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MUSIC: OJD ft. Wizkid x Wande Coal x Tbounce x Danchez & Papize - Sun Mi Bare @OJAMSD @9jamusicspot1
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Saturday, July 2, 2016
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Tuesday, May 31, 2016
MUSIC: Lyrickle - KPATONMO @iamLyrickle
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Sunday, May 8, 2016
MUSIC: Adedayo -Stressful Life (Prod. By Kosoro KMP) @Tykonsonifemi
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Wednesday, May 4, 2016
MUSIC: Ibk Embrace ft. Jumabee - Omo + Talowowun (Who Wants Money) @Ibkembracemusic @Jumabee
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Monday, May 2, 2016
MUSIC: Olamide x Shemight - Who You Epp? @Shemight2
Another Nigeria Rapper "Adelaja Oluwaseun" Know with stage name "Shemight" born and raised in idiroko abeokuta, Ogun state has jump on the who you epp olamide song. Here his own part, You will love it. Follow @Shemight2 on twitter.
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Saturday, April 2, 2016
Friday, April 1, 2016
Nigeria: Boko Haram releases new video, says ‘No negotiations, No surrender’q
Shekau, who was not seen on camera for more than a year, released an unverified video late last month and said his time in charge of the Nigerian jihadist group may be coming to an end.
If the video indeed depicts Shekau, he appears thin and listless, delivering his message without his trademark fiery rhetoric.
It prompted speculation from the army that the Islamist group was on the verge of collapse in the face of a sustained military counter-insurgency. However, in Friday’s message, Boko Haram maintained it was a potent fighting force, with fighters posing with AK-47s in front of Toyota Hilux pick-up trucks and a lorry mounted with a military cannon.
“You should know that there is no truce, there is no negotiations, there is no surrender,” an unidentified masked man wearing camouflage said in a prepared script in Hausa, in the video posted on YouTube. “This war between us will not stop.”
The video, which was of markedly better quality than Shekau’s and included Arabic subtitles, featured nine masked Boko Haram fighters standing on sandy ground in an undisclosed desert location.
It is unclear if the masked people in the video include the Boko Haram leader. Shekau was still the head of the “West African wing”, said the masked man in the video, likening Boko Haram to the Islamist insurgencies in Iraq, Libya and Syria. In March 2015, Boko Haram pledged allegiance to the Islamic State group, another of the world’s most deadly terror organisations.
But there were few signs Boko Haram — now styled as Islamic State in West Africa Province (ISWAP) — has so far benefited from the partnership. Nigeria’s army has since then won back swathes of territory from the militants, liberating thousands living under Boko Haram control. An estimated 20,000 people have been killed since Boko Haram began its campaign of violence in 2009 to carve out a hardline Islamic state in northeast Nigeria.
More than 2.6 million people have fled their homes since then but some of the internally displaced have begun returning.
Monday, March 28, 2016
VIDEO: Man turns into Dog in Tb Joshua's Church
The video, uploaded by Joshua's official YouTube channel Emmanuel TV, shows a man acting in an eerily bizarre fashion during a time of prayer, even to the extent of eating one of his shoes.
According to the video description, "The demon within this young Liberian man is shockingly exposed, the entirety of his features contorting to the resemblance, movement and eerie sounds of a wild dog."
After the prayer, the man who introduces himself as Alexander Johnson, explained that his problems began after he was sexually molested by a mad woman aged six.
Thereafter, Johnson his life was characterised by frustration and a serious ‘lust’ for women. Reacting to his bizarre behaviour during the prayer, Johnson said he had no memory of what occurred.
“There is no way I could have done these things,” he asserted, insisting it was the influence of an ‘evil spirit’ and adding that he was ‘completely free’ after the prayer.
Comments on the video revealed a mixed reaction from the public, some insisting the video was nothing more than an act.
“How much did they pay you to do this acting?” wrote one viewer. “I agree there are a lot of false prophets in the world but Prophet T.B. Joshua is NOT one of them,” another argued.
This is not the first controversial video Emmanuel TV has released on YouTube. A video purportedly showing Joshua’s encounter with ‘lucifer’ recently went viral, amassing over one million views in a matter of weeks.
Joshua’s YouTube channel has over 320,000 subscribers, making it the third most viewed in Nigeria.
Tuesday, March 8, 2016
News: Pastor rapes female Church member for refusing to marry him
A 29-year-old man of God in Ebonyi State, identified as Pastor David Ibe, has been arrested and detained by the police in Ebonyi State for allegedly raping a female church member, Nnenaya Okute, because she refused to accept to marry him.
New Agency of Nigeria (NAN), reports that Ibe who is the clergy in charge of Christ Command Mission, Onicha-Igboeze, Onicha Local Government Area of the state, had allegedly lured Okute to an uncompleted building where he defiled her, leaving her with severe bruises.
The Police Public Relatins officer (PPRO), in the state, DSP George Okafor, who confirmed the arrest, noted that Pastor Ibe committed the offence on February 27, 2016, when he lured the unsuspecting Okute to an uncompleted building at Umuobunna Uburu and sexually assaulted her.
“The suspect is an impostor who is among those claiming to be pastors but dent God’s image through their atrocities.
He has been arrested and has confessed to committing the crime, though he claimed that she refused to marry him after investing heavily on her.
It is terrible that he choose to rape the girl for refusing to marry him, as he will be used to set example to others who commit such crimes.”
Okafor therefore warned members of the public to be wary of evil men in cassocks, claiming to be genuine men of God.
FREEBEAT: Mr. Phynest - War beat @mr_phynest
Award Winning producer Mr-phynest drops another dope beats for his fans
he was named the producer of the year at the just concluded IKD2016 awards in lagos
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Monday, March 7, 2016
MUSIC: Adegboyega - How You Like Me Now
Uber recording & performing artiste Adegboyega drops a banging follow up to his hit single "KUSI" posted a few months ago. Thus song titled "How You Like Me Now" is a without a doubt another instant classic as he blends his afropop voice into the South African sounding percussion's of the Instrumental and ofcourse he brings his saxophone along to serenade listeners. Adegboyega sheds more light into his genre of music called "Alternative Afro-fusion" with every song he drops. Produced by Omyde. Listen, enjoy and share the audio and video teaser.
MUSIC:: Ernest - Feelings @iam_ernestng
Ernest Lawani Ojo was born in Lagos State, south-western Nigeria. He started singing since he was young and professionally in 2015 he went on to record his first song after getting his first degree.
He is a talented promising young artist that grew up listening to a lot of songs that efficaciously bloomed him to be able to write his own songs.
he went on to release his first single for the year 2016 “Feelings ” produced by Tha Kace. Watch out for Ernest.
He is a talented promising young artist that grew up listening to a lot of songs that efficaciously bloomed him to be able to write his own songs.
he went on to release his first single for the year 2016 “Feelings ” produced by Tha Kace. Watch out for Ernest.
MUSIC: Adara by Capital Eazz @official_Eazz
He hailed from the pace setter (Oyo State).
He started his music career way back in 2006, currently, he is the CEO of iqconcept nd Iqvisual nig Ltd.
Capita EAZZ is on it again with another sensational, inspiring and Motivating song titled "ADARA" this song is dope and you gonna love this one as the official video will be dropin soon as well!
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Friday, March 4, 2016
MUSIC: Nonsense (Were beat) Misteer Kenzo ft. Mchil @misteerkenzo @iam_Mchil
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Monday, February 29, 2016
MUSIC: Sunkkeysnoop - Marry you || @Sunnkeysnoop
Olasunkanmi Ayodele popularly known as Sunkkeysnoop dropped is first
official single under NoTym Entertainment. he decided to start his
year off with Marry You. Marry you is a love song with an high life
feel. Sunkkeysnoop is an artiste we should all watch out for in as he
is on to stardom, Produced by Emdon. Listen and Enjoy.
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MUSIC: Benova - “Remember” (Letter To EK-city) | @GenBenova
Straight off the “Veni Mixtape” success which the self-acclaimed #RealReggaeKing is still enjoying, Benova goes hard this time on a buzzing potential anthem titled “Remember (Letter To Ek-City)” for his fans. Download, Share & Enjoy!
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Friday, February 26, 2016
MUSIC: Sophist - Mercy || Black Dollar Entertainment
BlacDollar Entertainment's 1st lady Sophist ( Sophia Dike Oshiorenoya) from Delta state LGA Aniocha south.... A recent signed artist drops a promising hit jam titled "MERCY"..... And promise to upgrade on her more tracks and making air waves..... The jam 'mercy" is mixed by cizabeats......
MUSIC: Skye - Testimony @skyeoamen
Fresh new song from SkyE titled Testimony the song was produce by Emizbeatz, testimony by SkyE is an inspirational song and also a celebration song. Its time for people to celebrate you for what you are doing now not when you are dead,for it is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept,and celebrate those differences,download share and enjoy.
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MUSIC: Cadet Boi ft Fhagyboi - Igbalode
Lykicare Music Group front man Cadet Boi teams up with his label mate Fhagyboi to deliver his new single titled “Igbalode”.
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Thursday, February 25, 2016
World Classic Music Newly Signed Artist Set To Drop His First Single "AYE"
the artist who is into Singing and Rapping is ready to blow up the mind of his fans and also wanna take the music industry to the next level. Having been doing music for a long period of time now and been a hardworking artist, am very sure he has something to deliver for everyone with his new single titled 'AYE" Watch out for download link.
MUSIC: Otti - Sing song prod by Kuljay
The Front line Artist Of Mascot Music Group (MMG) Has Returned Again With A Hotter Jam! This Time He Calls It SING SONG!
Otti was Part of the Successful hit song in OOU 'Thug Tears' And Hes Been Ever Better Since Then Now It's Time To Enjoy What He Has For Us!
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Monday, February 22, 2016
MUSIC: Hotline bling - Demola || Violin Cover by Drake
industry.Demola is a Nigerian violinist based in Houston, Texas.His
vastness and mastery of his art and any genre of music is amazing.
This has given him tours in several countries . His cover of Drake's
hotline bling is suave and impeccable. Enjoy!!
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MUSIC: Micheal Ade ft. Prince Banton - Street Life @mykinaf @prince_banton
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MUSICAL VIDEO: More and more by Cpa x Rizzy A @yung_cpa
CPA @yung_cpa ft. Rizzy A – More and More Dir. STANZ VISUALS
Sometime on 17th December 2015, CPA droppedMORE and MORE featuring RIZZY A. which undoubtedly received nice reviews and enjoyed airplay across the country. Now, exactly two months later, today , being the 17th day ofFEBRUARY, the young rap sensation decides to take things to a whole new level by releasing the visuals to the song as directed by STANZ VISUALSand shot on Lagos Island.
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MUSIC: Init by Isick @officialisick
ISICK has decided to kick off his 2016 with this banging new single
titlled INIT. the Redstar music artist has delivered nothing but
quality music over the years and he is not willing to relent, from OJA
JU to AMEN (in Olamides voice 'everything was a HIT back to back'). He
has proven to us that his reservoir of music will not run dry anytime
soon.
INIT was laced on an instrumental produced by D.A and EZMO mastered by
ALTIMS (of the mavins). download and enjoy.
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Saturday, February 20, 2016
MUSIC: Do you remember by John You @orangemusicpro
John You, born Nigeria from Abia State has spent most of his life time in South Africa has come to prove his vocals again on this new hitz RnB music titled "Do you remember" A love joint to get the love of your life.
This song is produced by Misteer Kenzo in Orange Music Nigeria.
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Tuesday, February 16, 2016
MUSIC: Mchil ft. Prime - Shake it @iam_Mchil
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Monday, February 15, 2016
Sunday, February 14, 2016
MUSIC: My blessing by Papa X JoeDeevans (Prod By Beat Monster) @papa9ja
Miss Papa is here with This Ghana/Nigeria Collaboration, Papa was in Ghana earlier this Year, for Holidays after the Busy Christmas Period, Even while on holidays, she still had to hit the studio withjoedeevans and Beat Monster, and this is presenting as a Val Gift to You All the Fans.. Download and Enjoy
Thursday, February 11, 2016
MUSIC:- Onion lover by Daddy Fresh @Daddyfresh9ja
Daddy Fresh ...Nigeria;s Finest Vocalist of all time, Song writer and
composer, producer , Actor and Model with this song for Lovers Titled
Onion lover
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SNIPPET MUSIC: Nonsense (Were beat) Misteer Kenzo ft. Mchil @misteerkenzo @iam_Mchil
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Wednesday, February 10, 2016
MUSIC: Omoh by Gunzz @obagunzz @stuntfmc @iamgunzz
Gunzz returns with a banging hiphop tune for the streets.Showing his versatility by dropping wordplay,metaphors as well as humor all in one jam.This is definitely a banger and we hear that a video for this is in the works.
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MUSIC: Blianji - That Thing (Prod. by Champagne Beatz)
FARAYOLA MOBOLAJI SOLOMON known asBLIANJI aka Da Lyrics Concal, a native of Ogbomosho in oyo state, born on 27 February 1992 in Agege and grow up in Agege Lagos Nigeria, Blianji, He started his Music Career Freestyling when he was a Small at the age 14yrs, and at the age of 19, he started recording is Songs in the Studio. BLIANJI also known as jiblen is an artist who do Pacua, Sing and also Rap, he is a Songwriter, an Entertainer and a Producer. He has work with some notable artiste and Producers in Music Industry. Currently working on his New Album and ready to take the Nigeria Music industry to the next level. Download this song by Blianji titled 'THAT THING and feel it.
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Tuesday, February 9, 2016
7 Fascinating Facts About The Hymen
The hymen—the small lining of tissue that partially covers the vaginal opening—is practically synonymous with a slew of lady-part myths: You’re not a virgin if you’ve popped your “cherry”! You’ll bleed the first time you have s*x! Remember those from back in the day?
Sigh. It’s time to get the story straight. Here are the hymen facts you never knew you needed in your life:
1. The Hymen Doesn’t Totally Cover Your v**ina
The most “normal” way the hymen presents itself is as thin tissue just at the bottom of the vaginal opening, says Fahimeh Sasan, doctor of osteopathy, an ob-gyn at The Mount Sinai Hospital in New York. “If someone has tissue that covers the whole opening, that’s called an imperforated hymen,” she says. There are other similar abnormal variants, too, where openings in the tissue are too small.
2. Abnormal Hymens Can Require Surgery
If your hymen is imperforated or separated (where there are two small holes in the tissue), you may need to have a minor surgery, says Sasan. In fact, an imperforated hymen is actually a medical condition—you’re getting your period but don’t have the physical discharge because it can’t pass through, she says. “In a truly perforated hymen, a young woman may say, ‘I’ve never had a period, but I feel like I get cramps.’” The minor surgery can fix the issue.
3. Experts Aren’t Sure of Its Purpose
Your nose helps you smell, and your urethra is where you pee—but the hymen doesn’t appear to serve any major purpose. “Physiologically, it’s there—but from a medical perspective, it’s akin to the foreskin of the man-hood: We’re not sure why it’s there,” says Sasan.
4. It Doesn’t Always Break the First Time You Have s*x
You’ve heard that when you lose your virginity, you also pop your cherry. “One of the big myths is that whether or not someone’s hymen is detached is a sign of virginity,” says Sasan. “That’s not true.” Why? Because there are other ways you can tear it besides s*x. Rigorous exercise, gymnastics, horseback riding, cycling, using large tampons, manipulation with a finger, or a pelvic exam are all possible (but not surefire) ways to tear your hymen, she says.
5. You Might Not Know When It Breaks
When you break your arm, you know the moment it happens—that’s not always the case here, says Sasan. If the tissue does tear during s*x, you may find intercourse painful and experience bleeding, she explains. But if the tear occurs during gymnastics or from wearing large tampons, for example, you may not even be aware of it. “Someone might say, ‘I bled after gymnastics,’ but might just think it’s spotting from her period,” says Sasan.
6. Some Cultures Still Obsess About It
Despite the fact that the hymen isn’t always a sign of virginity, some still treat intact tissue as a sign of purity. “In a lot of cultures, the hymen has become a huge thing,” says Sasan. “People even check before a women gets married to confirm that she’s a virgin.”
7. Once It Tears, You Never Really Deal with It Again
Remember: The hymen is a very small fragment of tissue, says Sasan. And if you do notice it break, it just goes off to the side or sloughs off never to be dealt with again. “In a woman who’s had a baby, you can’t even tell where it would have been,” she says.
PHOTOS: Pastor Reportedly Rose Baby Up from The Dead in Lagos
A Lagos pastor according to reports online rose a 6 months old child from the dead on Sunday, January 7th.
The report according to eyewitnesses say Dr. Chris Okafor of Mountain Miracle and Liberation City prayed on a child who was brought in dead in his church. The baby is said to have been sick for several weeks only to give up the ghost when they got to the church.
The pastor they say, commanded life back into the child and she came back to life. Exciting times…!
Sunday, February 7, 2016
MUSIC: Dj Mendo ft. Misteer Kenzo, Mchil & Banny - BADDEST (Prod. By Sensebeat3)
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GIST: Fast Rising Rapper "MCHIL" Set To Drop New Song @iam_Mchil
The fast rising rapper who has always been so hardworking and have been on couple of collaborations songs is always ready to give what it takes to do good music. Now he had decided to drop one of his old song which was recorded way back in 2012, he definitely sound different on this song titled "SHAKE IT" the song featured singer "PRIME" (Prime is among the Nigerian Idol contestant in 2015). Mixed by Cripsymixtee.. Sick tune!!! You gon love it. Song to be released on on Val day, 14th of Feb. 2016.
Saturday, February 6, 2016
MIXTAPE: New Year Mixtape (Hosted by Dj Orlly) @9jamusicspot1 Djorlly
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TRACKLISTS
I Intro by Mchil
1.Timaya - Like the way
2.Smooky - Be the man
3.Dj shiru x patoranking - Dance well
4.Younggreyc x patoranking - Chukwuma
5.J.Son - Me and you
6.Terry g - Nonsense
7.Gabazi - Elepon
8.Hdesign - Olosho gbera
9.Seriki x olamide - Somebody
10.Mcheal Ade - Sisi oreke
11.Dj spinal x yemi alade - Pepper dem
12.Libanty - Ginger
13.Ice prince - Boss
14.Misteer kenzo - Bosokoto
15.Mc galaxy - Komolop cholop
16.Mchil x misteer kenzo - Everytime
17.Patoranking - Make am
18.Flowzo - Commando
19.Komtru x cdq - Catch me dey dey
20.G.Real - Do me
21.Olamide - Don't stop
22.Cdq x wizkid - Nowo e soke
23.2tboyz x seriki x small doctor - Customer dada
24.Famous - Kuli
25.Skuki - Zero competition
26.Oriste femi - Nack am
27.Churchill - How much
28.Dre San - Highness rmx
29.Klever J x olamide - Go low
30.Small doctor x seriki - Oh my God
Outro by #Mchil
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Thursday, February 4, 2016
MUSIC: Obago by Proph-E
Many MCs Has Actually Paid Their Dues While Coming And Has Been Around Working Underground Just Like (Proph-E) And Finally Obago Master Drops His Brand New Single Titled "OBAGO"
This Song Has Been An Anthem On The Street And About To Catapult Into The World At Large....
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Saturday, January 30, 2016
Music: Let it show by Cruzy @cruzy0001
This song is produced by @wildfiretunes. its dope i can assure you and dont forget to make ur comment.
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Thursday, January 28, 2016
Reasons Men Cheat And What You Can Do About It
I don’t know how many times I’ve seen teary, heartbroken women throw their hands in the air while uttering the words, “If he wasn’t happy, why didn’t he just leave?”
The question in itself contains one very flawed assumption: that he was unhappy. In particular, that he was unhappy with you.
To make matters worse, this sentence is often used as a show of support from well-meaning friends. While their intention is to imply that the cheater is a stupid moron, the words only succeed in reaffirming your warped belief that you’re somehow inadequate — you’re too flawed, stupid, or ugly to make your cheating partner happy enough to be monogamous.
What if I said that the reason your man cheated had absolutely nothing to do with you?
Nope, nothing. Zero. Zip. Nada.
I don’t care if you occasionally nagged, put on a few pounds, or didn’t sleep with him frequently enough. PUH-LEASE. A confident, intelligent man who had a problem with his relationship would deal with the issue by talking to you about it. And if he didn’t get anywhere through talking, he would leave.
But he didn’t. Why?
Because he wasn’t unhappy with you.
Sure, if he gets caught he might try and justify his behavior by reminding you of some f**k-up you made in 1992. But really, that’s just the panic setting in.
The fact is, he went to great lengths so that you wouldn’t find out he was cheating. It would have been a hundred times easier for him to just leave and live the single life.
So why do men cheat? It’s all about self-esteem and the need for external validation.
Yeah, I know… you told him a thousand times that he was awesome. You agreed with that his boss is a jerk and that he’s clearly worth a far higher salary. You’ve told him countless times how good-looking he is, how funny he is, and how great he is in all areas of manliness.
But hang on… I already told you. This isn’t about you.
Of all the people who are likely to boost his self-esteem, it ain’t gonna be you. Why? Because he thinks he’s crap and you’re with him. So how could he ever trust your judgment? He needs to be good enough that other women want him, too.
Does this make it all OK? Hell no. We’re all responsible for our behavior and we all suffer from self-esteem issues. Those of us with a scrap of intelligence and maturity work on ourselves. To constantly seek external validation without taking action is simply lazy. And who could ever find a lazy man remotely appealing?
When it comes to what you should do about it, you have two options:
1. Forgive him, let it go, and stay.
2. Decide that you’re worthy of a more mature, confident man. Decide that even if you don’t find one straightaway, it’s really no big deal to be single. It’s far better than settling for a loser.
I’d far prefer option 2, but really, it’s up to you. But when you make your decision, just be sure to remove love from the equation.
Sometimes we fall head over heels for losers. And we somehow get it in our heads that the love we feel means something. The truth is, more often than not, love makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.
Cry your heart out if you need to. Stay or leave; it’s your choice. But never ask yourself that awful question: “If he wasn’t happy, why didn’t he just leave?”
Saturday, January 23, 2016
Things No One Tells You About Falling In Love With Your Best Friend
1. You'll Know Exactly What the Other Person's Thinking, All the Time
You don't need to bother trying to read your own best friend's mind because you already know what he or she is about to say. So while a relationship with somebody new often involves a lot of overanalyzing and sending nerve-racking texts, you won't have to play the guessing game this time around.
2. You'll Wish There Were More Hours in the Day
Time: you're going to want more of it. At first, you won't be able to get enough of each other. Now you can do the things you've always done as friends and things people do as more than friends. While you'll want to spend the whole day together, there are other people in your life who need your lovin' too, like family and the rest of your buddies. Don't forget it.
3. You Won't Stop Making Fun of Each Other
If you've always made fun of his obsession with that one childish video game and he's always picked on you for wearing that "weird" man-repelling top, it's not going to stop now. The only difference is that the teasing will probably end with a kiss on the forehead instead of a playful punch in the arm.
4. There's a Constant Fear You Live With
You could lose the most important person in your life — the one who plays the part of your best friend and boyfriend or girlfriend. If you're fighting with him or her, you might have to tap your mom or another friend for advice. You try not to think about what would happen if this all doesn't work out, but sometimes you do, and sometimes a mighty pang of anxiety comes along with it.
5. Dinner Plans Will Be Incredibly Easy
Planning your first dinner "date" will go something like this: "Wanna get pizza from that place we tried that time?" "Yeah." And you'll probably split the bill, just like you always have. And you'll feel totally comfortable stuffing your face in front of each other, just like you always have.
6. You'll Fight a Lot Sooner Than You Expected
You've never been afraid to tell this person how you feel, and that's not about to change now that you've entered a romantic relationship. If you're angry about something, there's less of a chance you'll hide it and more of a chance you'll lay it on the line. Your best friend already knows what irks you and when to stop pushing your buttons. And you won't hesitate to remind them, lest they forget.
7. You'll Start to Care About How You Look in Front of Them, Even If You Didn't Before
Your best friend's probably seen you in your sweats with no makeup on plenty of times. Because really, you never put a second thought into how you looked. But now, you'll have fun getting dressed up and feeling sexy in front of your SO. There's a newfound level of attraction there, and you'll really enjoy it.
8. It's Worth It
No one ever tells you to go ahead and fall in love with your best friend because of the risk factor. If all goes wrong and things end badly, there's the chance you'll lose someone who's a very important part of your life. But you'll also never know a bond as strong as the one you share with someone who truly cares about you, supports you, laughs with you, and also happens to be in love with you. There are a lot of crazy decisions you'll make in life. If you get the chance, you should totally let this be one of them
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