Show Guy#: You wan show yourself abi? Your last money on earth is 5k…you don't know where and when the next money will come yet you would still go ahead to take her to an expensive eatery in order to show her that you can provide her needs. This is where you end up spending almost all the money; if she tells you that she needs this and that and you discover that the bill would take almost all the cash, it would be advisable to tell her the plain fact! Emotionally strong dudes are not afraid to say the facts confidently but emotionally weak dudes are!!! If this is the case, you can be easily used by the babe because she would easily notice this. Nor worry, the owu wey go blow you still dey do road walk!
5)#Struggling Guys That Have Taste For Beautiful Women#: This category of guys are very prone to being used and manipulated by ladies. I once opened a thread on struggling guys . If you are a struggling guy with a low income, please face your front! In other words, face the most important things in your life and stop drooling over beautiful babes abeg! These girls will only end up using you when they become aware that you don't have the wherewithal or resources to live up to their expectations. Heart-break and emotional trauma are the end-resuls! Imagine the situation…you are struggling and she's so pretty and hot with so many men wanting her with their numerous offers! What do you expect to get if not being used? You nor get money but you wan chop Owerri soup! . I fear you o
5 Reasons You Are Yet To Find A Serious Man
You are ready to go out, have a good time, meet some fun guys and maybe even find someone you connect and can build a relationship with in the long run. You get to the party, and of course you are the cynosure of all eyes.
They notice you when you enter and you even get a few glances from some good-looking bachelors…. but then something must be wrong. Because it is the end of the night and you have not been asked to dance yet, no one has approached you to make conversation, and no guy has expressed interest in being with you. You start to wonder where you went wrong.
If this sounds like you, then it can be a pretty frustrating experience. The answer to this riddle could be really simple.
You are unapproachable. You can look as beautiful as a pageant contestant and even more fashionable, but it would be difficult to attract men if you do not look like someone they would like to talk to.
For men, putting themselves out there and expressing their interest in a woman could be a pretty daunting experience and if you do not look like someone who might say yes to their advances, they would most likely steer clear of you. If you are doing the things listed below, this might be why you are not getting the attention you expect.
1. You do not smile: Of course, no one expects you to bare your teeth for hours, but simply having a more jovial countenance would make you seem more open and friendly. Men would gravitate towards you and want to hang out with you.
2. You are too involved with your friends: Nothing is as challenging to a guy as having to approach a girl in the midst of all her giggling girlfriends. He would fear that if you reject him, there would be audiences that would witness the humiliation. If you have an eye on someone, make sure you take a step away from your friends at interval to encourage him to come over.
3. You "look" busy: It is natural that if you are sitting alone somewhere, you might want to "look" busy (perhaps playing with your phone or reading a book) so as not to look to desperate. While this is understandable, if you have to do it, make sure you take away your focus from what you are doing from time to time so men would not automatically a$$ume you are too engrossed to talk.
4. You do not make eye contact: Eye contact is very important in letting people know you are interested. If there is someone that catches your eye, make sure they know it by meeting their eyes from time to time. Hold eye contact, and smile (if you are a bit more daring) so they know they are less likely to be rejected.
5. You have a rigid body language: Sometimes, the way we carry ourselves could give others the impression that they should back off. Sitting/standing too rigidly, acting stiff and being all-round closed off are not the best way to attract the opposite $ex. Try to be more laid-back and relaxed.
7 Weird Things People Do In Church
1) The act of 'sleeping without closing your eyes' ; I learnt this act many years ago, especially in churches where the ushers are very stubborn and keep tapping you every time you shut your eyes. This act can only be done by Pros. It requires you making your eyes being wide open, but your body in deep sleep. The only problem here is that pray you don't get called upon by the pastor to answer a question, a friend of mine whose name is emmanuel was practicing the act one vigil night when our pastor (who was about starting another round of prayer) shouted 'God of Emmanuel!', my friend Jolted back to reality on hearing 'emmanuel', stood up and said (in a very loud tone) 'sir, I am listening'. I couldn't help the laughter that day and the look on his face was worse than Mr Ibu's.
2) The Church 'Madmathecian'; if you get extremely bored in church, you tend to; firstly, look around you to check if any familiar face is around you, then, ultimately, you turn into a 'madmathecian' by counting things in the church nobody asked you to count. You start counting the number of fans, how many chairs are in church, the number of choir members, etc. When it gets extremely worse is when you start calculating how much the church receive in terms of Member's tithe. Or how much different members might drop as tithe. By this time, you are no longer in the church, neither would you ever understand what the pastor is saying even if he keeps repeating himself. Smh for you.
3) The 'Lookozade'; this act is the most common by church goers, it requires you to look as if you are paying apt attention to what the preacher is saying, while your mind can wander of… Very often than not, your mind can wander of to something quite sinful (sex, alcohol, etc) only for you to remind yourself of being in the house of God, trying to be attentive to what the preacher is saying once again, and go back to the beginning by 'lookozading' some more! You for no kuku come church sef.
4. African time; this occurs when a church extends it closing time in a service, I like to call it 'overtime'. For instance, a church is billed to close by 1 pm, just some few minutes after the 'supposedly' closing time you hear announcement of something like 'we will now go into our thanksgiving sunday program', some people fit faint sef. It happened once to a friend of mine whom I dragged to church and assured him we would close by 12, after 12 like this he was staring at me with a killer's eyes, by 1 the pastor announced that the kids were to present something to the church (as per children's day), this my guy eyes done red finish, he was headed outside when I rushed to him to plead he stayed for the grace. The worse part was immediately after service, na beer parlor my guy rush go straight. Smh for some people.
5) 'deceitful humming'; this is done during praise worship. Every body else seems to know the song very well except you!, you no fit carry last na! Hum away my friend,just pray they change the song to the ones you know soonest!
6) Being 'alone' in the church; this happened to me once, when we were told to stand up and pray, me I dey hammer the prayer sotay, I did not hear when the pastor told everyone to sit down, after a while, as I no hear pastor again, I just open one eye discover say the whole world done siddon and na only me dey pray! This salary matter sha! You might end up being alone in the church if you don't open your eyes and look around you. Professional church goers always shine their eyes even when you are told not to
7. Lusting after a beautiful member; if there is a beautiful church member that is your taste right beside you, then satan done catch you for that day! You end up being self conscious all through, your thoughts leave the church and goes into your bedroom with the girl/guy, you first start to steal glances, from there your mind advances to strike a conversation or meeting, somehow for you as satan dey dance shoki for your life
Saturday, July 25, 2015
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5 Things Women Will NEVER EVER Tell Their Men
THEIR first gig
For most adult women, the first s*xual experience is unforgettable and probably the best ever. Even if they have not kept in touch with their first man, they remember him with fondness if he did not leave them pregnant and stranded with a baby.
But will they ever tell their man this? Never.
Studies show the average woman lies about the age at which she was disvirgined, adding anything between 2 and 10 years to the age. For instance, if a woman got disvirgined at 14, she is likely to put the figure at 20 to her current man. Men, on the other hand, openly boast about their earlier s*xual conquests.
That they check out other men
A man might be so close to the girl in his life that he would point out other women's body parts that he finds attractive and everybody would have a good laugh. On the other hand, a woman would never do that. If she thinks the guy next door has a cute a*s, she never, ever mentions it to the man in her life. Not only would she not mention it, she would never ever even make the blunder of oogling the attractive derriere when their man is around. Studies show women make lewd jokes about other men when they are with girlfriends just as much as men do, and they even fantasies but are great about hiding it.
That she hates cooking
A few years down the line, many relationships run into crisis on this account- many many women just do not like to cook.
In our part of the world, girls are raised not only to learn how to cook but to happily cook for other people for the rest of their lives, three times a day. If they cannot live up to that 'simple' responsibility, they are complete failures, especially in relationships.
Women are therefore happy to pretend to be kitchen genies at the beginning of relationships and would never admit to not just absolutely loving cooking. Rather, they prefer to give their man the impression that they live just to feed him as many times as possible in a day. Unfortunately, that impression is bound to waste when she insists of going out for dinner every so often when the relationship is established.
She feels insulted when he gives her money.
Of course nothing makes your man feel grander than knowing he has met his woman's need and probably even exceeded her expectations, especially if he had to bend over backwards to do it. Studies show the average woman is actually disappointed almost every time their man gives them a gift, especially when it is money.
Truth is, today's working women have developed very sophisticated tastes that their men can barely keep up with, and they are ready to work very hard when it's necessary to do so. But would a woman ever complain her man has not even scratched the surface when he gives her cash? Never.
She does not trust him
For all her freedoms and liberation, a woman is far less likely than a man to voice her insecurities in a relationship that the other way round.
She has watched her mother look the other way more often than not. She has heard her aunt tell her uncountable times of how it's a man's world. She has been called names just for showing a flash of jealousy and she has been told by the census that there are more women than men.
Her girlfriends are telling her to be wise and hold on to her straying man and so while he snoops and snoops and finds nothing, she makes minimal efforts and finds everything but does she ever mention it? Never.
The reason that hot new househelp gets a shaven head and the girlfriend is told jokingly to do her top b*ttons up is not because she does not trust her girlfriend or the maid but because she certainly does not trust her man.
Her man might ask the question a dozen times- "honey, do you trust me?" and her answer would be a big fat lying "Yes"
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7Runtown Ft Wizkid - Bend Down
8Dj Xclusive Ft 2face, Timaya - Jam It
9Skales - Am 4 Real
10Praize Ft Wizkid - Sisi
11Timaya Ft Betti - Gbagam
12Sarkodie Ft Castro - Adonia
13Illbliss Ft Suspect - Finally
14Sarkodie - Tonga
15Patoranking Ft Wande Coal - My Woman
16Kod C - My Talent
17Wizboy - Fine Lady
18Kiss Daniel - Woju Rmx
19Zucee - African Lady
20Bracket Ft Tekno - Panya
21Kiss Daniel - Laye
22Slim Brown - Honey
23T Spize Ft Phyno - Gbawaya
24Wizkid Ft Phyno - Salambala
25M Kaze - Ozugwu Instr
26M Kaze - Ozugwu
27Koredo Bellow - Godwin
28Wonderful Boy - Power of God
29Sonet - Go Feel It
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9Wizboy - Fine Baby
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11Zucee -African Lady
12Kiss Daniel - Laye
13TSpize - Like 2 Dance
14 Timaya - Amayenobo
15Bracket Ft Tekno -Panya
16Mizxy - Count Ur Blessing
17Davido - Owo Ni Koko
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20Iyanya Ft Don Jazzy - Gift
21Ignite - Ekwe
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28Koredo Bellow - Godwin
29M Kaze - Ozogwu
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Must Read For MEN: 10 New HIV Symptoms to Watch Out For In Women
Sharing infected needles for drug use is another leading cause. Early symptoms of H:V infection may be mild and easily unnoticed and dismissed. Unfortunately, even without noticeable symptoms, an infected person can still behind the virus on to others.
Read on to learn some common symptoms of H:V in women. Early Symptoms Can Be Fleeting In the early weeks after becoming infected with H:V, it is not uncommon for women to be asymptomatic. Some may have mild flu-like symptoms, including fever, headache, and lack of energy. Often, these symptoms go away within a few weeks. In some cases, it may take as many as ten years for more severe symptoms to appear. During this time, the virus can still be transmitted from one person to another.
1. Swollen Glands
We all have lymph nodes throughout our bodies, including the neck, back of the head, armpits, and groin. As part of the immune system, our lymph nodes work to fend off infections. As the H:V infection begins to spread, the immune system kicks into high gear. The result is enlarged lymph nodes, commonly known as swollen glands. It is often one of the first signs of H:V. In people infected with H:V, swollen glands may last for several months. Infections H:V makes it harder for the immune system to fight off germs, so it's easier for opportunistic infections to take hold. Some of these include pneumonia, tuberculosis, and hepatitis C. People with H:V are more prone to infections of the skin, eyes, lungs, kidneys, digestive tract, and brain. It may also be more difficult to treat common ailments like the flu. Taking extra precautions, including frequent hand washing and taking H:V medications can help prevent some of these illnesses and their complications.
People infected with H:V may experience long periods of low-grade fever. According to Ohio State University Wexler Medical Center, a temperature between 99.8 and 100.8 degrees Fahrenheit is considered to be a low-grade fever. A fever means that something is wrong, but the cause isn't always obvious. Because it's a low-grade fever, those who are unaware of their H:V-positive status may ignore the symptom. Sometimes, fever is accompanied by nighttime sweats that can interfere with sleep.
Women with H:V tend to have problems related to reproductive health, including changes to their menstrual cycle or absence of periods. Bacterial and yeast infections may be more common in women who are H:V-positive. There is an increased risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including chlamydia, trichomoniasis, gonorrhea, and the human papillomavirus (HPV), which can lead to genital warts or even cervical cancer. H:V-positive women are also more prone to pelvic inflammatory diseases (PID) that may be resistant to treatment.
Friday, July 24, 2015
5 Ways To Tell He’s Serious About You Within 2 Days Of Meeting Him
You wish you knew this before you agreed to a second, third, and fourth date, plus an introduction to your friends and your three cats. So how can you avoid this type of guy?
Women's Health Magazine gives us 5 ways to determine whether or not he's worth your time:
1. He's not in a rush to spend time with you.
According to psychologist and dating coach Jennifer B. Rhodes, a guy who seems too eager to spend time with you may be more interested in hooking up than hanging out. And when he loses interest, you can bet you'll never see or hear from him again.
A guy who's genuinely interested in you will take his time, and be respectful of your time and availability.
To determine which one he is, Rhodes says that if he reaches out to you too early, ask him to wait and see if he does, or runs the other way.
2. He texts and calls back within a day.
An interested guy will respond to your texts within 24 hours, and if you ask him to call you, he will, says Rhodes. If he takes longer than 3 days, he may only be looking for something more casual, not a commitment.
3. He can have deep conversations with you.
Two days after the first meeting, if your conversations go beyond the the discussion of the newest episode of Game of Thrones, he's interested in a commitment, Rhodes says.
Conversations about family, your childhood, and religious beliefs are just a few of the serious topics you can both go on and on about. If he's uncomfortable talking about himself and his background, he's not looking for anything serious.
4. He doesn't talk about how awful his ex was.
Venting about an ex or denying responsibility for a breakup can mean two things: 1) he's not over her, and 2) he's not mature enough to handle a relationship.
Judy Rosenberg, a clinical psychologist and dating coach, says that a guy who bad-mouths his ex might be very bad at communication, which is vital in any healthy relationship.
5. He has healthy relationships with family and friends.
Rosenberg says that a guy who maintains healthy family relationships and friendships is a guy capable of a healthy romantic relationship. Even caring for a pet signifies his readiness for a commitment.
Within two days, ask him how often he spends time with his family or friends. Rosenberg also says that if many of his friends are in committed relationships, there's a high chance he's looking for one, too.
So, before you jump into anything with a guy, make sure he's ready to commit to you, not just string you along for the ride.
20 Things Recruiters Do Not Want To See On Your CV
Research suggests that the average hiring manager takes less than one minute to peruse a resume. Other studies show that they can do this initial check in six seconds. Larger companies use applicant tracking software to make the initial selection and they do that in a split second!
So, what are they looking for and what should you avoid mentioning? You have to try and get inside the typical recruiter's mindset, which will reflect what is in the job description. If you can do that, you can enormously improve your resume.
Here are 20 things that will guarantee your resume ends up in the trash:
1. They do not want to see your duties listed.
All the day to day stuff you do to keep afloat is not necessary and nobody wants to know, least of all the
hiring manager. They just assume you know how to do these! Instead, focus on results you have achieved, how you increased revenues, cut costs or how you played a key role in improving productivity.
2. They do not want to see your life history.
Many applicants want to present a comprehensive resume and include all sorts of irrelevant information. For example, you might include summer jobs which are of no real interest to the recruiting manager.
The solution is to include information about experience and skills which are closely related to the job you are seeking. If the company is looking for someone with marketing skills, the manager will be looking for lots of relevant examples and successes in your marketing. If these are not prominent, then your resume is headed for the bin.
3. They do not want to see vague objective statements.
Writing about your rather vague objective of gaining more skills and experience is a real turn off for the hiring manager. A classic one which cuts no ice at all is, "Seeking a challenging position that offers professional growth."
Focus instead on this job. Concentrate on listing your experience and skills which will help you to land the job.
Read the job description again and again to make sure you have matched up the requirements with what you have to offer.
4. They do not want to see a line about references.
Did you know that 99% of applicants write a line stating, "References are available on request"? This is a waste of a line because space is precious when you have to keep your resume to a maximum of two pages.
A much better idea is to leave that out and have a list of reference names ready, should you be asked for them at the interview. Make sure that you have already contacted them so that they are ready to give you a reference, if requested.
5. They do not want to see your work email address.
Hiring managers do not want to contact you at your present workplace, for obvious reasons. It is also safer and more confidential for you.
Always leave a personal email address which has your real name, rather than your 'cute' email address.
6. They do not want to see unexplained gaps in your resume.
Courses, lay offs or even getting fired can result in a gap in your resume. Maybe you went freelance for
a while? Employers and managers are familiar with this and there is no problem with a gap.
When you are not prepared to explain the gaps or put a positive spin on them, then there may be an issue. If the courses or freelance jobs improved your skills in certain areas, then by all means include them and relate them to the skills required for this new position.
7. They do not want to see your skills that everyone else has.
When job applicants mention that they are completely at ease with the latest versions of Microsoft Office and Excel, hiring managers will yawn. Everyone working in modern offices have these skills.
If you are working on software development and applying as a software developer, then it might be relevant. If it is just part of your normal skills set for routine jobs, then do not mention this at all.
8. They do not want to see a messy and untidy resume.
This is a real turn off for recruiters because they cannot find the information they want quickly. The
best approach is to be as clear and concise as possible. Mention your name, present position and then relevant experience by mentioning the posts you have held. Make sure you put in start and finishing dates and use bullet points to mention responsibilities and main achievements.
9. They do not want to see your photo or other pictures.
Generally, the photo on the resume is superfluous. Also, the hiring manager does not want to be influenced by gender issues. Why should she waste one second of those precious six viewing your stunning beauty?
As we live in such a visual age, your photo is going to pop up sooner or later, for example on your LinkedIn page. The best thing to do is to make sure that your page does actually have your photograph!
10. They do not want to see irrelevant personal details.
Let us suppose that your church and sporting activities are not applicable to the job you are seeking. If that is the case, they are superfluous and should not be on your resume. The same goes for marital status and other personal details. Most of these are, in fact, illegal for a hiring manager to ask during an interview. So why include them in the first place?
If, on the other hand, you were managing public relations for a charity in your spare time and are applying for a job with a similar profile, then by all means, mention this.
11. They do not want to see fancy fonts or creative formats.
Did you know that many tracking systems strip out all the fancy stuff and the actual viewing format a
manager sees is in plain text? This means that, in many cases, your creative talents will go unnoticed and are a waste of time. If the manager is actually reading the hard copy or attachment, then creative formats may be a distraction and a hindrance. The solution is to keep it simple, clear and concise.
12. They do not want to see empty and poorly managed social profiles.
Yes, your social media profiles are looked at in the job hiring process. In one survey, more than one third of the recruiters are looking at these to filter candidates. Some estimates say that 92% of companies are using social media in their hiring process. If your LinkedIn or Google+ pages are not showing useful and stimulating content, nor connecting sufficiently with people in your industry, then forget it.
Always make sure that you are up to date with developments in your industry and that you are actively engaged. Show that you are a resource and help your connections solve problems.
13. They do not want to see resumes written in the first person.
Yes, they know it is YOU who is applying so there is no need to overuse the word 'I'. Most applicants start
with 'Responsible for' which is another way of saying 'I was responsible for'. The best approach is to make it much more action oriented and start the sentence with 'Managed…' 'Co-ordinated…', 'Designed….', Cut
costs….' Resolved issues……' and 'Led a team of 10…..'.
14. They do not want vague statements of success.
When you state that you have achieved something, you need to quantify it. It is not enough to say that you completed X project within the deadline. You need to go into more detail.
A good example would be: "Played a key role in the opening of a new branch. Since inception, client
numbers have tripled. There are at present 600 individual client files, with about 33% of these active at any one time."
15. They do not want to see just a list of bullet points.
It may seem easier on the eye at first but when hiring managers are presented with only bullet points, it is actually difficult to read. The ideal resume will contain a mix of sentences interspersed with bullet points which are best for lists of figures or facts.
16. They do not want to see lies or exaggerated claims.
The hiring manager wants the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Some applicants think that a lie here or there is not going to matter one way or the other. They can also embellish their successes with exaggerated claims. Stick to the truth!
17. They do not want to see a one-size-fits-all resume.
You apply for lots of jobs and you always send the same resume. This is a grave error because each job is different requiring particular skill sets, experience and so on.
Remember that each recruiter is looking for a resume that matches their company profile and the skill set for a particular position. A one size fits all resume can never do that.
18. They do not want to see cover letters.
There is a fair amount of debate about this but the consensus is that a cover letter is actually clogging up vital space and time. No one reads it.
Sometimes, though, a cover letter is required. It will depend on the company where you are applying. So pay attention to whether one is asked for.
The best solution is to concentrate on hard hitting statements in your resume which match the skills sets and experience and qualifications required.
19. They do not want to see your cool Word Header feature.
Many applicants want to make a good impression by using the Word header feature with their name. It looks prominent and cool. They are unaware that some scanning software cannot read this header, so your resume ends up as being from an anonymous applicant! Basically, stick to more conventional methods for displaying your name at the top.
20. They do not want to see positions dating back more than 15 years.
Did you know that ageist attitudes are still rife in the job market? By listing all the positions you have held since graduation means that you are going too far back. There is no need to put the date on things like your degree.
The general rule of thumb is to cap a limit of 15 years so that it does not become a historical or autobiographical document.
As we have seen, a resume is rather like an advertisement in which you show off your main features to entice the hiring manager to actually find out more.
If you avoid the 20 mistakes above, you could land that dream job. Good luck!
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Thursday, July 23, 2015
Read 8 Disgusting Diseases/Sicknesses Transmitted Through KISSING!
1 Sore Throat
Spread through saliva, kissing someone with a sore throat could infect you and inflict you with the same medical issue.
2 Cold Sores
If you kiss someone with a cold like sore which is popular known as herpes, you may be infected with the virus... and for your information, it has no cure. To learn more about oral herpes go here... and to see more images click...
3 Common Cold
The common cold is easily transmitted through saliva, so be careful.
4 Hepatitis B
Even though spread mostly by blood, if you have cuts in your mouths, you can transmit it.
5 Oral Warts
Oral warts can be spread through any cut in your mouth, even fine cuts in your gums from vigorous brushing with your toothbrush.
6 Hand, Mouth, And Foot Disease
Spread mostly through feces, it happens when your hands have fecal bacteria on them and it is spread to an open sore in your mouth. Guys like to put their hands on your lips during kissing. Watch out.
7 Tooth Decay
The bacteria that causes tooth decay can be deposited in your mouth from your kissing partner's saliva.
8 Gum Disease
Bleeding gums and kissing can spread gum disease.
So my dear readers, before you go about kissing anyhow, remember that kissing is as bad as unprotected sex. ABSTINENCE IS THE BEST! But, if you can't hold your kissing mouth, WRAP IT UP!
MUSIC: Capita EAZZ - Beautiful @Capita_EAZZ @Blaqwheezy
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Wednesday, July 22, 2015
GIST: Pure Finally Set To Drop New Single titled GO DOWN @Mc_Pureofficial
Monday, July 20, 2015
Djxbazz X tonnyphiz X blizzbrowse X susmith - LOBATAN (Prod by Stereocity) @iam_djxbazz @iamphiz
Djxbazz is announcing his presence with a big bang in this very melodious effort "LOBATAN" featuring some popular Nigerian mimic for 'Standard Living'. This is one of those songs that will definitely be played over and over again and will sip through all age groups…Download and Share with Others.....kindly comment after download.
Twitter: @iam_djxbazz
fb: http://facebook.com/djxbazzremix
Whatsapp: 08065200003
Email: info@xclusive9ja.com, music@xclusive9ja.com
For Booking contact: Info@xclusive9ja.com
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Sunday, July 19, 2015
MIXTAPE: DJ LEXXIDOVE – YAYI ON TOO MUCH MONEY MIXTAPE.27 Hosted By PAPAPAONLINE .ılı. OLLG (Mr Money) & Dove.T. Ent. | @lexxidove
Title…YAYII on too much money mixtape 27
(1) OLLY G……………………..Money
(2)CDQ………………………….Salaro
(3)LIL Kesh /viktor…………..Efejoku
(4)JAwon………………………..fire 4 fire
(5)oriste Femi/ Harrysong..Shukus
(6)church chill/pasuma……Anty moyowa
(7)MoboW/MayD…………….Wiggle
(8)Bracket/tekno……………..Payan
(9)Ksolo/CdQ………………. ..Yayi
(10)Skales……………………….Lole
(11)Runtown/uhuru…………Banger
(12)Davido/Uhuru…………..the sound
(14)Reminsce………………….Skilashi
(15)K9…………………………….Kayefi
(16)Kiss daniel…………………Laye
(17)Big klef……………………..Woju cover
(18)Made Men…………………Yudala
(19)Psquare/Awilo…………..Enemy Solo
(20)djexcl/lil kesh/CdQ…….Damisi
(21)Famous/reminsce……….Igboro rmx
(22)Olalekside……………….elegushi spender
(23)JJC/olamide…………….Motiwa
(24)May D……………………..Ibadi
(25)Skales/olamide………..Ijo ayo
(26)Zeez……………………….Atewo
(27)shuki………………………Peteru
(28)olamide……………shakiti Bobo instrumental
(29)Olamide……………..Shakiti bobo
(30)mastercraft/cdq/olamide.indomie
(31)Black face…………..Carry Us
(32)various Artist jinglesCLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD
Competition: Operation kill the beatz prod. Iceberg beatz
GIST TV Media presents: Operation Kill The Beat (#OperationKTB) (Prod. by @Ice_Berg_Beatz)
Are U a murderer? Can U kill the Beat so well with ur ill Lyrics? Well, if ur answer is YES!!! Say no more cus official234hitz has collided with a very crazy producer to make sure we prove you wrong of being able to KILL THE BEAT.
WANNA PROVE US WRONG?
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1. Download the Beat
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Entry closes August 31st.
NB: Submitting your job attracts a fee of #2000
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ACCOUNT NUM: 0149119431
How Do You Know I've paid?
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Example is the image above:
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Our Listening Team will pick up the best 20 killers and VOTING starts immediately after the closing date.
Proudly brought to you by 234HITZ ENT and GIST TV MEDIA and supported by Ice-Berg Beatz, Boyo Graphics and Jassy Generation.
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